The double standards on here are getting out of hand

And?
Don't read the stuff, then, if it bothers you.

The vast majority of replies is against affairs it's unfair to cherry pick on a few unhinged morally bankrupt replies and tar the entirety of a huge forum as misandrist and double standared.
I love that MN is prowomen, the entire internet sphere is dominated by men and their disgusting porn can't we have something for us?
You can deregister anytime. I don't like Redditand their creepy pervy subs so I avoid it. Try this?

I agree with you. The double standards take my breath away sometimes.

This!

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/relationships/5263409-no-judgement-please?page=1

And...?

Always report posts where men are pilloried and discriminated against. There are a lot of posters who try to chase away men. MN HQ does act on openly discriminatory posts. Unfortunately, there are a lot of them.

So am I. MNHQ welcomes us.

Unless you’re referring to specific posters having different standards for men and women YABU. Mumsnet isn’t a hive mind, it’s not possible to say it’s double standards based on the comments of different groups of people posting on different threads.

sure, to include all women (the non penised kind)

and some men

but it's still women dominated and I for one and very thankful for it

By the same posters?

Or maybe it's full of women who are sick of mens shit and want women to see through their partner's shitty behaviour.

Yep. This website and countless others are parasitic. If a man behaves even a little bit thoughtlessly it's all 'LTB' and meanwhile women are being encouraged to continue affairs. Misery is company i guess.

I'm a woman with no children. I'm not the only one. We go through this every few months. The site has moved on with HQ blessing.

this is the ONE place in the entire internet that I have found that is woman dominated and women centered for discussions

go onto Reddit and join any one of the many subgroups dominated by men if you don't like what women here are saying

I have learned so much from the women on Mumsnet and I am so thankful it exists. I love how we do not bow to men here.

If you don't like it OP then you can toddle off to the rest of the male dominated internet.

I get so tired of men coming in here to complain, in this case because OP did not get the response he wanted from his thread the other day

I read that thread OP and I swear most of the advice you sought was good solid advice, I think you're fixating on the bits that were critical of you. Being defensive rather than listening. An oh so male response.

MN HQ always make it clear that it is a site for all parents. It is not for Mums only. I always report threads where female posters try to chase away male posters. It is completely against Talk Guidelines.

Yes and no.

People give advice to others based on their own experience, it's often a projection on their own life, eg the successful ones saying: follow your dreams, a positive advice. The ones who failed and struggled or know people who struggled will advise to be pragmatic and choose a uni course based on job market or to not go all in on a hobby and keep a secure job. Same with relationships. Most people are overstressed and undersexed in long term relations, from looking around me.

Secondly, people are more brazen and direct when it's an anonymous platform. The world IRL really is like this, most people are not rational and wise, most are biased and using this forum to vent, giving out biased advise.

Half the answer is asking at the right place, so stomp up and pay a professional or someone you knoe IRL to have dealt with what you are going through. Online, people post and the replies could be from anyone, sometimes if you only knew how these people live their lives you would never ever have asked them for advice so ignore the crazy or inappropriate comments because people of all backgrounds can post. This is the nature of posting online so the advice source is unfiltered and at times quite unhinged, with hidden agenda or a huge projection of their own life.

In general, life is not split 50 50 men to women, equality doesn't mean the same treatment it means bridging the differences to give fair and appropriate results. There are social and biological differences between the sexes (menopaise, mat leave, women often going part time while dad full time) so of course reactions will be different and it's appropriate that the advice is sometimes different based on sex. To ignore the differences betweeen men and women would lead to inequality.

Boohoohoo

Dry your eyes OP and maybe post on a man's forum if you want to be told how awful your wife is 🙄

So what?

You hone in on one thread with a few posters you disagree with and judge the whole of Mumsnet by these replies whether other posters may disagree or not?

Talk about selection bias.

And when it's pointed out, we're accused of being incels. It's unhinged.

Agreed. A lot of short haircuts and clenched jawlines for sure.

It's MUMSnet

the clue is literally in the name

MUMS are women

Take your cape off and let grown men fight their own battles.
As for Mumsnet "not being a site for women; it's a PARENTING website"......
No man posts on this site without the expectation and a lot of the time , entitlement to overwhelmingly female interaction or support.
The internet is overrun with male opinion and entitlement of mostly female sites.
It's bloody great that there is a place where they are not given priority, no matter how many of them and caping women seem to have interpreted the notion of Equality to mean "the exact same without no consideration whatsoever for the way society is set up to over promote even the most basic of men , of any race , once they perform the bare minimum of adult expectations."
Most women on Mumsnet regarding the Patriarchy and how it affects down to the minutae of interpersonal relationships....most of us are instinctively, even if not intellectually, "hip to game", thus come here in the expectation that the usual social purviews are not replicated here.
Public houses are legion if it's a typical "poor Fred" opinion that a man expects from a non invested audience.

I agree. It is frustrating to read similar subject threads and advice is so different iritis from a man or woman. I always think it is funny when a woman complains about her partner and everyone sides with her until she reveals that she is in a same sex marriage, when posters are suddenly flummoxed about who to side with.

Absolutely.
This is more complicated than everyone being indulgent to women and critical of men every time.
Also I tend to reply more briefly and less sympathetically to some of the ‘man looking for a female perspective’ posts because I don’t quite believe them and suspect that they are intended to provoke women into insulting other women.