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Fakinguntilyoumakeit · 11/11/2024 20:35

Hi, I have been suffering from midcycle bleeding for 3 or 4 months. I get pain on my left side, which feels like a dull ache. It goes around to my hip and lower back on the left side. The bleeding is light, and only when I wipe and pinky red coloured. It is intimittent stopping and starting again over about 2/3 days. I am also constipated. I am 39, no pain during sex and no vaginal dryness.

What could this be? Has anybody experienced similar symptoms?

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Permenatlyworried · 10/05/2026 08:52

Any update op?

merryandbrightdelight · 10/03/2025 22:02

@Fakinguntilyoumakeit just checking in to see how everything went op

Fakinguntilyoumakeit · 28/11/2024 12:12

coffeesaveslives · 28/11/2024 11:24

@Fakinguntilyoumakeit there are certain red flag symptoms that mean they have to refer you - I know it's nicest but try and remember that 9/10 referrals on the pathway don't result in a cancer diagnosis - they just have to rule it out for certain as obviously it's not something that can be left.

Thank you @coffeesaveslives dh is saying the same thing.
I have been searching online for symptoms that would rule anything serious out. I am also hoping the swabs the gp took will come back before my appt, and I am hoping so much that they'll show no abnormal cells. If anything does show, hopefully it is early judging on my overall symptoms. I have energy despite taking sedating meds to control epilepsy, no heavy bleeding, no spotting in first half of cycle. The spotting hasn't been every month, this month was the first time I have had this all through the luteal phase, which coincides with the cervix visual showing the irritation on the bottom end, no abnormal discharge. My cervix hasn't had any pain, i didn't't feel much during the check.I am hoping these are good signs, and pointing hopefully towards endometriosis. Fingers crossed, worst time of year with it leading up to Christmas as well.

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coffeesaveslives · 28/11/2024 12:09

@Fakinguntilyoumakeit that's really good, hopefully you get a positive outcome 🤞☺️

Fakinguntilyoumakeit · 28/11/2024 11:48

coffeesaveslives · 28/11/2024 11:40

I've found the ANP at our practice much better at dealing with "women's issues" than the GP - it may be more productive to book a nurses appointment, especially as they can refer you for more tests if needed.

Thank you. The GP I saw is really good, she is very experienced and specialises in women's health. She has been extra thorough in referring for all of the tests. I am very lucky to have seen her, she is in demand! She is also lovely, and a rare find.

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Fakinguntilyoumakeit · 28/11/2024 11:45

LostTheMarble · 28/11/2024 11:34

Oh dear, I’ve been having this for months and just assumed it was age as well. Had a hpv positive a couple of years ago but the following smear said it was gone. I’m on the pill and still have 2-3 week long periods every month, small bleeds in between and constant pain in my left side/pelvis. Consent burning pain in my left breast as well, but being early peri menopausal is a thing in my family. I have mentioned it to a doctor who didn’t seem that concerned! I hope everything goes as well as possible for you @Fakinguntilyoumakeit . Might have to reconsider the gp myself after reading this thread.

Oh sorry to hear @LostTheMarble I think especially with having the abnormality a couple of years ago, and your pelvic pain. Maybe you could ask this gp to refer you for a scan/another cervical check, or a second opinion from a nother gp. It could be hormonal, especially with you being peri men. I'm unsure if the pill would balance the hormones out or not. I would definately ask for a nother check to find out the definate cause.
I found with my last smear test 6 months ago, the young nurse did it so fast she couldn't possibly have gotten a good visual of my cervix. The visual aspect is the main reason I go to them, because the hpv test itself you can do at home (the reliability of that I don't know though; I wouldn't trust myself to do it properly either).

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coffeesaveslives · 28/11/2024 11:40

I've found the ANP at our practice much better at dealing with "women's issues" than the GP - it may be more productive to book a nurses appointment, especially as they can refer you for more tests if needed.

Fakinguntilyoumakeit · 28/11/2024 11:36

Forgot to say @merryandbrightdelight if you don't have the NHS appt, it is really good. You can just click on test results and it shows them, you don't need to look at your full record. It is also great for showing appointments/referrals first.
I also have a GP app for my surgery where again you can just click on results, often they show before the letter even arrives. Might be worth checking.

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LostTheMarble · 28/11/2024 11:34

Oh dear, I’ve been having this for months and just assumed it was age as well. Had a hpv positive a couple of years ago but the following smear said it was gone. I’m on the pill and still have 2-3 week long periods every month, small bleeds in between and constant pain in my left side/pelvis. Consent burning pain in my left breast as well, but being early peri menopausal is a thing in my family. I have mentioned it to a doctor who didn’t seem that concerned! I hope everything goes as well as possible for you @Fakinguntilyoumakeit . Might have to reconsider the gp myself after reading this thread.

Superscientist · 28/11/2024 11:29

The 2 week pathway is for anything that could possibly be cancer even if the likelihood is slim.
My mum has ongoing stomach issues for the last 10 years causing her to have issues swallowing. She's been put on the 2 week pathway multiple times whenever she sees the GP about her swallowing being worse. They are 99.9% sure that it is the ongoing issue that is flaring up again but there is always a slim possibility that there's a cancerous mass that is causing the swallow issues and they have to act as if the worst case is potentially reality.

My fil was sent for a CT scan on the 2 week pathway and the only flag he had was previous cancer. They discovered stage 4 bowel cancer. His consultant said he wouldn't have sent him for the scan based on his symptoms so it really is best to act as if cancer is an option even if it is unlikely.

coffeesaveslives · 28/11/2024 11:24

@Fakinguntilyoumakeit there are certain red flag symptoms that mean they have to refer you - I know it's nicest but try and remember that 9/10 referrals on the pathway don't result in a cancer diagnosis - they just have to rule it out for certain as obviously it's not something that can be left.

DreadingWinter · 28/11/2024 11:20

I had this. It was a large benign tumour in the uterus. Once removed it never happened again.

merryandbrightdelight · 28/11/2024 11:14

@Fakinguntilyoumakeit hope you get on ok

merryandbrightdelight · 28/11/2024 11:14

@Fakinguntilyoumakeit thank you - I have just rang up then as it got me thinking, but there wasn't any results, so the secretary is going to ask the nurse to chase it. It does sound like they may request the scan following any findings from your colposcopy. I found that my mid-cycle bleeding started after coming off the depo and between finishing my period and ovulating, so I am just hoping that it is hormone related. A friend of mine is a women's health nurse so it's been reassuring to chat with her. If you are worried, ring the clinic and explain that you've read your referral; I found that they were really understanding and explained why I'd been referred

Fakinguntilyoumakeit · 28/11/2024 11:07

merryandbrightdelight · 28/11/2024 10:59

Oh I'm sorry you've read that - I avoid my NHS app as I do suffer badly with health anxiety and it causes it to spiral.

I did mention the bleeding but they said the same as I thought - I did too much too soon (boot camp, heavy lifting etc). I experienced similar after both of my ELCS. I haven't rang up about my results as the nurse did say she would be in touch, and I haven't had any letters through the door yet. My smears have all thankfully been normal up to now and I do bleed when I have them done as I have a retroverted uterus so I get sent to the clinic to get them done usually because the GP struggles.

I do know however that sometimes they have to say certain things to get scans etc. when I had an ultrasound the nurse told me that they have to use certain keywords because the scan requests usually go to a panel who decide if they can be granted

I hope everything will be okay with you, and that you get your results soon. It does sound positive that the sensitivity is the norm for you.
My smears don't hurt, the check yesterday didn't hurt. I am hoping this is a good sign "for me", because this is my norm if that makes sense. I wish the gp had have said if I look at my record not to be concerned. I've been an anxious wreck since reading that. I don't know if endometriosis can cause both the pelvic pain and the cervical etroption, but she did mention that. Suddenly the USS hasn't been mentioned again. I am wondering if this would be decided depending on the result of the coloscopy. She has written back up routine gynaecology app 2 weeks after the coloscopy to discuss underlying causes. I wonder if this is when they would do the scan if needed.

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merryandbrightdelight · 28/11/2024 10:59

Fakinguntilyoumakeit · 28/11/2024 10:31

@merryandbrightdelight I am so sorry that you have been experiencing that. Have you rang up to ask about your results? I think you need to let them know straight away about the heavy bleeding.

My appointment for the coloscopy is in 2 weeks time. They have also said I may need a hysteroscopy which scaring me a little, as I have heard they can be painful.

I had a smear 6 months ago which was normal, all of my smears have been normal, and no abnormalities have ever been found in the past, which is why this has all been a bit of a shock. During the cervical examination yesterday the GP said she could see an inflamed red part on the bottom. It didn't bleed when she first swapped it, but it did when she did it a second time. She then said this and all of my symptoms with my left pelvic hip & lower back pain could be endometriosis, nothing about any chance of cancer was mentioned. She fast tracked the coloscopy referral and I received an appointment for 2 weeks time, just 2 hours after my gp appt.
I looked on my gp record app, and is says fast track referral for suspected cervical cancer, but then in the box she has written "?endometriosis ."

I couldn't sleep last night.

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Oh I'm sorry you've read that - I avoid my NHS app as I do suffer badly with health anxiety and it causes it to spiral.

I did mention the bleeding but they said the same as I thought - I did too much too soon (boot camp, heavy lifting etc). I experienced similar after both of my ELCS. I haven't rang up about my results as the nurse did say she would be in touch, and I haven't had any letters through the door yet. My smears have all thankfully been normal up to now and I do bleed when I have them done as I have a retroverted uterus so I get sent to the clinic to get them done usually because the GP struggles.

I do know however that sometimes they have to say certain things to get scans etc. when I had an ultrasound the nurse told me that they have to use certain keywords because the scan requests usually go to a panel who decide if they can be granted

Fakinguntilyoumakeit · 28/11/2024 10:31

@merryandbrightdelight I am so sorry that you have been experiencing that. Have you rang up to ask about your results? I think you need to let them know straight away about the heavy bleeding.

My appointment for the coloscopy is in 2 weeks time. They have also said I may need a hysteroscopy which scaring me a little, as I have heard they can be painful.

I had a smear 6 months ago which was normal, all of my smears have been normal, and no abnormalities have ever been found in the past, which is why this has all been a bit of a shock. During the cervical examination yesterday the GP said she could see an inflamed red part on the bottom. It didn't bleed when she first swapped it, but it did when she did it a second time. She then said this and all of my symptoms with my left pelvic hip & lower back pain could be endometriosis, nothing about any chance of cancer was mentioned. She fast tracked the coloscopy referral and I received an appointment for 2 weeks time, just 2 hours after my gp appt.
I looked on my gp record app, and is says fast track referral for suspected cervical cancer, but then in the box she has written "?endometriosis ."

I couldn't sleep last night.

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merryandbrightdelight · 27/11/2024 22:07

@Fakinguntilyoumakeit she said everything looked as it should, and took the biopsy from the site where the bleeding was coming from, and my letter that they sent the GP said about an ectropian. I'm still waiting for my results. I went on my own and it was fine, although I did overdo it the week after and caused some heavy bleeding, so just make sure you don't do too much

Fakinguntilyoumakeit · 27/11/2024 20:39

Spotted this at the end of my appt email:

You may also need a hysteroscopy (a fine telescopic examination of the uterus).

Had anybody had this before? Is it painful?

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Fakinguntilyoumakeit · 27/11/2024 17:07

merryandbrightdelight · 27/11/2024 16:44

I had a colposcopy 2 weeks ago op with a punch hole biopsy and to be honest, it was nowhere near as painful as I was expecting (and I have health anxiety and cried at the thought of it!). I also had an ectropian which they cauterised as well as cauterising the biopsy site. Silver nitrate does give you a crampy tummy afterwards but it wasn't too bad.

Hope all goes well for you

Thank you @merryandbrightdelight that is good to know. Have they told you your results from the colposcopy? I wasn't sure if they tell you straight away, or later.

Gosh, the things women have to go through! I think I'll have to go alone, dh will need to pick the dcs up from school.

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merryandbrightdelight · 27/11/2024 16:44

I had a colposcopy 2 weeks ago op with a punch hole biopsy and to be honest, it was nowhere near as painful as I was expecting (and I have health anxiety and cried at the thought of it!). I also had an ectropian which they cauterised as well as cauterising the biopsy site. Silver nitrate does give you a crampy tummy afterwards but it wasn't too bad.

Hope all goes well for you

Fakinguntilyoumakeit · 27/11/2024 15:33

Thank you both. I have been contacted with an appointment for the colposcopy, it is in 2 weeks time. This was on the back of the GP referral this morning. It is worrying me that it is happening so fast, but I know they have to rule out the worst, even if there is such a tiny chance of it.

I'm trying not to worry, and to go about the build up to Christmas positively for my little dcs. Last year was bad enough, because my lovely dad died not long before it.

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ThisAquaCrow · 27/11/2024 14:58

Any new and unexplained mid cycle bleeding needs to be assessed OP. Despite what some of the armchair medics have been telling you, I’m glad you are seeing a good GP who has done the right thing by referring you.

A rapid/urgent referral will always cause anxiety but do remember that many, many people referred in this way do not have a cancer diagnosis and it’s important to rule it out first.

Anotherworrier · 27/11/2024 14:53

Well your cervix was normal 6 months ago so that’s really reassuring!

Look at it this way… a GP can’t ignore these symptoms on the balance of probability, if you go to a GP and report these symptoms it’s their duty to rule illness and disease out.

I really hope all goes well! Let us know how you get on! xx

Fakinguntilyoumakeit · 27/11/2024 14:37

Anotherworrier · 27/11/2024 14:32

Oh sorry!! Yes, you know what? it was a while ago but I think they did. Because it got burnt off very quickly and I remember saying there’s a growth on my cervix but they had some more tests to do.

These symptoms are ones that raise red flags but even in the majority of cases where people are referred under the two week rule very few are diagnosed with anything sinister.

I think they’re being through and ruling stuff out, thank God for our.NHS! I know it’s scary but please try not to worry unless the time comes that you have to!!

Ah, thank you so much for replying. I am 39, with 2 little dcs, and the whole thing has made me feel a bit sick.
Yes, I am so grateful. The GP is a lovely lady, specialising in women's health. She is one of the best in the practice, and I am really pleased to be seeing her. She said she looks forward to hearing how I got on. Hopefully that means she is quietly optimistic. I was expecting my cervix to look normal. I have had all of my smear tests, my last one only 6 months ago, and they have all came back as normal. This morning was unexpected to say the least.

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