I’ve been feeling recently that I’d like to be better at celebrating friends’ birthdays. Since having children, I’ve been mostly rubbish at this, but now they’re older I’d like to make more effort. But I can also be stupidly busy at times and miss stuff - like I might be organised enough to buy a card well in advance, but then I’m too late to write and post it. So I was thinking I might buy and write cards all in one go, or 6 monthly or something, and then I only have to remember to post them on time (which somehow seems more manageable!) AIBU??