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Sciatica /slipped disc

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Allofaflutter · 14/04/2024 14:29

Posting here for volume of answers.
Yesterday I moved normally and my lower back suddenly felt like it was being compressed and the pain was awful. Since then pain down one leg. The pain is like cramp but the worst cramp ever. Leg is much worse than back.
I have been screaming all night, literally in so much pain I couldn’t help it, worse than child birth. Couldn’t sit, lay or even perch. Even standing which was when it was best, it was at 9 out of 10. Hubby called 111 and paramedics were sent as I had a pulmonary embolism in Jan and I was screaming with the leg pain and he wanted to be sure it wasn’t that again. They told me to take codiene and paracetamol but it’s not doing anything really significant. They said it was sciatica, possible slipped disc causing it. What can I do to calm the pain. Obviously I’ll call dr tomorrow. Can’t take nsaids as I’m on blood thinners for blood clots. I’ve had no sleep either. Can’t use topical creams for the same reason. Anyone had similar? Can anyone tell me what worked for you? Can’t stand for days though I can just about not cry if I stand. Can’t lay to sleep. Help please? I’m exhausted but the pain won’t let me lay or sit. How long will this go on for?

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HansSolo22 · 15/04/2024 06:47

I have suffered many years with sciatic nerve pain and it’s crippling. I have constant low/medium level pain plus flare ups of excruciating pain. I found monthly physio, low dose daily amitriptyline keeps the worst of the pain under control and through flare ups it’s strong cocodamol and diazepam. It’s still extremely painful but seems to get me through it. I hope you can get some help soon.

Planesmistakenforstars · 15/04/2024 07:07

How are you today OP?
The only thing that worked for me was surgery, which is not what you want to hear. I did find 2 positions which were comfortable and let me get some rest in the meantime . One was on all fours, though not useful for sleeping, the other was kind of propped up on my side. I couldn't sit normally, but if I leaned to the side away from the slipped disc, with that arse cheeky off the ground, and put my weight on my other side against a wall of cushions and pillows, I could get some rest.

Acupuncture was the only thing that gave me actual relief and allowed me to sort of walk without extreme pain. It only lasted until I had to get in the car to go home though!

sunstràck · 15/04/2024 07:09

I feel your pain so much OP. I several herniated discs and main issue from one in particular is not being able to sit down. I've had cortisone injections, Meloxicam and muscle relaxants, over time they have improved (until yesterday when I stupidly lifted something heavy 😭) I joined this Herniated Disc FB group https://www.facebook.com/groups/95535021966/ for a bit of support, especially when I was at my lowest mentally and physically. You might find some answers there about suitable medication

Triflelife · 15/04/2024 07:54

@tabulahrasa i’m not in the 90% either sadly. Months on and still have a numb foot and foot drop - although with physio the foot drop has improved from where it was. You have my sympathy- wish we were not the 10%

Allofaflutter · 15/04/2024 11:39

I’m home now. Got cocodamol, amtriptline and diazepam

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Allofaflutter · 15/04/2024 11:39

MRI not done and still in pain.

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Allofaflutter · 15/04/2024 11:42

I be got a call with dr. I need oromorph at home. Dunno if they will let me. The pain is cripling.

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2BabyOrNot2Baby · 15/04/2024 12:02

I had this for about 5 months (but I had an 8 month old so I pushed through it everyday leading up to that, no doubt making it worse!) and one day woke up and it was significantly worse to the point I couldn't do anything. Sit, stand, walk, nothing.
As the day went on it got worse and worse and eventually I lost control of my bladder and was urged by 111 to get to A&E asap. Got there and the triage nurse told me they weren't going to do anything for sciatica 🫠 so I just cried at her and very meekly sobbed 'but I can't wee'. She seemed a bit annoyed that I was refusing to go home, but a scan a few hours later showed just how far my disc had actually slipped out. My 'sciatica' resulted in Cauda Equina and I've been told that if I didn't get in and have surgery when I did, it's very possible it could've caused paralysis.
That was almost a year ago and I still have problems with my back now and have days where moving feels absolutely horrific but so much better than back then, so please get this seen to properly as soon as you possibly can!

I really do feel for you, it's the worst pain I've ever experienced. I'd take labour again over that.

tabulahrasa · 15/04/2024 12:07

Allofaflutter · 15/04/2024 11:42

I be got a call with dr. I need oromorph at home. Dunno if they will let me. The pain is cripling.

The hospital gave me oramorph to take home, but when it ran out the GP gave me tramadol instead.

You might be a while waiting for an MRI, I’ve only ever had them at A&E, the last one they checked the waiting list for an emergency neurology one and it was 2-3 weeks (which is why they just did it instead)

susiedaisy1912 · 15/04/2024 12:15

Oh op just reading your posts gave me chills. I did the same thing years ago and the pain was unbelievable. I had diazepam and some sort of morphine to take at home. I couldn't move. Had to pee laid down into a jug. Couldn't shower for nearly a week. Fucking terrible. Still makes me go cold at the thought of it 15 years later. You have my sympathy. It will get better though keep in touch with your doctor and book an osteopath. Flowers

Flowersandforests · 15/04/2024 12:19

Hope you’re feeling a little better today OP & I really hope the pain eases for you soon.

i know this will be furthest from your mind at the moment but one thing I would really recommend if financially you are able to, is to outsource as many ‘chores’ as you can for the forseeable future and really focus on resting & recovering.

My pain wasn’t as severe as yours (still pretty painful but I was able to move around, albeit slowly!) so I tried to carry on cleaning, food shopping, cooking etc and made my slipped disc a lot worse.

bombastix · 15/04/2024 12:43

I never managed to get an MRI quickly; it took months. Recently was back in the NHS for this and had to pay privately for one.

Mischance · 15/04/2024 13:10

I paid privately for my MRI and subsequent surgery. It was either that or be incapacitated for months (I could barely walk) and get addicted to hard drugs.

The delays on the NHS cause such problems as conditions deteriorate during the wait.

I am seeing a cardiologist privately at the moment as an NHS appointment would have taken a minimum of 5 months. During that time I would have been unable to walk far without shortness of breath and I would have become steadily more unfit, and the damage to my heart would have worsened. It is all a bloody disgrace.

Allofaflutter · 15/04/2024 14:12

Still waiting for dr to call. Now numbness has spread to other leg.

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2BabyOrNot2Baby · 15/04/2024 14:22

Allofaflutter · 15/04/2024 14:12

Still waiting for dr to call. Now numbness has spread to other leg.

Please make sure to mention absolutely everything to your doctor. Some things may seem small and irrelevant but it can't hurt to mention them and actually may increase your chances of better treatments. Don't let them fob you off, I let mine do it for months and just kept getting told they'll put me on a waiting list for physio or putting me on various NSAIDs, none of which helped

peebles32 · 15/04/2024 15:53

I have had an mei recently and 2 slipped disc. It's just a. Case of sit it out unfortunately or lay it out. Took me two weeks before I could get out of bed. Even the toilet was excruciating getting there.

peebles32 · 15/04/2024 15:59

This is the third time my disc has slipped in past year. Does losing weight really help. I have been told to do yoga and strengthen the muscles in my core.

Allofaflutter · 15/04/2024 16:21

Dr called and giving me oromorph but only a tiny bit. So only have when it’s unbareable. Didn’t seem worried about other leg going numb.

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Allofaflutter · 15/04/2024 16:23

It’s mostly 8,9or 10/10 pain wise. Still can’t lay down. All I can do is perch, even then it isn’t comfy.

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pelotonaddiction · 15/04/2024 17:23

Try not to sit, it's so bad for your back
Standing is much better if you can
Or lie on your side with a pillow between your knees
Numbness is fairly usual as the nerve gets trapped

keeptalkinghappytalk · 15/04/2024 23:15

Hope you re getting some ( chemically induced) sleep OP x

Allofaflutter · 16/04/2024 12:20

I’ve not had any real sleep. Still can’t sit or lay. I’m perching or standing leaning over the back of the high sofa back where I’ve passed out a few times from the pain. I now have a small bottle of oromorph but the dosage I’m allowed is tiny. 1.25-2.5ml a time. It’s not done anything.

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Allofaflutter · 16/04/2024 12:22

I can’t get comfy at all. Last time I slept properly was Friday night.

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Allofaflutter · 16/04/2024 12:25

During the early hours I was tempted to take a much larger dose of oromorph. In A&E they gave me 10ml in one go and it took the edge off. I’m unsure why my dose is so tiny.

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Katiesaidthat · 16/04/2024 12:25

Allofaflutter · 14/04/2024 14:40

DH would take me it’s just coping with the extreme pain for 30 mins when I sit to get in car. I couldn’t even sit on loo for 30 secs to pee. I had to pee into a jug.

My husband had to take me to hospital lying down in the back of the car, fuck seat belts. It was agony.
My neighbour was taken to hospital (screaming like a banshee in pain) by ambulance and was admitted, they had some job controlling the pain.
Had a good laugh reading over the counter meds will do it. Yeah, right.

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