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Sciatica /slipped disc

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Allofaflutter · 14/04/2024 14:29

Posting here for volume of answers.
Yesterday I moved normally and my lower back suddenly felt like it was being compressed and the pain was awful. Since then pain down one leg. The pain is like cramp but the worst cramp ever. Leg is much worse than back.
I have been screaming all night, literally in so much pain I couldn’t help it, worse than child birth. Couldn’t sit, lay or even perch. Even standing which was when it was best, it was at 9 out of 10. Hubby called 111 and paramedics were sent as I had a pulmonary embolism in Jan and I was screaming with the leg pain and he wanted to be sure it wasn’t that again. They told me to take codiene and paracetamol but it’s not doing anything really significant. They said it was sciatica, possible slipped disc causing it. What can I do to calm the pain. Obviously I’ll call dr tomorrow. Can’t take nsaids as I’m on blood thinners for blood clots. I’ve had no sleep either. Can’t use topical creams for the same reason. Anyone had similar? Can anyone tell me what worked for you? Can’t stand for days though I can just about not cry if I stand. Can’t lay to sleep. Help please? I’m exhausted but the pain won’t let me lay or sit. How long will this go on for?

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Cazzovuoi · 14/04/2024 14:59

DiveBombingSeagull · 14/04/2024 14:39

Can you lay down on the back seat of a car on your side? You need to be seen. I ended up having to have surgery.

Same here. DH drove me to A&E and I was lying across the seats in the back.

2 fairly large doses of morphine in A&E allowed me to move a bit and talk but I needed surgery because I couldn’t walk with the pain.

You have my sympathies OP, it’s horrendous.

Mabelface · 14/04/2024 15:00

Get to physio as soon as you can or see an osteopath. I get it intermittently and am currently suffering due to slipping and jarring the nerve a week ago, asking with a minor sprain on the same ankle. I'm doing physio 3 times a day which does give relief.

Allofaflutter · 14/04/2024 15:08

saveforthat · 14/04/2024 14:39

Yes they only consider this urgent if you lose control of your bladder/bowels. If you do lose control of either, dial 999 or get someone to rush you to A&E.

So don’t go to A&E if I’m ok with pee/ poo? Don’t want to put myself through the torture to be told go home.

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saveforthat · 14/04/2024 15:11

It's your call of course and if you don't have anything stronger than codeine you might want to go just to get some stronger drugs. Be prepared to wait hours. Morphine never touched mine though and amitriptyline is a build up.

Triflelife · 14/04/2024 15:20

I had huge herniated disc last year. Had MRI in a&e because the sciatica was bilateral. Even if you get the mri there is no treatment at the hospital as such just the diagnosis. I was told it was a year wait for surgery if it got to that but it was a wait and see. Diazepam was the only thing that stopped the muscle spasms for me. Was on that and Tramadol for about a week while transitioning to amitrypiline. I was given a diazepam when I first was triaged but A&e wouldn’t prescribe me any diazepam at all to go home with so has to contact my GP anyway afterwards. You have my total sympathy it is beyond awful.

Sunnytwobridges · 14/04/2024 15:20

Prednisone always helps me.

ChickenMaths · 14/04/2024 15:26

Absolute sympathy OP, sciatica was one of the worse pains I've ever felt and I've been through some painful stuff! Like you I can't take NSAIDs due to previous bowel obstruction which is frustrating.

I definitely found the TENs machine best- and some tramadol. Also I was a lot more comfortable sleeping propped up on the sofa so I didn't move around so much.

rebeccachoc · 14/04/2024 15:38

Tramadol was the only thing that helped my back. You can only really be prescribed it if a doctor has seen you, so try and call 111 and ask if a GP can do a home visit, explaining you can't get in a car and the paramedics were useless. I've suffered for more than half my life so I totally understand your suffering. I'll keep everything crossed that you get the help you need.

pelotonaddiction · 14/04/2024 15:39

rebeccachoc · 14/04/2024 15:38

Tramadol was the only thing that helped my back. You can only really be prescribed it if a doctor has seen you, so try and call 111 and ask if a GP can do a home visit, explaining you can't get in a car and the paramedics were useless. I've suffered for more than half my life so I totally understand your suffering. I'll keep everything crossed that you get the help you need.

They weren't useless Confused

What can they do?
Take you to a&e
Advise to stay at home and contact GP

it's not like they can cure it or do much else

3teens2cats · 14/04/2024 15:57

I had this a couple of years ago. It's horrific isn't it. You need good painkillers and a proper assessment. If you can find a pharmacy open then co-codamol can be bought over the counter. Gp first thing in the morning and in the meantime keep an eye our for caudia equina symptoms. I was given gabapentin and codine. Sent for mri to confirm the slipped disc following which I was offered either surgery or a nerve block injection. I took the injection which worked well for me. In all it took about a year to get better but painkillers made it manageable duringthat time. I still have a bit of numbness in the leg but no pain anymore. Lying on my left side was the only position which was comfortable.

Justkeepingplatesspinning · 14/04/2024 16:24

I recognise everything you're describing. Sciatica is horrific but lying on your front on a hard surface might help. I needed a cocktail of naproxen and codrydamol longer term, and diazepam for 3 days to help relax things. The more tense I got, the worse the pain was.
I'd be phoning the out of hours GP and asking to be seen, especially as this has been going on for a good few hours now.

Allofaflutter · 14/04/2024 16:28

I can sit! Without screaming. I’ve decided to try and get some sleep. DH isn’t fit to drive either as he’s been up too. Then I’ll reassess. I’m cautious of going to a/e on a weekend too. Would they even scan me on a Sunday. I’m upping my codiene I’ve only has 30mg a time and the limit is 60mg 4 times a day said my dh who looked it up.

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Allofaflutter · 14/04/2024 16:29

Lying on my front I’ll try. Unfortunately naproxen and blood thinners are no big no. Diazepam I will ask about.

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Allofaflutter · 14/04/2024 16:33

I appreciated the paramedics coming out. Initially I thought it might be another blood clot as it was on a few months ago I had so many. That was life threatening so they were very reassuring I’m not dying which I honestly believed I was from the pain but they just can’t do anything for sciatica. Said a/e wouldn’t do anything unless I had pee/poo problems and said talk to gp.

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WowIlikereallyhateyou · 14/04/2024 16:40

I couldn’t deal with opiates they made me feel ill. So i iced my back and leg to take down the swelling/ disc on the instructions of my chiropractor. You shouldn’t apply heat in the early stages until swelling has gone down. I either laid flat or stood, and visit chiropractor regularly now.

wonderingwhatlifemeans · 14/04/2024 16:45

I can't have ibuprofen because of Crohn's disease so I also partake of diazepam when the pain and spasms are at their worst.

HappyKatieA · 14/04/2024 17:19

The only thing that takes my pain away when like this is ice. I literally have an Ice pack on all the time, we've hit about four that I rotate.
I hope this helps, it's awful pain.

rickyrickygrimes · 14/04/2024 17:23

Tens machine helped me a lot. Also ice - frozen peas. And lying in my front with pillows under my stomach, and head dangling off the bed.

i tried every painkiller mentioned here and the only one that really worked was prednisone (cortisone steroids).

Sunnysal · 14/04/2024 17:28

Don't let chiropractors near your back. A few are good, many do damage and can leave you unable to walk. Try curling up rather than laying straight .

Flowersandforests · 14/04/2024 17:30

Ahh OP you poor thing, sounds awful.

I slipped a disc end of last year. Probably not the best long term, but I found lying half slumped on the sofa was the only way I could get vaguely comfortable. I also found a
hot water bottle helped too - but it needed to be really hot.

I would strongly recommend seeing an Osteopath rather than a physio, the physio made mine worse but Osteo has honestly made the world of difference.

Allofaflutter · 14/04/2024 18:04

Thanks for all the tips. 111 sent me to hospital for scan. Wet myself and legs feels numb and weird like I’ve got a high heel on. On route now. Car not as bad as it could be to sit in .

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abracadabra1980 · 14/04/2024 18:11

Oh bless you-I've been there with a sacroiliac joint and it was horrific. All I could do was lie across the back seat of the car and be driven - and walk with a stick until I got sorted. It took about a year to get better - Pilates was amazing. Drug wise I was on Tramadol, Codeine (I prefer Tramadol during the day as they don't make me sleepy), Codeine at night as that does sedate me mildly, and also Diazepam for the initial spasm. I also took Naproxen but obviously that's out for you. Good luck and please keep us updated.

wheresmyshoe · 14/04/2024 18:29

Huge sympathy, it is excruciating. Diazepam took my back out of spasm but recovery took months and normal movement years. I'm still wary as I never want to feel that again. Wish you well.

Allofaflutter · 14/04/2024 18:54

2 hour wait so that’s good. Living rurally does have some pluses fewer people! Car journeys was bareable thankfully. Painful but bareable.

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