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To think I'm not unfit

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Pickingmyselfup · 31/03/2024 18:34

For years I've been suffering from shortness of breath. It feels like I can't get enough oxygen in my body but it's not constant. Sometimes it's every day and then sometimes it's hardly ever.

It first started in 2012 when I was planning my wedding and although I didn't feel hugely stressed I put it down to that. It carried on in fits and starts and was present when I have birth to my first child on 2015. It was picked up that my heart rate was abnormally high but several tests showed nothing wrong. The visits to the doctor about my breathing previously showed nothing physically wrong, it was suggested that I was just unfit.

Fast forward to 2024 and my breathing is flaring up again. It's been alright recently but this last week has been really bad. I constantly feel out of breath, every now and again I get a good deep breath but I don't feel satisfied for want of a better word.

I am now probably the fittesr I've ever been, last year I was running regular 10Ks and weight lifting 3 times a week, now I'm starting the running again on a tougher course so instead of my 10K taking 1 hour 7 it's taking 1 hour 18 but the hills are insane. I'm still weight lifting, I work on my feet 4 days a week and aim to walk the kids to school and back (4 miles total) as much as possible.

Now I haven't been for a run since a week last Thursday or the gym a week ago today because I've had an injury and trying to rest it. The kids have also not been at school so although I've been at work I've been doing less walking overall.

Surely though that wouldn't make a huge difference and make me suddenly gasp for breath?

Should I go back to the doctors and see what they say? Could it be mental? I don't feel stressed right now but I often do feel overwhelmed because the bulk of everything is on me (cleaning, school stuff, pet stuff, child stuff) but my job isn't the kind that I take home. It can be stressful in the moment when it's all go but honestly it's a walk in the park.

I'm so fed up, it's impacting my life but everybody seems to think it's my own doing! I can't make myself any fitter overnight, I can't stop stressing when I'm not stressed! Argh!

OP posts:
Toogles · 31/03/2024 18:59

There are lots of free yoga and meditation classes on youtube. 🙂

Pickingmyselfup · 31/03/2024 18:57

Catopia · 31/03/2024 18:48

Agree with poster above - get iron levels tested.

Also, from what you've written, it does occur to me that it may be anxiety-related. It may be worth considering something that allows you to slow down a bit a breathe - either some meditation time, or perhaps adding a yoga class to your gym routine, may be beneficial.

The only thing I can do is fitness pilates once a week, my gym doesn't offer anything else outside of my work hours and I can't really afford to pay for somewhere else, especially when I'm paying to sort out an injury through pyshio. I do hope we get more classes in the future and I can take up yoga at a more convenient time.

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midgetastic · 31/03/2024 18:56

400 sounds quite low ?

Search peak flow rate chart - woman aged 30 might expect 420 too 460

Catopia · 31/03/2024 18:48

Agree with poster above - get iron levels tested.

Also, from what you've written, it does occur to me that it may be anxiety-related. It may be worth considering something that allows you to slow down a bit a breathe - either some meditation time, or perhaps adding a yoga class to your gym routine, may be beneficial.

Pickingmyselfup · 31/03/2024 18:42

SantaBarbaraMonica · 31/03/2024 18:37

Asthma?

I get tight chest/breathing when a bit anxious and stressed but I’ve also wondered if it’s actually asthma.

get yourself a peak flow tester. It’s a very simple thing. Get some readings daily and when you’re feeling tight chest. And go to GP!

I actually have a kids peak flow because one of the kids has very mild asthma.

I don't know what my results should be but I'm not quite getting to 400. I have also tried a brown inhaler before and that hasn't made any difference.

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gamerchick · 31/03/2024 18:39

I just put it down to falling iron levels and get on the liquid iron for a bit.

SantaBarbaraMonica · 31/03/2024 18:37

Asthma?

I get tight chest/breathing when a bit anxious and stressed but I’ve also wondered if it’s actually asthma.

get yourself a peak flow tester. It’s a very simple thing. Get some readings daily and when you’re feeling tight chest. And go to GP!