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How long for ESTA approval?

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Acourtof · 05/08/2023 17:58

Starting to panic!! We’re flying to the US tomorrow afternoon and I only just remembered that we all need ESTAs 🤦🏼‍♀️

Submitted applications online. Website says up to 72 hours to come through. We’ve got 24 hours…

DH and I have travelled to the US several times and never had an issue. Our young DC have never been to the US, so I’m worried that it will need extra time for a first application.

Any comfort please on your own recent ESTA timelines, especially for DC? Thank you 🙏

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notimagain · 07/08/2023 15:18

@Choux

I think you’re effectively talking to the hand. In some jobs the degree of complacency on show would get you fired, but this is social means so…….

DaisyAndDonaldDuck · 07/08/2023 14:42

@Choux Again, no point booking the flights and getting the insurance if you don’t have a valid ESTA.

An ESTA is the most important thing because you aren’t getting into the country without it. It’s certainly not a low priority.

Choux · 07/08/2023 14:30

@DaisyAndDonaldDuck and still the cherubs want to wear their crowns 👑

The OP booked her flights using Avios points. Am sure to get the dates they wanted they had to pounce on the flights as soon as they saw them and they booked months ago. You then get insurance in place asap in case there is a need to cancel or some other event occurs but the ESTA - which we saw takes a few hours to come through goes lower down the priority list.

Then regular life takes over : work, kids, family, perhaps a few other events like moving house, illness or death of a parent, remortgaging or other money concerns, friends having problems and you want to be there for them and hopefully a bit of leisure time and fun too.

Suddenly you realise the day before travel that you haven't got an ESTA yet. That's cutting it fine and stressful but it came through in time. Ask any check in desk operator and I bet they see invalid passports and missing ESTAs on an almost daily basis.

Normal organised intelligent people forget things occasionally when busy and dealing with life. What I find abnormal are people coming on here to say they would never forget anything as if they are some superior beings when actually you are probably just not as busy as the people who do forget things. (as evidenced by the fact that you and a couple of others have the time to come on here and repeatedly berate the OP and anyone else who has been forgetful and ended up in a tight spot)

To err is human

There but for the grace of god go i

DaisyAndDonaldDuck · 07/08/2023 13:49

Acourtof · 07/08/2023 08:36

Wide awake in the middle of the night here and feeling amazingly grateful for the wonderful support I got from you guys yesterday ❤️ Thank you.

Here’s a crown 👑 for the 2 or 3 sanctimonious cherubs who never forget a thing. Well done darlings. You’re extra special amazing 😂

For your children's sake I’m glad you got there.

This isn’t something that should have been able to be forgotten because it should have been done before you booked.

This will thankfully serve as a lesson to others.

heldinadream · 07/08/2023 11:45

Acourtof · 07/08/2023 08:36

Wide awake in the middle of the night here and feeling amazingly grateful for the wonderful support I got from you guys yesterday ❤️ Thank you.

Here’s a crown 👑 for the 2 or 3 sanctimonious cherubs who never forget a thing. Well done darlings. You’re extra special amazing 😂

GrinGrinGrin extra special amazing sanctimonious cherub darlings!
Well done OP, so glad you got there ok. Enjoy yourselves!

Daisyhoney · 07/08/2023 08:57

So happy everything has worked out for you - have an amazing time 🎢

IAmAnIdiot123 · 07/08/2023 08:49

I've never been so stressed reading a MN post ! So glad I only found it this morning haha! I wooped when I read approved!

Enjoy your holiday OP! I know that dread in your stomach feeling, its horrid! You deserve a bloody big cocktail 🍹

Dappy55 · 07/08/2023 08:39

I am so glad this is sorted, had a similar sinking stomach feeling when, at the tail end of covid, having concentrated on getting all the covid admin done, was asked to see proof of esta. Had done it months ago, couldn't find anything to do with it and search wouldn't work. Luckily it did eventually and it was approved but I still feel stressed when I think of that moment!!

Acourtof · 07/08/2023 08:36

Wide awake in the middle of the night here and feeling amazingly grateful for the wonderful support I got from you guys yesterday ❤️ Thank you.

Here’s a crown 👑 for the 2 or 3 sanctimonious cherubs who never forget a thing. Well done darlings. You’re extra special amazing 😂

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autienotnaughti · 07/08/2023 08:27

Thrilled for you. Enjoy!

Nellodee · 06/08/2023 18:46

This happened to me. I didn’t want to say anything until the thread had a happy ending. My family were travelling to Canada to see grandparents. We’d been several times before and hasn’t realised they introduced The ETA since the last time we’d been. I realised a couple of days before we traveled. Three out of four came straight back, but one of my daughters didn’t come until about six weeks later. We ended up having a haven camping holiday instead. :(

megansmarkle · 06/08/2023 18:29

@Scalottia miss perfect aren't you .

saltinesandcoffeecups · 06/08/2023 18:28

Choux · 06/08/2023 18:18

Pride comes before a fall.

If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything.

Right…

I do always sort of side eye these situations but then instantly mentally slap myself and say it could happen to anyone at any time. I’m damn near neurotic when it comes to travel documents and requirements but know I’m one oversight away from being in the same situation.

Traveling during Covid was my own special hell with different testing and vaccine requirements between different countries.

Weepingwillows12 · 06/08/2023 18:27

I am so glad this worked out! Had my fingers crossed all day for you. Now relax and enjoy.

LubaLuca · 06/08/2023 18:19

Scalottia · 06/08/2023 18:11

Because I don't understand how some adults can't manage this very basic stuff especially for a 'holiday of a lifetime'. I can't stand disorganised people, they do my head in. That's the point of my comment, and I am entitled my opinion on an open and public forum. Does this answer your question?

Weird that you've taken this as a personal insult. Are you seriously saying that a stranger forgetting something for a holiday you're not invited on has 'done your head in'? 😄

Choux · 06/08/2023 18:18

Pride comes before a fall.

If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything.

Scalottia · 06/08/2023 18:11

WiseUpJanetWeiss · 06/08/2023 17:45

OP or her DH cocked up. She asked for advice and support, and got it. Several other people will have read this thread and gone straight to apply for their ESTAs.

What exactly is the point of your comment other than to crow about your infallibility?

Because I don't understand how some adults can't manage this very basic stuff especially for a 'holiday of a lifetime'. I can't stand disorganised people, they do my head in. That's the point of my comment, and I am entitled my opinion on an open and public forum. Does this answer your question?

megansmarkle · 06/08/2023 17:59

aSpanielintheworks · 06/08/2023 17:49

Ahh Bless you, I had to scroll through to check for a happy outcome before I told you my DD went on a gap year passing through a NY connection, never even left the airport so didn't know she needed an Esta, nowhere on the booking line suggested it. First we heard was when they pulled her put of the check -in line at the airport.

They said usually Estas come through either instantly, or 24 hours later. Rarely anything in between.

She missed her flight, luckily booked onto one the next day but nobody at the airport told us that was even possible until checki in closed, leaving a sobbing dd thinking she had lost her life savings on a trip she couldn't go on.

One of the most stressful things we've ever done.

Just for reference it's the duty of the flyer, not the airline to make sure you have the correct visa,m

fairydust11 · 06/08/2023 17:56

Oh my gosh op, I’m so relieved and happy for you! 😅 Have a fabulous time.

aSpanielintheworks · 06/08/2023 17:49

Ahh Bless you, I had to scroll through to check for a happy outcome before I told you my DD went on a gap year passing through a NY connection, never even left the airport so didn't know she needed an Esta, nowhere on the booking line suggested it. First we heard was when they pulled her put of the check -in line at the airport.

They said usually Estas come through either instantly, or 24 hours later. Rarely anything in between.

She missed her flight, luckily booked onto one the next day but nobody at the airport told us that was even possible until checki in closed, leaving a sobbing dd thinking she had lost her life savings on a trip she couldn't go on.

One of the most stressful things we've ever done.

WiseUpJanetWeiss · 06/08/2023 17:45

Scalottia · 06/08/2023 16:41

And most of those reasons boil down to simply being disorganised and/or not researching what you need. Travel requirements change all the time. We all have workload at home, so that's not really relevant.

OP or her DH cocked up. She asked for advice and support, and got it. Several other people will have read this thread and gone straight to apply for their ESTAs.

What exactly is the point of your comment other than to crow about your infallibility?

Dixiechickonhols · 06/08/2023 17:15

SerafinasGoose · 06/08/2023 17:10

I just have been. This thread made me realize I likely need a Canadian ETA to visit the horseshoe falls at Niagara.

I have two weeks to sort it, but until OP posted this thread it simply never occurred to me. Very glad I happened upon this thread.

We’ve just double checked Canada but are arriving by land (from USA) so don’t need. Always worth checking.

SerafinasGoose · 06/08/2023 17:13

NB I don't, apparently - and didn't when I visited before - but I certainly had a moment's wobble!

SerafinasGoose · 06/08/2023 17:10

notimagain · 06/08/2023 16:52

I’m not even going to try to give an exhaustive list of reasons.

What I do know is nobody is infallible and anybody who thinks they are so smart they’ll never foul up on passports/ESTAs/Visas/inoculation requirements and whatever else is required is probably going to be in for a shock at some point.

I just have been. This thread made me realize I likely need a Canadian ETA to visit the horseshoe falls at Niagara.

I have two weeks to sort it, but until OP posted this thread it simply never occurred to me. Very glad I happened upon this thread.

notimagain · 06/08/2023 16:52

Scalottia · 06/08/2023 16:41

And most of those reasons boil down to simply being disorganised and/or not researching what you need. Travel requirements change all the time. We all have workload at home, so that's not really relevant.

I’m not even going to try to give an exhaustive list of reasons.

What I do know is nobody is infallible and anybody who thinks they are so smart they’ll never foul up on passports/ESTAs/Visas/inoculation requirements and whatever else is required is probably going to be in for a shock at some point.