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How long for ESTA approval?

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Acourtof · 05/08/2023 17:58

Starting to panic!! We’re flying to the US tomorrow afternoon and I only just remembered that we all need ESTAs 🤦🏼‍♀️

Submitted applications online. Website says up to 72 hours to come through. We’ve got 24 hours…

DH and I have travelled to the US several times and never had an issue. Our young DC have never been to the US, so I’m worried that it will need extra time for a first application.

Any comfort please on your own recent ESTA timelines, especially for DC? Thank you 🙏

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Poetnojo · 10/05/2026 16:44

I applied for ours again last week for our trip next month, finished the application around 11.30 or 12 the other night then went to bed, next morning when I checked I had gotten the email to say status change around 1 am and actually thought of this thread 😅

Acourtof · 10/05/2026 13:46

Resurrecting my old thread from summer 2023.

We’re off to Disney World again this August and I’ve just applied for our ESTAs a full 12 weeks in advance!! Lesson learned 😅

I still remember the absolute panic last time. I was convinced we weren’t going to get them in time. I was so grateful for the support and kindness from (nearly!) everyone on this thread 🥰

So this is your friendly reminder for anyone travelling to the US this summer…check your ESTA dates and apply early!

Hope everyone has a fabulous holiday ☀️🇺🇸

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Qilin · 11/08/2023 11:31

@Qilin I have never forgotten any of those things. I am surprised at people who do.

I'm naturally very organised. Fortunately! And I create mini spreadsheets, add key dates to an online calendar, etc routinely, So, it's rare for me to forget things like these.

However, I'm also not infallible and I'm also aware it can just be the one slip that makes all the difference.

For example, I checked all of our ESTAs one year when we went to Orlando. The print outs I had were all well in date. I sorted out one for dd's friend who was travelling with us. Everything sorted - or so I thought. What had slipped my mind was that dd had needed a new passport between booking the holiday and going. It was only at check in 48 hours before leaving that the error was found - and it wasn't even that obviously. I just wouldn't let dd check in on time. Everyone else's went through but it kept giving me an error for dd. It never once said what the error was. I tried all sorts of solutions for ages, in a panic! It was only then it suddenly dawned on me - in the hectic time when sorting DD's passport (had a fairly tight turn around for her due to it running out between a previous holiday and a school trip abroad) that I'd forgotten to renew her ESTA. Luckily it was back when it was near instant approval,so,was sorted that evening.

But as it goes to show - even if you are normally organised and have strategies in place to avoid mistakes happening - it just takes one busy event to let things fall down.

So I'm not naive enough to believe that no one is infallible!

wonderstuff · 11/08/2023 11:14

So happy for you OP, can relate a little to the stress, last time we went to the US, a postponed covid trip, we had to do supervised pcr tests, the stress was unbelievable, dh dropped his swab mud test, thankfully camera superviser didn’t pick it up, we got all clear but the thought of missing out after all the planning was just awful, never again!!

TregunaMekoides · 11/08/2023 11:03

I just read this thread - that was a roller coaster ride! So glad they came through OP. I had my heart in my mouth as when we first went to the states with our eldest 10 or so years ago, we were advised to leave up to 2 weeks for the ESTAs to clear!!

Hope you have a fabulous holiday, I love Disney World.

RoomOfRequirement · 11/08/2023 10:59

Scalottia · 11/08/2023 10:46

You sound lovely 🙂 Please show me where I laughed at the OP?

Also, that day won't come for me, because I am organised. How on earth do people forget a Dr. appt?

@Qilin I have never forgotten any of those things. I am surprised at people who do.

I'm organized af too. Never missed an appointment or forget an ESTA or missed an expired passport. But I'm also not a sanctimonious that who comes onto threads where OP is under such a large amount of stress to brag about how amazing I am and how I just COULDN'T POSSIBLY do something so stupid.

If I had to choose between knowing OP and knowing you, I'd absolutely choose the OP.

Scalottia · 11/08/2023 10:46

ManateeFair · 08/08/2023 14:22

No, I have never forgotten to do something like this

When the day comes on which you do inevitably mess up, I hope everyone laughs like fucking hyenas at you.

You sound lovely 🙂 Please show me where I laughed at the OP?

Also, that day won't come for me, because I am organised. How on earth do people forget a Dr. appt?

@Qilin I have never forgotten any of those things. I am surprised at people who do.

lexilulu · 08/08/2023 14:23

There's always a twat @Scalottia

ManateeFair · 08/08/2023 14:22

No, I have never forgotten to do something like this

When the day comes on which you do inevitably mess up, I hope everyone laughs like fucking hyenas at you.

ManateeFair · 08/08/2023 14:20

Scalottia · 06/08/2023 18:11

Because I don't understand how some adults can't manage this very basic stuff especially for a 'holiday of a lifetime'. I can't stand disorganised people, they do my head in. That's the point of my comment, and I am entitled my opinion on an open and public forum. Does this answer your question?

I can't stand disorganised people, they do my head in.

Occasional human error is a thing. Someone can be the most well-organised person you've ever met, but they will still, once in a while, forget something important. It happens. Forgetting one important thing, once, does not make the OP 'a disorganised person'. It makes her human.

Unless you are planning on going on holiday with the OP, which seems unlikely, her situation affects you in precisely zero ways. So maybe just try to relax a bit, because if you spend your life having your head done in by situations happening to complete strangers with no impact on you, you'll end up exhausted.

Qilin · 08/08/2023 12:06

Scalottia · 06/08/2023 16:20

How do people actually forget to organise visas/ESTAS etc...it's one of the first things that should be thought about! Like those people who book everything only to realise that their passport has expired, honestly it's common sense and not worth the risk of disappointing your children when you have to cancel. How do people honestly forget to check this stuff?

Life sometimes gets in the way.
And with something like a Disney holiday there is a lot of stuff and dates to remember, so much to organise before you go.
All it takes it to drop the ball once, easily done.

Ideally you'd joy everything down, have calendar reminders, so things straight away - but life isn't always that straight forward and people get distracted every day.

Why do people forgot their purse? Why do people get locked out of their house/car? Why do people forget a doctors appointment? Why do some children get sent to school in uniform on non uniform day(and it not be a choice)? The list could go on forever.

All every day stuff but also things people forget regularly. Unfortunately some have bigger consequences than others.

AutumnNymph · 08/08/2023 09:51

@Scalottia you seem to have forgotten something a lot more important though, empathy and compassion.

Scalottia · 08/08/2023 04:56

Acourtof · 07/08/2023 08:36

Wide awake in the middle of the night here and feeling amazingly grateful for the wonderful support I got from you guys yesterday ❤️ Thank you.

Here’s a crown 👑 for the 2 or 3 sanctimonious cherubs who never forget a thing. Well done darlings. You’re extra special amazing 😂

Thanks for the crown OP. No, I have never forgotten to do something like this, especially something as important as an ESTA etc. I don't think I am amazing, but I am glad that I have never experienced the avoidable stress that you did. Enjoy your trip.

Katkincake · 07/08/2023 22:14

Just caught up on this thread, I’ve never read something that gave me so much anxiety😵I’m so pleased you managed to get them through in time.
We go on October and I will be triple checking in the run up to check they're still all valid. Have an amazing time.

Plankingplanks · 07/08/2023 22:00

I always leave my ESTA till late because I tend to travel every year around the same time and if I get it too early it runs out before I've had the use of it! You generally get them back super quickly so I'd never apply until a week before I fly. In fact did it this year for family (mine was still in date).

Glad so many virtuous people on here like to think they'd never screw up anything.

AlleycatMarie · 07/08/2023 21:37

So happy for you!!! What a relief! Have a wonderful time in Disney, it’s the best!! X

MummyJasmin · 07/08/2023 21:23

What a stressful thread!
So glad you and especially your kids got to go!

Sleepytiredyawn · 07/08/2023 20:48

A good few years ago mine was instant, but my boyfriends might have been a few days or so.

tiredandnearly40 · 07/08/2023 20:27

I felt every emotion with you on your comments OP and am so glad you got a happy ending!

DH and I had both ‘overlooked’ the visa situation last year and when checking in were asked where our ESTA’s were. Cue confused faces and then mass panic.

We applied and then sat pretty much in silence as we were both so anxious. Boarding closed and they were not back.

DH was trying to organise alternative flights but they were coming in at around £1800, whilst I sobbed and sobbed, when by some miracle happen and they came back.

Virgin were amazing and whisked is through first class and we were the last ones on the plane. I don’t think I relaxed until we were half way across the Atlantic!

I hope you have the best holiday!

royalwatch · 07/08/2023 20:11

this thread has given me
steess

i always thought it was instant

you live and learn

Diva66 · 07/08/2023 18:21

Have a fabulous holiday lovely 💕

BashfulClam · 07/08/2023 18:07

Enjoy your well deserved holiday, wear those sandals, also on that sun cream and enjoy.

BiteyShark · 07/08/2023 15:20

I book flights as soon as they open so around 11 months normally in advance. I do get my ESTA in plenty of time but only because I have seen that if it doesn't get approved it can take months to get one in person.

However I can totally understand why some people don't know about it or think I'll do that later and forget.

And I do get mine after booking flights and hotels because I know I can cancel them usually up to about 2-3 days before I fly. Therefore there is no reason I would need to get an ETSA prior to booking anything.

notimagain · 07/08/2023 15:18

‘’Social media…” gasp….a mistake….

SunsetOverParadise · 07/08/2023 15:18

I’m so happy for you, OP. The stress reading this thread was immense (and I was reading when there were 17 pages already!) so I cannot imagine how you felt. I’m so glad it worked out. I’m at WDW later this year and I dread to think how I would feel if I was in your shoes. Have an amazing time!

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