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Dog friendly supermarket

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Ilovepooches · 12/02/2023 09:41

Yesterday at about 11.45 I went to ALDI Hatfield and saw a dog in there.
It didn’t appear to be a service dog - no obvious jacket or peas stating so. The lady with the dog was very loud in praising the dog so wasn’t even trying to be discreet. The dog was spaniel size, looked like a Tibetan terrier to me. By the time I saw them they were at the checkout then a few minutes later they were walking around again as it looked like the lady had forgotten something.

AIBU to think the staff shouldn’t have allowed this. I love dogs but this was completely inappropriate.

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Moobae · 12/02/2023 19:41

I have a dog too and I wouldn’t bring them in a shop/supermarket I only been to pet stores with them

powershowerforanhour · 12/02/2023 18:06

"Clearly you don't love dogs"

Why? I love dogs (one of mine is snoring on the sofa beside me, the other has plonked herself at my feet) but I don't think mine should be allowed everywhere even though they are well behaved, gentle with children and pretty clean.

MissMaple82 · 12/02/2023 18:01

Allschoolsareartschools · 12/02/2023 10:29

I feel exactly the same, I don't want dogs in areas where there's food. I like them but choose not to have one yet they're basically everywhere & YABU if you don't welcome them it would seem.

Christ, I worked in a supermarket, you should be more worried about the state of the humans that go in them and work in them touching everything than a dog that just walks around minding it's own.... then there's the rats and mice that live in almost every supermarket warehouse!

MissMaple82 · 12/02/2023 17:59

Rattlethestars · 12/02/2023 09:47

I love dogs but I'm bloody fed up of them suddenly being allowed everywhere.

Clearly you don't love dogs

powershowerforanhour · 12/02/2023 17:58

"have never caught worms from a dog (and as anyone can spot from my comments on another thread today, its entirely possible!)...

I have caught worms from a child."

Threadworms won't blind you, Toxocara might.

And yes, I know the risk from a dog vs soil where dogs have been is low. But still.

Two wrongs don't make a right. Children have a legal right to be pretty much everywhere in society. Dogs do not.

"If your child is so scared that he runs into the road then you should probably address that issue. Sounds pretty dangerous! Meeting/seeing them in shops all the time would maybe even have a positive effect."

Random meetings with random dogs owned by random owners in an enclosed space where you can't see round the corners is not the place to desensitise a phobic child. (same with dog reactive dogs).

WiddlinDiddlin · 12/02/2023 17:48

The mass hysteria over the hygiene of dogs baffles me.

I have never caught worms from a dog (and as anyone can spot from my comments on another thread today, its entirely possible!)...

I have caught worms from a child.

I have never in fact had any infestation of parasites upon my body from a dog - I have caught nits and impetigo and ringworm from children.

I have witnessed children licking filth off the ground, sticking fingers down their own bumcracks (well down their pants) or in dirty nappies and smearing it everywhere and licking their fingers, ditto fingers up noses.

I have witnessed children pissing and shitting in public places including in shops.

I have found dirty nappies left in public places by parents.

I have seen kids handling fresh foods and putting them back (or parents taking them and putting them back) with obviously filthy hands.

Please tell me how dogs are dirtier again?

Mumoffairy · 12/02/2023 17:46

Theunamedcat · 12/02/2023 10:27

For everyone saying "he isnt jumping up licking the food" how do you know? Are you watching? Is anyone? Dog allergies are serious there is no need for a dog to be there

Also my son is scared of dogs not all dogs he likes the ones he has been introduced to he even helped walk one the other day! But when confronted with a strange dog approching him recently he ran into the road I had to yank him out and force him to walk past the dog he was making distressed squeaking noises the dog was attracted to the noise the owner could see I was struggling and approached me WITH THE DOG to berate me for having a child who was scared of her fucking dog ds was dragging me back towards the busy road trying to get away I pointed out she wasn't being helpful asked her to back off she kept insisting her dog was fine I said DS isn't and he will attack BACK OFF PLEASE

Can you imagine this in the supermarket?

Allowing well behaved dogs and owners in lead to not well behaved dogs and their owners coming in

And no he has no issues with service dogs because they ignore him and don't approach him

Ive seen children grabbing food and taking a bite and parents who put that fruit/vegetable back when they notice it.
Dogs are at least on leads and more under control.
Obviously if they arent well behaved they shouldnt be there, but where I live dogs are allowed everywhere and the misbehaving ones are the minority, because people usually leave those at home.

If your child is so scared that he runs into the road then you should probably address that issue. Sounds pretty dangerous! Meeting/seeing them in shops all the time would maybe even have a positive effect. And would be way less dangerous than on the road.

powershowerforanhour · 12/02/2023 17:42

"Someone came in with their elderly dog that just dribbled wee everywhere. I saw another dog sniffing at the wee and then weeing beside it too. Dogs compete with other dogs for wee supremacy. Also, dogs may get aggressive with each other, even if they're fine with humans.

In a pet shop it's yucky enough; in a supermarket totally inappropate."

True. I work in a vets and clueless people stand watching their entire male dogs sniffing at the side of the doorway on the way in, the corner of the reception desk, the shelves with food bags on and the legs of the consult table ALL THE DAMN TIME, then express surprise (if they even notice at all) when the dog naturally lifts its leg.

We're usually on the ball to point out the pre-pissing behaviour so the owner can stop it, or at least handy with a mop, blue roll and disinfectant spray, but some of this is inevitable. We're also very handy at knowing which dogs need to be kept away from other dogs and doing dog tetris to keep everyone safe.

A increasing, ever changing throughput of dogs down narrow supermarket aisles with loads of vertical surfaces and owners whose attention is on what fabric softener they want to buy is a recipe for piss splatters everywhere.

Plus as previously noted, it's not fair on people with allergies. Fine to have some pet friendly pubs and cafes, especially if people have a choice of dog free ones, but not essential shops.

TheFrozenCanal · 12/02/2023 17:39

*licked not linked

XenoBitch · 12/02/2023 17:38

It takes a certain type of nasty person to take their dog to the supermarket, shops, pubs and cafes without the dog being a guide dog

It is not really nasty when the owners of an establish allow dogs. The café I frequent is dog friendly. The staff always come and hi to visiting dogs, offer them treats and post their photos on their social media.
If me taking my dog to such a place makes me "nasty" then I dread to think what you think of actual nasty people.

TheFrozenCanal · 12/02/2023 17:38

MasterBeth · 12/02/2023 17:33

What kind of shit do you think is on their shoes? Dog shit, that's what.

I know a couple who were visited by environmental health because of the dog mess outside their property. They said they didn't have to clean it up because the land doesn't belong to them.

TheFrozenCanal · 12/02/2023 17:36

By the way, I'm seeing dogs way more here than in france.

TheFrozenCanal · 12/02/2023 17:36

75% of people voting on this thread have said yanbu, so perhaps retailers can bear that in mind.

I read somewhere (possibly mumsnet) that people bought dogs en masse in covid and now people feel they have to take them everywhere.

I have just moved north and am finding that there are many more people in my new region who do this than my old one. We went in a cafe by the sea, just about every other person had a dog.

Today we went to a local attraction which has a sandpit. A woman had her large dog sitting in the children's sandpit, so my children played with something else. Then we went to a garden centre and went inside to pay and the staff member had several dogs off the lead near the till - they were barking loudly and ran up to and linked my small ds. He was really surprised.

I think that it will reach saturation point as more and more people feel, well if everyone is doing it, it's ok, like with smoking, and there will come a time when there are so many that they all get banned.

Now, what to do about my neighbour's cat that keeps crapping on our lawn for my children to tread in....

MasterBeth · 12/02/2023 17:33

Gall10 · 12/02/2023 16:04

I’d far sooner have a dog walking on the floor of a supermarket than some pathetic parent letting their children sit in the trolly with their filthy sh1t soled shoes..especially now that a lot of supermarkets expect shoppers to put fruit & veg into trolley without bags. If the child’s small then sit it in the trolley seat. If it’s older it can walk! I’m on Team Dog!

What kind of shit do you think is on their shoes? Dog shit, that's what.

GinUnicorn · 12/02/2023 17:27

Definitely not! Nothing against dogs but some of us are allergic. I’d really like to be able to shop without steaming eyes and nose thanks.

I get that dogs are cute but seems a bit crap for those who can’t be near them because of allergies or phobias.

stepmad · 12/02/2023 17:24

Me too I was in Tesco one was in there then in 5he really busy changing rooms after a children's swim lesson I tried 9ver the thing several times .

Dogscanteatonions · 12/02/2023 17:20

Dogs should not be supermarkets! Apart from service dogs of course. I literally photo posted the other day about a dog pissing all over the floor in a cafe and the owners just giving it a wipe with a tissue instead of informing staff so it could be cleaned properly.

PlaneMum19 · 12/02/2023 17:13

It’s Hatfield. Can’t expect much more :D
(I grew up there so I’m allowed to say that) in all seriousness I bet the staff just didn’t want the hassle maybe?

WeWereInParis · 12/02/2023 17:05

I’d far sooner have a dog walking on the floor of a supermarket than some pathetic parent letting their children sit in the trolly with their filthy sh1t soled shoes

I wouldn't let my child sit in the trolley, but they are not clean places regardless.

Also, if a child did have shit on their shoes, it would probably be from a dog, that an owner couldn't be arsed to pick up after.

Lockheart · 12/02/2023 16:52

jazzandh · 12/02/2023 16:40

I think it's actually quite odd that people equate dogs with a festering cesspool of disease and germs, but it's your fellow shopper that hasn't washed their hands, after using the bathroom, coughing, sneezing (with flu/covid/noro) etc that touches the food/tills/doors/trolley handles that is going to cause you
to get sick!

Pretty much. Dogs are dirty, people are dirty, supermarkets are pretty dirty as well (as anyone who's worked in one can attest), but most of the time dirt isn't going to do you any harm and isn't a problem.

GoodChat · 12/02/2023 16:49

ForestMountainsDesertOcean · 12/02/2023 16:41

Dog culture gone mad. Imagine comparing children to beasts that eat shit, lick their genitals and roll in fox poo, and choosing to prefer dogs. I'm embarrassed for such people.

When you put it like that, the dogs seem much more sophisticated than the kids Grin

ForestMountainsDesertOcean · 12/02/2023 16:41

Dog culture gone mad. Imagine comparing children to beasts that eat shit, lick their genitals and roll in fox poo, and choosing to prefer dogs. I'm embarrassed for such people.

jazzandh · 12/02/2023 16:40

I think it's actually quite odd that people equate dogs with a festering cesspool of disease and germs, but it's your fellow shopper that hasn't washed their hands, after using the bathroom, coughing, sneezing (with flu/covid/noro) etc that touches the food/tills/doors/trolley handles that is going to cause you
to get sick!

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