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Would you rather stay in U.K. or aus

265 replies

whytesnow · 02/01/2023 23:40

And what's your reasons? Just had a crazy idea to move over as I don't have any commitments here and life is getting boring for me here

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londonrach · 03/01/2023 07:47

UK. Couldn't afford to live in Oz and Never want to live in Oz. Got cousins who lived in Oz since birth and all left now as they can't afford to live in their birth country.

magicthree · 03/01/2023 07:46

@BoganKiwi - hear, hear, well said!

BoganKiwi · 03/01/2023 07:40

cantley · 03/01/2023 07:06

The bashing of Australia on Mumsnet always intrigues me.
People referring to missing " culture" as if when they leave the UK there's no culture anywhere else.
The ones who would miss the quick pop over for a European break - there's such a disconnect between that and the people who are on here who can't afford heating or rent.
I understand people wanting to stay in their own country ( the UK ) but unhinged bashing of another country that many thousand of people emigrate to to for a better quality of life seems bizarre.
Stay there if you want to, don't feel threatened by the OP or other posters who've chosen to move away.

Ha exactly. The wailings of 'culture' by people who went to see Les Mis in 1991 once and whose kids have been trecked bored around the local museum a few times

The longings if 'euro breaks' from folk who probably have a week in Majorca one a year. Missing the fact that Indonesia, Pacific Islands, Fiji. Bali etc are in similar striking distance

The cries of 'weather'! When Sydney and Auckland today are a balmy 25c yet London in Summer reached heights of 42c

The dismay of sharks and spiders... the like if which I never saw in my 5 years in NSW

Yet the UK is all strictly come dancing, the Meghan and Harry show, an NHS that isn't fit for purpose, a dreadful government and 9 months of drab weather and a population who can't afford to heat their homes.

It's that standard envious response where most people here are stuck in their drab lives so have to find spurious ways to do down an obviously better choice as it's one not open to them.

'TV is shit', 'it's racist'. I mean fucking hell!! Scraping the barrel to justify your life choice!

CakeyCakeyCakeCake · 03/01/2023 07:26

You sound exactly like us!!!!!!! Perth is heaven!

CakeyCakeyCakeCake · 03/01/2023 07:24

We lived in the uk for 12 years and have now lived in AUS for three years. Left with two small DCs.
BEST THING WE EVER DID!
I am a teacher and earn double what I made in the UK. Lifestyle is amazing, cool rainy winter and a scorching summer. We have just got back from a day in the winelands and on to the beach tomorrow. The people are so friendly, most gorgeous beaches that we pop down to as often as we can. Very clean and the GPS are great and easy to get into.
We are on an “average” monthly income. Not wealthy by any means. We pay less than we did in rent in the UK, but have a four bedroom home and a swimming pool. I love the wildlife, have yet to see a snake in the wild but love the kangaroos.
We are a lot happier as a family, my husband isn’t killing himself at work and we have a good lifestyle even though we aren’t considered wealthy here.

I loved the UK, but the weather got to me in the end. My children have a much more well rounded lifestyle and are outdoors a lot. There is just so much more to do here!

Yes, there are challenges of course. We weren’t naive in coming here. We can’t pop to Europe, food is a bit different (I miss M&S chicken pasta so much! 🤣) but people are a lot more down to earth I have found, not worried about clothing or material things, and the weather is amazing!

Rewis · 03/01/2023 07:22

For a year or two? Australia. "Forever"? Then uk. Never been to Australia but its too far away from my family and friends and I don't think I could cope with coming back home only every few years.

DifferenceEngines · 03/01/2023 07:20

Cuppasoupmonster · 03/01/2023 04:40

Can I ask, about the spiders, is it safe for dogs? Do you not worry about them rummaging about in the garden and being bitten? Which is the least spidery part of the country? I think there’s a lot of Australian posters here laughing at Brits without realising just how scared dangerous wildlife/weather actually makes us, it literally isn’t something we ever give a second thought in the U.K. - a bit like school shootings in the US, you know they don’t affect the vast majority of people there but it still seems scary!

I have never thought about spiders with regard to my dog - and I live in funnelweb territory ( which is a very small proportion of the country).

cantley · 03/01/2023 07:19

SD1978 · 03/01/2023 07:15

I live here, I'd move back. Yes the weather is warmer- houses are more expensive and older ones utterly uninsulated. If you're rich, the lifestyle is great- but I live nowhere near a beach, don't have a pool, and struggle (like most)! With my mortgage. So basically I sweat with none of the fun stuff 🤣🤣 (Melbourne here) Sydney the same, Gold Coast better, Perth looks lovely. The main cities- Melbourne and Sydney are a bit shit.

I live in Melbourne and have a fabulous life.
Nowhere near the beach.
But everyone's experience is different!

SD1978 · 03/01/2023 07:15

I live here, I'd move back. Yes the weather is warmer- houses are more expensive and older ones utterly uninsulated. If you're rich, the lifestyle is great- but I live nowhere near a beach, don't have a pool, and struggle (like most)! With my mortgage. So basically I sweat with none of the fun stuff 🤣🤣 (Melbourne here) Sydney the same, Gold Coast better, Perth looks lovely. The main cities- Melbourne and Sydney are a bit shit.

magicthree · 03/01/2023 07:13

UK.
The weather in Aus would be enough reason for me.

Do you have any idea of the size of Australia? The fact that so many on MN seem to think that the weather over an entire continent is the same is bizarre.

I would be inclined to answer Australia, as many of the posts on this thread are showing up a lot of people in the UK as thick.

StartupRepair · 03/01/2023 07:07

@Blackheath95 I think you mistook my post for someone else's.

cantley · 03/01/2023 07:06

The bashing of Australia on Mumsnet always intrigues me.
People referring to missing " culture" as if when they leave the UK there's no culture anywhere else.
The ones who would miss the quick pop over for a European break - there's such a disconnect between that and the people who are on here who can't afford heating or rent.
I understand people wanting to stay in their own country ( the UK ) but unhinged bashing of another country that many thousand of people emigrate to to for a better quality of life seems bizarre.
Stay there if you want to, don't feel threatened by the OP or other posters who've chosen to move away.

BoganKiwi · 03/01/2023 07:01

Oh excellent. Another thread bashing Aus by posters who've either never been there, been for a week or whose cousin went once.

I'd say Australia as the UK is an utterly dreary, dire shithole.

Blackheath95 · 03/01/2023 06:56

And bingo we have the complete Aussie bashing card thanks to @StartupRepair well done! 🙄🙄. Australia is full of culture 60,000 years worth. Plus theatre, opera, art. But hey we all know that only white culture matters on mn. So clearly the uk is very racist as well.

Rolandoratto · 03/01/2023 06:53

Keyansier · 03/01/2023 00:19

UK all the way. Can't stand Australia. Horrible weather, horrible accents, horrible animals, horrible lifestyle, horrible everything. Personally not for me, I'm afraid!

Interested to know if you’re basing that on experience or if you’ve never been and just sitting in the UK making statements about how horrible somewhere else is 😆

HangingOver · 03/01/2023 06:43

I love Australia (here at the moment) but I couldn't do 88 days on a farm, it sounds backbreaking. The six month tourist visas are fab for escaping the UK winter. Although it's 38 degrees here today so I'm lying down lol

Whatmarbles · 03/01/2023 06:42

UK.
The weather in Aus would be enough reason for me.

BlastedPimples · 03/01/2023 06:40

Go for it. Australia has lots to offer.

The U.K. is dying.

StartupRepair · 03/01/2023 06:37

Last year Australia voted out its cruel Trumplite government and voted in a smart progressive government with a strong agenda for climate action and an indigenous voice to Parliament.
Australia is not like the UK with sunshine. It is its own richly diverse ancient and modern nation.

timetogetlost · 03/01/2023 06:35

Uk
So much better connected, near so much cultural and linguistic diversity in Europe. Kinder climate. Aus is so far away from everything and much less interesting culturally.
I've lived in both.

Cuppasoupmonster · 03/01/2023 06:27

Gremlinsateit · 03/01/2023 05:47

It’s ok, I’m mostly teasing 😄 In my state you would call an organisation called WIRES to ask for advice. You probably wouldn’t ask a neighbour as we are not all quite as blasé as @Aussiegirl123456 Also, unless you are very familiar, it’s safest to assume the wildlife is venomous.

That’s it I’m locking the doors and closing the curtains 😆

SmokeyPaprika · 03/01/2023 06:11

Is inner Manchester like living in the western isles?
Are you going to Sydney or somewhere in the outback?

Very difficult to compare -
one thing, everything is far apart in Australia

beejeez · 03/01/2023 06:09

psychomath · 03/01/2023 00:00

I wouldn't consider moving there myself, mostly because I have the impression everything is very spread out compared to here - I remember someone explaining to me that where she lived was considered part of Melbourne even though it was a 30 minute train journey from the city centre - and I can't drive. Plus the cost of rent is insane even by UK standards, and it's a long way from any other countries (except New Zealand), and if I was there for more than a few years I think I'd miss being able to go on short holidays abroad. It does look like an incredible country though and I hope to visit one day for sure, it just wouldn't be where I'd choose to live personally.

But that's the same as London. You can still life somewhere classed as London but be a 30 minute train ride away!

Taswegian · 03/01/2023 06:08

Magpies don’t swoop in Tassie!

IAmWomanHearMeRoar1 · 03/01/2023 06:02

RambamThankyouMam · 03/01/2023 05:21

UK.

Australia is full of racists and poisonous insects/arachnids.

Yeah, @RambamThankyouMam as if the UK doesn't have Nigel Farages, UKIP and Brexit..... Oh wait.🙄