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Nhs students and lack of consent.

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MarbleQueen · 21/01/2022 21:26

I’m wondering if something has changed within the Nhs. At one time you were asked if you minded having a student being present.In my area they are present at every appointment without any discussion and I’m getting fed up with it.

In the last two years these things have happened.

A student midwife was brought into my room and participated in my delivery without any discussion. She was instructed to break my waters and deliver my baby without any discussion with myself. The midwife focused on talking her through things instead of supporting me. I was alone because of covid restrictions. I later discovered it was the first baby she delivered. I felt like a piece of meat.

I went for a smear and when I walked in the room there was a nurse and 3 very young women present. When I asked who they were I was told they were trainee health care assistants. I objected and the nurse insinuated I was being a bit silly and shy. I left that appointment without it being done.

I had a dentist appointment for my first ever dental treatment. I told them I was nervous. Again when I went in, I was told, not asked that the 2 people present were dental students and would only be observing. The dentist focused on explaining things to them and actually allowed one to place the filling. I didn’t agree to this.

I went to a gp apointment for something intimate to find a man around 18 years old sat in the room. Again I had to ask who he was and was told he was a student. I had to ask for him to leave and it was really uncomfortable.

I had an apointment to have a very unpleasant procedure. There was the usual student perched in the corner without any discussion. Again I had to ask who they were and was told, not asked, that they would be observing. The doctor focused on explaining things to them and when the procedure was finished I actually realised 3 more students had been brought in to watch without me noticing.

I have previously had a type of abdominal cancer. I have checks with scans and have seen the same consultant for years. On my last visit there was the usual student perched in the corner without any discussion. On this occasion, and this occasion only, the surgeon suggested doing a VE. I asked him what information he was hoping to get from this considering he had a recent MRI scan in front of him and he simply dropped it. I strongly suspect this was going to be for the students benefit because it certainly wasn’t going to benefit me.

Each of these places have standard notices in their waiting rooms informing you that a student might be present but this is not consent. I think this is now something you have to actively opt out of instead of opting in.

Has anyone else noticed this happening? I worry about what these students are learning about consent in these circumstances.

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MarbleQueen · 24/01/2022 13:23

Those arent questions for me, those are questions to ask at the time!

I assumed you would know why 3 gormless teenagers would need to watch a smear. You seem to know everything else.

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aristotlesdeathray · 24/01/2022 13:23

Some of these comments are wild

Of course you should be asked if you're ok having intimate appointments observed

The less intimate ones I think it might be a matter of scale but I wouldn't expect to be asked at a dental appt for example.

And agree that for many patients they wouldn't be able to speak up and say they're uncomfortable, many also wouldn't feel ok saying no when the student(s) are right there

Considering how ott many on here are around dignity for women especially, these comments are very odd.

RedToothBrush · 24/01/2022 13:21

PinkSparklyPussyCat's comment about how it would stop her going for screening if she HAD to have students present is indicative of how presumed consent and a cultural expectation that its your duty to perform for medical students could damage health outcomes.

Are there really people who don't understand why some women might not want students observing their gynae appointments?

Oh I think they damn well understand. I think the problem is more that they don't care. The attitude is that as long as they are getting the health care they want to a standard they are happy with, to hell with anyone else.

If they cared they'd bother to acknowledge a bunch of the posts on here explaining the reasons why it causes them distress. Rather than ignoring them or using words like 'duty', 'bravery' or the emotional blackmail of how it affects other patients (by this they mean themselves) or their student children.

Women saying "No" are somehow bad. Women shouldn't be able to say "No" because thats bad for society. Women shouldn't be expressing the word "No" because that means we might have to acknowledge and address a problem rather than just ignore it, because its inconvienent and makes us face up to some unpleasant realities about life.

Nidan2Sandan · 24/01/2022 13:18

*indicative

Nidan2Sandan · 24/01/2022 13:17

@MarbleQueen

I figure these students will be treating me when I'm old, so I'm happy to let them learn with me as their patient I don't really understand why you're being so precious about it. They have to learn somewhere, it's not like they're doing it for shots and giggles hmm

Ok. Can you explain why 3 trainee health care assistants need to watch vaginal examinations and smear tests? I don’t see that it’s relevant to their role, although I’m happy to be corrected.

Can you explain what medical experience the 4 students actually gained from staring at my face across the room?

Do you think the student dentist is being taught correctly? At some point that student will qualify. You might want a dentist who lies to you, or who doesn’t talk to you or who just starts doing dental work without discussing it with you, but most people don’t.

What do you think will happen to that dentist when she’s qualified and treats patients patients like that?

All this talk about Duty ,don’t you think my dentist has a duty to teach that student correctly? What do you think the consequences will be for that student if I make a formal complaint about her?

Why are you being so dramatic?

Those arent questions for me, those are questions to ask at the time!

I dont understand your behaviour or your attitude, but if its inductive you how you may have broached the subject with the medical staff, I can see why they were less than polite with you too.

IrritableOwlSyndrome · 24/01/2022 13:17

@GreenWhiteViolet

Are there really people who don't understand why some women might not want students observing their gynae appointments?

If I were at such an appointment, I'd be panicky and probably in tears at the thought of getting undressed in front of a stranger. I'd insist that the practitioner was female. I'd be consenting to the examination/procedure, but very distressed by it. Can you see why I might not want extra onlookers, be they students, experienced doctors or anyone else?

I can understand that women with different views and life experiences from me would be totally fine and not mind at all who was there. Is it so hard to imagine that not everyone is like you?

I think, based on some of the replies here, there's some who do understand but just don't give a shit because we need to get over ourselves, stop being precious because it's our duty.

And worrying some of these attitudes are from healthcare workers too.

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 24/01/2022 13:17

The children's hospital in Glasgow is a teaching hospital, and when DS1 was little I was always being asked if students could observe, because apparently he's such classic CF patient. But I was always asked. Not being asked is appalling.

MarbleQueen · 24/01/2022 13:13

I figure these students will be treating me when I'm old, so I'm happy to let them learn with me as their patient
I don't really understand why you're being so precious about it. They have to learn somewhere, it's not like they're doing it for shots and giggles hmm

Ok. Can you explain why 3 trainee health care assistants need to watch vaginal examinations and smear tests? I don’t see that it’s relevant to their role, although I’m happy to be corrected.

Can you explain what medical experience the 4 students actually gained from staring at my face across the room?

Do you think the student dentist is being taught correctly? At some point that student will qualify. You might want a dentist who lies to you, or who doesn’t talk to you or who just starts doing dental work without discussing it with you, but most people don’t.

What do you think will happen to that dentist when she’s qualified and treats patients patients like that?

All this talk about Duty ,don’t you think my dentist has a duty to teach that student correctly? What do you think the consequences will be for that student if I make a formal complaint about her?

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PinkSparklyPussyCat · 24/01/2022 13:13

@Wnkingawalrus

Interested how you expect students to learn, OP.

Would you prefer the newly qualified person doing your smear test had never even observed the procedure?

God I hate this attitude. If someone isn't happy being watched while having a medical procedure it's their choice. Why do some people try to make other people feel guilty for saying no?

My last smear was so painful that I'm in two minds whether to have another one when it's due this year (no lectures please). If anyone thinks I'm going to agree to being gawped at while it's done they can think again!

GreenWhiteViolet · 24/01/2022 13:09

Are there really people who don't understand why some women might not want students observing their gynae appointments?

If I were at such an appointment, I'd be panicky and probably in tears at the thought of getting undressed in front of a stranger. I'd insist that the practitioner was female. I'd be consenting to the examination/procedure, but very distressed by it. Can you see why I might not want extra onlookers, be they students, experienced doctors or anyone else?

I can understand that women with different views and life experiences from me would be totally fine and not mind at all who was there. Is it so hard to imagine that not everyone is like you?

2Gen · 24/01/2022 13:02

When I trained as a nurse, both as a General and psychiatric nurse, we were NHS employees and did most of the hands-on, basic nursing care from our very first ward, as there's never be more than 2 trained nurses on duty, often only one. Having said that, all patients should be asked for permission for students to observe procedures and examinations, especially intimate ones and the focus should always be more on the patient. We were taught to explain to our patients what we were doing- it's part of treating them as whole persons, not just their conditions!!!
One thing that has baffled me is why on Earth do trainee HCAs need to observe a cervical smear? I was never even brought to observe one when I was training to be a Registered General Nurse! It's a procedure done by Practice Nurses who have completed post -Reg speciality training and only needs to be observed by those undergoing such training and are already Registered, or so I would have thought.
You were perfectly within your rights to ask all of them to leave (it's your body and there will be other patients who do not mind. That said they should always BE ASKED!!) but especially in this case and the trained nurse was out of order to imply it was "silly" of you as HCAs do NOT do smears! (Hell in my day even RGNs didn't do smears, one had to have had the post Reg training!) Not as far as I'm aware anyway! Not unless even THAT'S changed since I was practising but feckin' hell, I HOPE not!!!

CafeConLechePorFavor · 24/01/2022 12:55

Unacceptable that it hasn't been discussed with you. I know students must learn but I'll always ask them to leave if it's anything personal.

Warmduscher · 24/01/2022 12:40

@SleepyRich

No one is asking you to provide solutions, students need to learn practically, you can't learn this just from text books. There isn't a safe alternative to students observing/undertaking consultations and procedures so the practice will continue. To take that away would cripple training programmes.
Actually people have repeatedly asked the question, “So how do you expect students to learn?”

Unless it’s a hypothetical question, which I doubt it is, people definitely are expected to provide a solution, especially if they don’t want to consent. Some people have even used the word “duty”.

I have no idea how you “square the circle”. When I’m receiving medical care I won’t be thinking about whether a medical student’s training is adequate and if it isn’t, what I can do to resolve that problem.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 24/01/2022 12:39

I’m not disputing that. In fact it doesn’t surprise me in the slightest. What did surprise me was the PP who stated she wouldn’t allow a student in any of her gynae appointments.

Why?

CorneliusBeefington · 24/01/2022 12:22

@SleepyRich

No one is asking you to provide solutions, students need to learn practically, you can't learn this just from text books. There isn't a safe alternative to students observing/undertaking consultations and procedures so the practice will continue. To take that away would cripple training programmes.
Absolutely, but I still want to be asked each time.

The day that I went into hospital to deliver my deceased baby, I was fine with having a student nurse site a cannula. It took four goes, both arms and ended up in my elbow crease rather than my hand, but it was OK.

Five days later, when I had a raging womb infection, a high temperature and felt like I was on the edge of collapse, I wasn't in the mood to be a pin cushion for someone practising.

user1497207191 · 24/01/2022 12:18

I think there's another issue too, which is the level of the trainee/student.

After all, even a junior doctor or registrar is still officially "training" and under the control of the consultant. But few people would object to being treating by a registrar!

A medical school student on a placement is a very different matter to, say, a qualified nurse "training" in a specific specialism.

SleepyRich · 24/01/2022 12:17

[quote user1497207191]@SleepyRich

I'm a Paramedic and due in part to a lack of placement opportunities the first time I'd ever seen a baby delivered was when working as a solo responder, it was just myself and mum on scene and no crews available. I certainly didn't admit at the time I'd only seen it on video and put on my best air of calmness I could. Fortunately all went well. Would have loved to have a student with me that day!

An emergency situation is completely different. If you'd already been occupied with another call, it could well have been delivered by a taxi driver, or someone with a St John's or other first aid certificate (if in a workplace or shop etc), or even a random passer by or neighbour.[/quote]
Whilst I completely agree there are a number of differences between planned and emergency procedures, there are also very different expectations placed on a Paramedic from a taxi driver.

user1497207191 · 24/01/2022 12:14

@SleepyRich

No one is asking you to provide solutions, students need to learn practically, you can't learn this just from text books. There isn't a safe alternative to students observing/undertaking consultations and procedures so the practice will continue. To take that away would cripple training programmes.
Plenty of people are happy to consent, i.e. those without health anxieties, mental health issues, etc. I would imagine it's a minority who don't want trainees/students present. All that is needed is a simple method of consent, which is best obtained by the receptionist when booking in.
user1497207191 · 24/01/2022 12:12

My OH has long term incurable cancer and has regular blood tests and infusions. He always refuses a trainee or HCA if one is allocated to take blood or place the canula. That's simply because his veins are absolutely shot at due to years of needles etc and even the most experienced nurse can struggle to successfully insert the needle into a vein.

He's finally managed to get it written into his notes and most times he can now avoid the embarrassment of having to ask for a more experienced nurse (and he goes so often, the staff at the day treatment centre now know him!). He's even managed to get his GP practice to write it into their notes too so he now gets put on the list of their more senior nurses rather than their HCAs!

PearPickingPorky · 24/01/2022 12:11

@SleepyRich

No one is asking you to provide solutions, students need to learn practically, you can't learn this just from text books. There isn't a safe alternative to students observing/undertaking consultations and procedures so the practice will continue. To take that away would cripple training programmes.
Then they need to make sure that students are only learning from the (apparently very, very many) people who have no issues whatsoever with giving consent, in any occasion, to being observed, used as a demonstration model, practiced on, etc.
RedToothBrush · 24/01/2022 12:07

What is needed is an easy and non confrontational way for the few who don't want students present to be able to say so, preferably in advance to avoid embarrassment. Ideally it should be something the receptionist sorts out when checking in, with a note on the records to signifiy consent or non consent.

Which is EXACTLY what some here are saying. I have personally done this. And I'm STILL asked or put into situations I have explicitly in writing have said I'm uncomfortable with.

I don't feel respected precisely BECAUSE its ignored.

Thats not consenting to things. Thats being put under pressure to 'comply'.

SleepyRich · 24/01/2022 12:06

No one is asking you to provide solutions, students need to learn practically, you can't learn this just from text books. There isn't a safe alternative to students observing/undertaking consultations and procedures so the practice will continue. To take that away would cripple training programmes.

user1497207191 · 24/01/2022 12:05

@SleepyRich

I'm a Paramedic and due in part to a lack of placement opportunities the first time I'd ever seen a baby delivered was when working as a solo responder, it was just myself and mum on scene and no crews available. I certainly didn't admit at the time I'd only seen it on video and put on my best air of calmness I could. Fortunately all went well. Would have loved to have a student with me that day!

An emergency situation is completely different. If you'd already been occupied with another call, it could well have been delivered by a taxi driver, or someone with a St John's or other first aid certificate (if in a workplace or shop etc), or even a random passer by or neighbour.

RedToothBrush · 24/01/2022 12:02

[quote Promleafyus]@RedToothBrush what do you think of HCAs/support workers who start work on the ward their first day more or less, potentially with zero experience in this type of work? Where do you propose mental health student nurses (yes it is specialised and the course is one in its own right) gain experience?[/quote]
I think that students do a different job to health care workers.

A health care worker certainly shouldn't be there for intimate examinations nor deeply private conversations.

Does that help?

JennieTheZebra · 24/01/2022 12:02

@Warmduscher

No it’s not (although the NHS constitution says that service users should be consulted) but, to be frank, you’ve made it an impossible circle to square. It’s not about whether you, personally, would turn down medical care from a student or otherwise but what the rules should be in general, especially for sensitive situations or for those who lack capacity. Service users have a right to respect and dignity but at the same time students have to learn-and there are some things that you can’t learn through role play/video. Somewhere the line has to be drawn and it does help to know what service users think, even if it isn’t their “job” to solve.