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Nhs students and lack of consent.

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MarbleQueen · 21/01/2022 21:26

I’m wondering if something has changed within the Nhs. At one time you were asked if you minded having a student being present.In my area they are present at every appointment without any discussion and I’m getting fed up with it.

In the last two years these things have happened.

A student midwife was brought into my room and participated in my delivery without any discussion. She was instructed to break my waters and deliver my baby without any discussion with myself. The midwife focused on talking her through things instead of supporting me. I was alone because of covid restrictions. I later discovered it was the first baby she delivered. I felt like a piece of meat.

I went for a smear and when I walked in the room there was a nurse and 3 very young women present. When I asked who they were I was told they were trainee health care assistants. I objected and the nurse insinuated I was being a bit silly and shy. I left that appointment without it being done.

I had a dentist appointment for my first ever dental treatment. I told them I was nervous. Again when I went in, I was told, not asked that the 2 people present were dental students and would only be observing. The dentist focused on explaining things to them and actually allowed one to place the filling. I didn’t agree to this.

I went to a gp apointment for something intimate to find a man around 18 years old sat in the room. Again I had to ask who he was and was told he was a student. I had to ask for him to leave and it was really uncomfortable.

I had an apointment to have a very unpleasant procedure. There was the usual student perched in the corner without any discussion. Again I had to ask who they were and was told, not asked, that they would be observing. The doctor focused on explaining things to them and when the procedure was finished I actually realised 3 more students had been brought in to watch without me noticing.

I have previously had a type of abdominal cancer. I have checks with scans and have seen the same consultant for years. On my last visit there was the usual student perched in the corner without any discussion. On this occasion, and this occasion only, the surgeon suggested doing a VE. I asked him what information he was hoping to get from this considering he had a recent MRI scan in front of him and he simply dropped it. I strongly suspect this was going to be for the students benefit because it certainly wasn’t going to benefit me.

Each of these places have standard notices in their waiting rooms informing you that a student might be present but this is not consent. I think this is now something you have to actively opt out of instead of opting in.

Has anyone else noticed this happening? I worry about what these students are learning about consent in these circumstances.

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Katya213 · 21/01/2022 22:36

Six different appointments….that’s a lot of times in two years!

MarbleQueen · 21/01/2022 22:36

Hi, my name is Adam, I'm a final year medical student, I'm here to observe for the day, is that okay?"

Your student is TELLING patients he’s going to be observing them. The “is that ok” isn’t really a question in those circumstances, and especially not in a group.

Why can’t you get consent from your patients in private then invite Adam in once they’ve agreed?

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AutomaticMoon · 21/01/2022 22:35

@shouldistop I am disabled and don’t have a lot of energy, in 2020 I was busy working night shifts in a care home, my
Mother was dying from cancer, and I was living in uninhabitable housing. I didn’t have time to read the news everyday in case the NHS decided they’re entitled to my organs. The NHS have been exposed for organ theft already, so I guess they wanted to legalise it.

Wnkingawalrus · 21/01/2022 22:34

Interested how you expect students to learn, OP.

Would you prefer the newly qualified person doing your smear test had never even observed the procedure?

TabithaTittlemouse · 21/01/2022 22:32

In our trust we always ask and always accept when someone says no to students. They don’t need a reason to refuse.

I’m sorry you have had these experiences.

AutomaticMoon · 21/01/2022 22:30

@MarbleQueen Medical gaslighting and coercion is real. The nurse was trying to coerce you, how incredibly unethical. I have to wonder about why people feel like ‘my body, my choice’ is unreasonable? Consent is still necessary even in medical situations, or is informed consent being sought a thing of the past? Like the Hippocratic oaths?

NewBrownMouse · 21/01/2022 22:28

If there has ever been a student in the room when I have entered which happened a lot during maternity related appointments, the healthcare professional has always introduced them and why they are there, asked if I was OK with them being there and also where appropriate asked if they could observe or participate in doing checks, procedures. I felt comfortable that I could have declined and reassured that it was OK to do so as they addressed this upon me entering the room. As it happens I'm fine with students being involved as long as the experienced person is watching their progress as everyone has to learn somewhere but I know many people who would be upset by this which is why I think my trust are clearly and sensitively addressing this at the point you go in.

Aaaa1167336 · 21/01/2022 22:28

Just say no

SC215 · 21/01/2022 22:27

In my hospital, there are signs up saying that it is a teaching hospital and if you would rather not have a student present during your care, please let staff know. So it is a sort of opt out option.

Personally I make all medical or nursing students introduce themselves to a patient and ask their permission to observe or carry out any care. As in "Hi, my name is Adam, I'm a final year medical student, I'm here to observe for the day, is that okay?". I've noticed that the majority of the medical students are very uncomfortable introducing themselves to patients, which is a bit worrying.

Saying that, we've all got to learn somewhere. When I was a nursing student, no patient was happy for me to catheterise them under full supervision from someone, so it meant that I qualified without having done it on a real person. Luckily it turned out I was quite good at it!

shouldistop · 21/01/2022 22:27

[quote AutomaticMoon]@shouldistop To opt out of something you first have to be aware that it’s happening. How can people opt out when the NHS did this without telling people in the first place.[/quote]
It was widely publicised. How did you know about it?

LolaButt · 21/01/2022 22:27

There were times during the course of some gruelling treatment I could not deal with being touched, or needed the reassurance that the person performing care on me was experienced. I was ok for students to watch still.

The poster who likened refusal to consent to refusal to get a vaccination needs a crash course in consent.

Bagadverts · 21/01/2022 22:27

Consent is obviously very important here. I’ve always been asked about whether I kind a student being present. If not you have every right to complain and it sends a dreadful message to students about how to treat patients.

Was the midwife a student or newly qualified and doing her first delivery. I think the consent might be slightly different but maybe midwives here comment. Either way you should have been informed and emphasis on your needs and reassurance.

HollaHolla · 21/01/2022 22:26

@rjaksieh

Just ask for them to leave if you're not happy.

Mind you I do wonder how you expect all these medical professionals to be there to help you in the future if you don't want them to learn somehow 🧐

Personally I've found student nurses and midwives (both of which I've been very happy to have around) to be some of the very best care I have received. They always seem to still have enthusiasm and been happy to go the extra mile. Plus I love it when they explain loads of stuff to the student as I get to know so much more about the process, which fascinates me.

I would say that I would agree on having students in, as I had the most wonderful student nurse sat with me most of the night during an emergency ambulance transfer between hospitals, and for hours after, whilst I was admitted, and prepped for surgery at 4am. She even called the ward to speak to me a couple of days later, to check how I was. I often think about her, her knowledge, reassurance, and kindness (this wee, composed, 19 year old, and snotty mess, terrified, 40 something year old me), and hope that my loved ones might be cared for by her in the future. From experience, she will be a cracking nurse.
AutomaticMoon · 21/01/2022 22:26

@shouldistop To opt out of something you first have to be aware that it’s happening. How can people opt out when the NHS did this without telling people in the first place.

justasking111 · 21/01/2022 22:25

I had a student at our surgery they were encouraged with my consent to ask a couple of questions. It wasn't intimate. I hope they learnt something

MarbleQueen · 21/01/2022 22:24

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AutomaticMoon · 21/01/2022 22:24

And it has come to my attention that women under anaesthesia are having pelvic examinations without being asked for consent or even informed of it. But this has been going on forever, I think, not a recent thing. I’ve seen on a medical forum, how entitled the surgeons and doctors feel to do whatever they want.

shouldistop · 21/01/2022 22:24

@AutomaticMoon

Well something must’ve changed because in 2020 the NHS felt entitled to enrol all citizens on the organ donor list, without asking or anything.
You know you can opt out.
PearPickingPorky · 21/01/2022 22:23

You've just reminded me OP that during the 3rd and 4th (failed) attempts to induce labour, the consultant brought 2 or 3 student/junior doctors in to stand and watch me getting the pessary put into my extremely swollen, and agonisingly sore at this point, vagina.

I did not appreciate it, I did not want them there, and I was not asked.

MrsTimRiggins · 21/01/2022 22:22

Gosh you’ve been terribly unlucky. I’ve never experienced this, in fact only yesterday I had an appointment with our GP for my baby son and he advised that he had a student doctor with him for the day, and asked if it was okay if she sat in and further asked whether it was okay if he involved her in the consultation. I can’t see any reason at all for you having not been asked consent at any one of your appointments.

MarbleQueen · 21/01/2022 22:21

I shouldn’t have to ask them to leave because they shouldn’t be there in the first place until I’ve agreed. And it’s clearly assuming consent instead of actively seeking it.

I’ve previously been asked by a receptionist or the gp which is completely different.When I’ve agreed they’ve then gone and informed the student they can come in.Putting someone in a awkward position by TELLING you in front of them isn’t informed consent.

You don’t know if they were medical students or junior doctors though. People have to learn and patients who refuse are in my view akin to the unvaccinated allowing others to bear the burden of risk while they enjoy the benefits

I don’t give a shit what they are. If they don’t understand consent I don’t want them around or anywhere near me. I’m there to have a procedure done and I want it done with privacy and expertise. I don’t want to be practised on without my consent and I definitely don’t want 3 teenagers gawking at me while I’m having a smear.

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AutomaticMoon · 21/01/2022 22:20

Well something must’ve changed because in 2020 the NHS felt entitled to enrol all citizens on the organ donor list, without asking or anything.

Aroundtheworldin80moves · 21/01/2022 22:19

I've had two very positive experiences of students. One was my 12 week scan where the baby was in the perfect position, the professor (who was doing the scan!) Asked if we minded some stuff being explained to the students about early sex indicators... it was fascinating. He did it all in the local language and English for our benefit and we got to see baby in 4D.

Second was DD2, home birth and I was asked prior to labour if I'd be OK with a student attending and again when I was in labour to see if it was still OK.

Both times I felt completely respected. The students need to learn.

KevinTheKoala · 21/01/2022 22:19

Personally I've found students to be far more considerate and conscientious than the qualified professional they are learning from, however it should absolutely be your choice, especially if they will be performing any procedures. I dont think it's helpful for people to say what they would or wouldn't have a problem with because we are all different and your feelings are valid so if you are uncomfortable then of course you are not being 'silly' to speak up and say so.

Flickflak · 21/01/2022 22:19

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