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Nhs students and lack of consent.

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MarbleQueen · 21/01/2022 21:26

I’m wondering if something has changed within the Nhs. At one time you were asked if you minded having a student being present.In my area they are present at every appointment without any discussion and I’m getting fed up with it.

In the last two years these things have happened.

A student midwife was brought into my room and participated in my delivery without any discussion. She was instructed to break my waters and deliver my baby without any discussion with myself. The midwife focused on talking her through things instead of supporting me. I was alone because of covid restrictions. I later discovered it was the first baby she delivered. I felt like a piece of meat.

I went for a smear and when I walked in the room there was a nurse and 3 very young women present. When I asked who they were I was told they were trainee health care assistants. I objected and the nurse insinuated I was being a bit silly and shy. I left that appointment without it being done.

I had a dentist appointment for my first ever dental treatment. I told them I was nervous. Again when I went in, I was told, not asked that the 2 people present were dental students and would only be observing. The dentist focused on explaining things to them and actually allowed one to place the filling. I didn’t agree to this.

I went to a gp apointment for something intimate to find a man around 18 years old sat in the room. Again I had to ask who he was and was told he was a student. I had to ask for him to leave and it was really uncomfortable.

I had an apointment to have a very unpleasant procedure. There was the usual student perched in the corner without any discussion. Again I had to ask who they were and was told, not asked, that they would be observing. The doctor focused on explaining things to them and when the procedure was finished I actually realised 3 more students had been brought in to watch without me noticing.

I have previously had a type of abdominal cancer. I have checks with scans and have seen the same consultant for years. On my last visit there was the usual student perched in the corner without any discussion. On this occasion, and this occasion only, the surgeon suggested doing a VE. I asked him what information he was hoping to get from this considering he had a recent MRI scan in front of him and he simply dropped it. I strongly suspect this was going to be for the students benefit because it certainly wasn’t going to benefit me.

Each of these places have standard notices in their waiting rooms informing you that a student might be present but this is not consent. I think this is now something you have to actively opt out of instead of opting in.

Has anyone else noticed this happening? I worry about what these students are learning about consent in these circumstances.

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IrritableOwlSyndrome · 22/01/2022 16:26

@Witchcraftandhokum

I know it's not a popular opinion but I don't think you should be able to take advantage of free health care but object to people being trained to carry it out.

So only people with the involve to afford private get right to informed consent? Those who can't pay for the privilege of private healthcare and who have very very good reasons for being unable to have extra people in the room during some appointments either be coerced or can go fuck off and suffer, deteriorate or die?

Goldbar · 22/01/2022 16:18

@Witchcraftandhokum

I know it's not a popular opinion but I don't think you should be able to take advantage of free health care but object to people being trained to carry it out.
Well, in that case can I have a rebate on my taxes since the NHS is not 'free' to me as a taxpayer?
RedToothBrush · 22/01/2022 16:14

@Belladonna12

I agree with this. Unless they’re happy to have partially trained clinicians treat them (which is what many appear to be objecting to), they’re effectively saying that other patients should shoulder that burden. Seems pretty selfish.

It's not a burden for everyone though. I can't care less if students are present but I totally respect other people may feel differently.

So what about people who have a know health anxiety which is on their medical records.

Are they selfish too?

Honestly some people just want a stick to beat people with. Its ok to say no. It won't bother everyone but for others it will be traumatic. Why should those who will find it traumatic shoulder the responsibility for those who it doesn't bother?

emsmar · 22/01/2022 16:02

I had a young student doctor conduct my breast scan this week, then the consultant came and done the same thing and confirmed the students findings. The student Dr thanked me for consenting to him performing the scan, but no one actually asked me. 🤣 It honestly didn't bother me in the slightest though. I'm pleased I can help with their learning.

I've had men previously take advantage of me and have the same hang ups as a lot of women. It's a health care professional though.

HacerSonarSusPasos · 22/01/2022 15:52

@Witchcraftandhokum

I know it's not a popular opinion but I don't think you should be able to take advantage of free health care but object to people being trained to carry it out.
It's not free, it's paid by your taxes! How dare we ask to preserve our dignity and bodily autonomy in the process, right? Confused 🙄🙄
Warmduscher · 22/01/2022 15:29

@MarbleQueen

Uhm, no. Are you a clown?

I am however someone who was trained properly, who has trained many others and understands the importance of people being skilled adequately in order to go on to perform independently at the required standard

You clearly haven’t been trained properly if you don’t understand consent. How alarming you are involved in training others because your anger and contempt for people who decline students is quite obvious. I think you’re the sarcastic poster who suggested I have a card because I’m special.

For those people who think being bullied into having students doesn’t happen here it is folks plain as day. Who wants to be treated by this poster with her scathing contempt for patients consent.

Has it occurred to you that when people have a bad experience with a student they are far more likely to decline students in the future? Who does this benefit exactly?

Ive had students for years and there’s been no problem. I’m now done with being treated badly by some gormless student who can’t be arsed to even introduce themselves and who doesn’t grasp basic consent.

Yes, it is the same poster OP. I reported her post saying you should carry a card because you think you’re special - it was nasty and judgemental. MNHQ agreed and deleted it.

I would be very surprised if that poster ever trains anyone in anything other than how to ride roughshod over a person’s genuinely held feelings about wanting consent before having observers present in their medical appointments.

MarbleQueen · 22/01/2022 15:19

Uhm, no. Are you a clown?

I am however someone who was trained properly, who has trained many others and understands the importance of people being skilled adequately in order to go on to perform independently at the required standard

You clearly haven’t been trained properly if you don’t understand consent. How alarming you are involved in training others because your anger and contempt for people who decline students is quite obvious. I think you’re the sarcastic poster who suggested I have a card because I’m special.

For those people who think being bullied into having students doesn’t happen here it is folks plain as day. Who wants to be treated by this poster with her scathing contempt for patients consent.

Has it occurred to you that when people have a bad experience with a student they are far more likely to decline students in the future? Who does this benefit exactly?

Ive had students for years and there’s been no problem. I’m now done with being treated badly by some gormless student who can’t be arsed to even introduce themselves and who doesn’t grasp basic consent.

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B1ngB9ng · 22/01/2022 15:11

We’ve had a lot of appointments where the students are already sat in the room and we’re either just told they’re there or told with “ if you don’t mind”. My daughter has autism and the fewer in the room the better but when they’re already settled it makes it really difficult to ask them to leave.

Belladonna12 · 22/01/2022 15:11

I agree with this. Unless they’re happy to have partially trained clinicians treat them (which is what many appear to be objecting to), they’re effectively saying that other patients should shoulder that burden. Seems pretty selfish.

It's not a burden for everyone though. I can't care less if students are present but I totally respect other people may feel differently.

Belladonna12 · 22/01/2022 15:08

It's really shocking that you haven't been asked for consent. I have many hospital appointments and students are quite often present but I can't think of any occasion when I haven't been asked if it was ok. I think for gynaecological appointments people should be asked before they enter the room.

JustLyra · 22/01/2022 15:06

Our GP practise has instigated an “opt out” type thing it seems. There are notices up telling you there are students and to tell the receptionist if you don’t want them present.

I really don’t agree with that way of doing it. Consent should be actively sought, not assumed.

I made a complaint about a local hospital just before covid for this. I was asked for consent for one student to observe a procedure. Midway through three other students came in and the doctor asked the first student if he’d like to complete the process.
It’s something I’ve had done several times, and have allowed students to do, but it was out of order to do that. My Dr was mortified and apologised. He had assumed because I’d been comfortable before that I’d be ok, but said himself that he shouldn’t have assumed.

It happens all the time and it’s not acceptable.

billy1966 · 22/01/2022 15:03

@PearPickingPorky

I worry about what these students are learning about consent in these circumstances.

I feel the same as you.

And bring able to gain consent is an incredibly important part of being a healthcare worker.

It's very troubling.

Absolutely this.

At the birth is really shocking.

I would not be happy nor accepting of this.

moveblues · 22/01/2022 15:02

As a doctor I always ask my patients whether it's ok.
I do have it on my letters that a trainee may be present and to let us know if they don't want this but I ask on arrival too!

Belladonna12 · 22/01/2022 14:59

@Witchcraftandhokum

I know it's not a popular opinion but I don't think you should be able to take advantage of free health care but object to people being trained to carry it out.
It's not free! It is funded via taxes which most people pay!
nodogz · 22/01/2022 14:56

I've had some crappy experiences with med students or early career (exclusively doctors). Often young and blinded by their privilege.

One example: Chatting and flirting when taking history of my child after an op. Really inappropriate. I told them off and said that if any of my (blue chip) company's graduates behaved like that to me as a professional I'd have them disciplined. (Although I appreciate I do have a level of status with our grads)

They saw me as a "mum", a non-medical muggle and low status- and looked shocked once I pointed it out . But I had the social capital to do that. They would not have behaved like that in front of a consultant /professor so why treat me differently?

I hope I contributed to their education. I wasn't a "Karen", I was respectful and gave feedback in the context of improvement. I have been very surprised how "sheltered" a lot of my grads (much more privileged background than me) have been and I'm sensitive to that.

CorneliusBeefington · 22/01/2022 14:47

I’m defending being a grown up and not freeloading. If that’s abuse to you, take a long hard look in the mirror.

Just to use my experience, is it OK that nine students were looking into my vagina as an internal examination was about to be performed without my consent? Or should I not care because I wasn't cognisant enough to say yes or no?

I personally can't actually remember the whole thing, I wasn't under any sedation, but had had a lot of pain killers and had been awake for 36 hours, my eyes were rolling in the back of my skull. It was my husband who was appalled at how I was being treated and who asked them to leave.

It is an abuse of power to use someone's body who cannot consent. Absence of protest does not mean consent. Nothing to do with being an adult.

GloriaSicTransitMundi · 22/01/2022 14:27

@Muckymaisonette

If you are thinking of applying to a healthcare course/training scheme you can ask to visit and as part of that you can get to sit in on a consultation.

The patient might be under the impression that the student was a student doctor or nurse but it could be someone off the street.Not so bad if it’s audiology but about à gynaecological examination?

Seriously? A random person off the street?! GrinGrin
HoppingPavlova · 22/01/2022 14:19

Are you a student?

Uhm, no. Are you a clown?

I am however someone who was trained properly, who has trained many others and understands the importance of people being skilled adequately in order to go on to perform independently at the required standard. I also believe in informed consent but the reality is if you don’t believe in providing the opportunity for people to be properly trained then you shouldn’t have the expectation that your clinician can perform adequately to the standard required and should be happy with someone who has read a few books, watched a few videos and passed some theoretical exams.

Itsalmostanaccessory · 22/01/2022 14:05

@Janesmom

Are you going to reply to me?
Am I being a childish freelander for being angry at what happened to me?

Janesmom · 22/01/2022 14:00

[quote draramallama]@Janesmom

Why are you defending abuse?[/quote]
I’m defending being a grown up and not freeloading. If that’s abuse to you, take a long hard look in the mirror.

draramallama · 22/01/2022 13:48

@Janesmom

Why are you defending abuse?

draramallama · 22/01/2022 13:46

@MarbleQueen

Itsalmostanaccessory that utterly awful.

It seems several people are having these experiences where they agree to one student and several are brought in.

It's the culture of treating patients like objects not humans and it is deep-rooted in the NHS.

See also ward rounds, where a group of staff stand at the foot of a patient's bed discussing them like they're not there and in full earshot of the rest of the patients.

It will not change until we stop accepting it and stop telling people to be grateful for being dehumanised and violated.

I find it particularly objectionable when individuals attempt to defend abusive practices like this that should have been abandoned decades ago. There is no place for such conduct in a civilised society.

draramallama · 22/01/2022 13:42

@Witchcraftandhokum

I know it's not a popular opinion but I don't think you should be able to take advantage of free health care but object to people being trained to carry it out.
Ignorance. It's not free healthcare and consent is central to all healthcare, not an optional extra.

Luckily our legal system prioritises consent even if you think patients should be abused and be grateful for it. Which is a fairly odd position to take for most decent human beings.

MarbleQueen · 22/01/2022 13:41

Itsalmostanaccessory that utterly awful.

It seems several people are having these experiences where they agree to one student and several are brought in.

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draramallama · 22/01/2022 13:39

Posters advocating for a healthcare system that disregards patient consent are advocating for abuse.

I have to wonder why anybody would argue such an abhorrent position.

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