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Ban in laws from my house

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MG08 · 19/08/2019 19:31

There is a massive background to this but very basically I have fallen out with my in laws due to how they have treated me in the past and I have chosen not to see them anymore. They turned up at our house and my MIL told me to shut up and said that she never wanted to see me again.

We are due to go on holiday soon and my parents are also going away at the same time. We have pets that will need looking after. I want to pay to have someone come round and feed them etc as I am not comfortable having my in laws in my home anymore. I think my husband will kick off about this and just want to know if I am being reasonable?

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Willow2017 · 19/08/2019 19:40

No way would she be back though the door.

Arrange someone to.come see to.pets with strict instructions that pil do not get in the house. I suspect if she is that bad she will try to wangle herself in to have a good nosey for something to rant at you about.

Mil chose to be a bitch you don't have to see her again. Your dp should have your back on this.

Summerunderway · 19/08/2019 19:39

Pet sitter? Neighbour? Cattery? Kennels?
Yanbu to ban her from your house.