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Genuinely don't know who is being unreasonable here. (Puppy related).

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PinkPjamas · 28/12/2015 23:18

I'll try to keep this short.

A friend of a friend (FoF) is a backstreet breeder-being an animal lover I 100% disapprove.

One pup of the last litter was rejected by Mum.

I was advised about this in the middle of the night, pup was one week old, I went to emergency vet and purchased pup formula and rushed over with it.

Three days later, I was called by FoF, pup won't take formula, again, me being an animal lover-morals told me to go and help. I went to supermarket, purchased greek yogurt, syrup, a syringe, goats milk, stuff I knew is okay for pup to have, drove the 45 mins there to help, got pup to feed, came back.

BSB then tried to raise pup herself but couldn't cope with litter of pups, two other dogs, Mum etc. Pup fell and hurt herself few times and also had narrow misses with Mum who was still out to kill her. I took pup on myself. I live with a friend who I checked with if this was okay and if he was willing to be part of it as obviously he would be, living with us both. He doesn't work-I do so I had to ensure he could and was willing, to take care of her when I wasn't about.

He's also daft for animals, like me and agreed and has done the care when I've not been here.

Since then I've taken pup to vet twice, taken care of her, done night feeds, bought food and more formula you get the picture.
I realise, I didn't have to do any of this and it has all been my choice.

Now, my friend and I have a dog each, so we live together with our two dogs. Luckily both okay with pup.

Friend's said he doesn't want pup to go back to BSB, doesn't want her to end up in a potentially dodgy home, thus will happily keep her himself. However, BSB wants paying for pup.

BSB has now sold all other pups, and has said she'll give my friend a discount, meaning instead of paying £4-£600 , he can have pup for £200.

People aware of the situation have all said, pup would be dead without mine and his intervention, therefore BSB shouldn't charge him at all.

I honestly do not know. Some people have said haggle, others have said point blank pup should be given to him, as the situation means pup would have died if not for our intervention.

What do you think?

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SheSellsSanctuary · 13/01/2016 08:15

Pink if you can bear all the PMs I would also be hatful for an update. I didn't post on the thread but I was following it with interest and hoping for a good outcome.

Annecyinyourpantsy · 13/01/2016 08:12

could someone PM me please. was hoping for a good outcome.

GissASquizz · 13/01/2016 08:08

Can I have an update please?

YourDaughterHasATattoo · 13/01/2016 08:00

Can I have an update too please? Was so hoping for good news Sad

Penfold007 · 13/01/2016 07:58

I'd calmly tell BSB that she either hands the puppy over free of charge or the DWP, HMRC and RSPCA will be informed about the self employed work and animal cruelty.

diddl · 13/01/2016 07:55

I have followed but not posted.

Would be thankful for a pm.

Alisvolatpropiis · 13/01/2016 07:50

I'd like an update, please. I followed your thread when you first posted.

Bogeyface · 13/01/2016 07:43

Me three if anyone would kindly update, I was hoping that there would be a good ending to this.....

peaz1 · 13/01/2016 07:40

I hope its not very bad news, and just news that can be ironed out. Can someone PM me please?

YouMakeMyDreams · 13/01/2016 07:34

Oh no just read this morning and was looking at the end for good news. I'd like to know what happened please.

ifyoulikepinacolada · 13/01/2016 07:21

Hi pink i'm sorry to hear it's not great news. I've been lurking and would love to know what happened and offer whatever support I can?

notarehearsal · 13/01/2016 07:21

Take my hat off to you. My bitch wanted to kill her one and only pup for the first three ( very very long) days and I had to hand rear. God harder work than having a baby. I agree don't pay her a penny

SouthWesterlyWinds · 13/01/2016 07:16

I was following this - could I have an update also please?

YakTriangle · 13/01/2016 07:15

Bloody nerve of the woman! Shock would love to know what happened if anyone could pm me please

RidersOnTheStorm · 13/01/2016 07:13

pm please

ShitFacedTinyTim · 13/01/2016 07:09

Me too, please!

IamCarcass · 13/01/2016 07:09

Wow, just caught up with this - would love the update please!

RebootYourEngine · 13/01/2016 07:04

I would love an update.

Something needs to be done to stop all back street breaders. They are in it only for the money.

wannabestressfree · 13/01/2016 06:58

Can we help in any way? Would love an update...

Cactuar · 13/01/2016 06:52

I would like an update too please - have not posted previously but had been lurking. Sorry to hear not great news.

44PumpLane · 13/01/2016 06:43

Yes id like an update please!

knobblyknee · 13/01/2016 05:24

Stop enabling a BYBer. She has shown her true colours over this. She will do this as long as she is making money and you are helping her do that.

Stop being nice about it. Is she being nice? Is she a dog lover in your opinion?

Stop telling yourself you do this because you are an animal lover. This isnt loving animals.
Next litter its going to happen all over again.

Send her a bill for your expenses backed up with photocopies of every receipt.
Refuse to return the dog to her and let her sue you.

CheerfulYank · 13/01/2016 04:06

I need an update too, though I'm sorry it's not great. Cannot BELIEVE the cheek of people.

Summerwood1 · 13/01/2016 04:00

Sorry you've had problems. Can I have an update please?

Room101isWhereIUsedToLive · 13/01/2016 03:08

Would love an update. BSB sounds like a horrible person. There really should be b legislation in place to stop this kind of breeding of puppies. Awful situation.

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