Remember to focus on offering variety and texture progression, says the expert
How to start weaning your baby - practical tips from parents
Now that mealtimes are about to get a little messy and a lot more fun, the first stage of weaning isn’t about how much your baby eats, it’s about helping them get used to the idea of eating. You don’t need special equipment or costly foods - simple home-cooked ingredients are perfect. Their main source of nutrition will still be their milk.
1. Time it right
Choose a calm moment when your baby is alert and not overly hungry or tired. First tastes can be before, after, or during a milk feed. Early attempts can be messy and unpredictable.
2. Keep it simple
Start with one or two spoonfuls, and start with just one food at a time. Root vegetables like carrots or sweet potatoes are a good place to begin.
Look for signs that your baby wants more, like:
Mumsnetter Meadowfinch says: “I started DS on solid foods at 7 months - mashed egg, mashed peas, mashed carrots, puréed apple, buttered toast. He just played with it at first. Put it in his mouth, spat it out, gummed the toast fingers. He was determined to do it himself, so I just covered the floor in newspaper and let him get on with it.”
3. Keep mealtimes stress free
Mealtimes are about exploration as much as nutrition. Keep things relaxed and let your baby set the pace. Keep offering small tastes without pressure. Most babies take a few weeks to get the hang of it, and it can take more than 10 tries for them to enjoy a new food.
Mumsnetter Amberbeaker says: “[I] agree with ignoring social media - it only causes pressure and guilt. [...] [With] my second, I realised/decided to worry less about getting X amount into them, and more about getting them comfortable and familiar with food, even if it was mostly them squashing broccoli against their face. I reminded myself they weren't depending on these meals for nutrition as they were still meeting their needs on milk, so these were mostly 'tastes'. It really took some of the pressure off and he's a great eater now at two so no adverse effects.”
4. Let them learn throughout the weaning process
Babies learn by touching, squishing, smearing, licking, and dropping food. Mess is part of development, not a sign that something’s wrong.
Mumsnetter Superscientist explains: “My best tip for weaning is finding a nice cosy place in your mind for when your lovely food gets thrown on the floor or at you, and baby will eat when baby wants to eat.”
5. Gradually increase textures
As your baby gets used to chewing and grinding, reduce the amount of milk or liquid you add to their food.
Babies have very sensitive gag reflexes at first. According to the NHS, gagging is a normal, protective reflex that helps to prevent choking.
Always supervise your baby while eating, but don’t panic if they gag - it’s part of learning to eat solids safely.
Mumsnetter User69611 adds: “Choking is silent as the airway is completely blocked, so won’t be a noise! It is such a valid fear. I got freaked out by gagging (which is normal and part of the process as said above) and read to watch some videos of babies gagging on YouTube however odd that sounds, it helped! Gentle exposure therapy.”
What are the best first foods for babies?
The NHS recommends beginning with single vegetables or fruits like:
Carrot
Sweet potato
Parsnip
Courgette
Apple
Pear
It’s also important to include vegetables that are not sweet, such as broccoli, cauliflower, and spinach. Offer them as purée, mashed, or soft finger foods depending on your approach.
As your baby gets used to eating, gradually introduce:
Soft pasta, rice, and potatoes
Yoghurt, cheese, and plain dairy foods
Soft fruits like bananas
Porridge or oats
Beans, lentils, and chickpeas
Fish, chicken, eggs, and soft-cooked meat
According to Lucy Upton, “Whilst there are no hard and fast 'rules' (other than avoiding certain foods), many parents choose to start weaning with vegetables - especially green or bitter vegetables such as broccoli, courgette or green beans, as babies are already well accustomed to sweet tastes, so this starts with early exposure to a variety of different flavours.
That said, incorporating sweeter root vegetables, fruit, grains like oats and iron-rich foods like pulses or eggs are all great foods to introduce in those first weeks.”
Avoid: added sugar, salt, honey (before 12 months), whole nuts (choking risk), and salty ready meals.
Mumsnetter Disco2022 explains: “I would just give her what you are having minus sugar/salt. I feel like that's what I did with my first […] I also seem to remember that I used to prep small amounts of cooked broccoli/carrot etc in the fridge. That and [a] bit of potato and cheese. Lovely meal - they can pretty much eat the same few things on rotation at that stage (if you find it difficult to adapt your food to them). Milk is far more important nutritionally.”
For more first-food ideas, the Best Start in Life hub has age-by-age weaning guidance you can follow.
Weaning recipes and meal inspiration
If you’re looking for simple, nutritious weaning recipes, Best Start in Life offers a large collection of age-appropriate recipe ideas for babies and toddlers. You can filter recipes by your baby’s age and meal type, making it easy to find exactly what you need.
Recipes are available from six months to over 12 months, covering first tastes, main meals, finger foods and snacks, all aligned with UK guidance.