BJ - swallowing tips

[Moomagoo]

I’m a fan of giving blowjobs but I am not a fan of him finishing in my mouth as it makes me gag. Thing is, I’ve got a gorgeous new guy who is so good in bed and I’d love to give him the works! Is there anything I can do to make it easier for me?

[Myothernameistakenbysomeone]

Take him to the back of your throat when he cums. You don't taste anything and it just goes straight down 👍🏼

[Osirus]

Was going to say, try and get it as far back on your tongue as possible. You can hardly taste it. You might find you start to really enjoy giving them. It’s one of my favourite things to do!

[StarlightLady]

Firstly, this might not be for you. Sex should be shared and fun, l’m happy swallowing but it doesn’t mean everybody should be. The texture is similar to Greek yoghurt. The taste will vary from person to person depending on diet. Strawberries and water melon work wonders. It’s a no-no after asparagus!

Gagging is probably brought about in part by your own concern. Think ice lolly!

Secondly, I echo what others have said, but don’t take him back until he is ready to explode (you can feel the pulse change) and not so far as it’s beyond your own comfort zone.

Watch your own positioning, maybe try kneeling. If you are in a position where it would be difficult to drink a glass of water (or, let’s up the game, champagne) for example, it’s going to be awkward.

Take control, he really mustn’t thrust but enjoy being “worked on”.

Finally, make sure he is going down on you regularly. Now that is important.

[Moomagoo]

Starlight thank you, thinking of it as an ice lolly will probably really help! I’m worried I’ll give it a go and end up bringing it all back up...not sexy at all

[maggie1862]

give it a go and report back when mission accomplished but most of all enjoy it yourself too .

[StarlightLady]

OP, don’t do so much as see it like an ice lolly, rather than treat it like one.

And watch out for any blokes coming along with advice on the best way to do it!

[Happyhusband]

Wherever he comes, make sure he knows you love getting him there. A bored blow job is worse than none at all.

[Anotherblokelurking]

I know I’ve said this before but if you can’t or don’t want to swallow then pull off before he comes, don’t let him come in your mouth then spit it out. I think most men will not be annoyed or frustrated if you give great oral but pull off at the last second.

[VixenSixen]

Right to the back.... It completely bypasses the tongue, no taste.

As for technique, make sure you make it really wet and use the ice lolly routine with your tongue, up the sides and around the tip, maintaining eye contact while doing this drives men crazy. Use your hand in between at the base while you work on the head and don't forget that the balls need attention too, they are very sensitive.

Can't believe I just wrote all that down. Lol.

Have fun! 🌈😻

[leila382]

It's really easier to swallow if his cock is very deep in your mouth. Not to swallow every single time, you can just open your mouth and let his cum run down your face and body, men go mad about it too (thanks, porn!)

[Joey7t8]

Feed him loads of pineapple.

[namechangedyorkshire]

The back of the throat can take a little practice as I found it made me gag at first. With practice I got there but it was more about him loving me seeing taking as much of him in my mouth as I could. I don't mind the taste of his cum but if I don't feel like it I do the same with letting it all come out of my mouth and he really loves me doing that anyway....I just say OMG there was so much I couldn't take it all.

Is good to have variety anyway....and he loves me saying he had so much cum I just couldn't swallow it all lol

Practice is what's required!

[faulkner200]

Girls I've got to ask is it really that bad ? If it's in your mouth anyway isnt it just easier to swallow ?

[Namechangedyorkshire]

As I said, I don't mind it, taste anyway but I know some loathe it. Not sure about other girls on here but it usually gets discussed on a night out if too much wine consumed and the spit or swallow debate happens. Most of my friends reckon they swallow but hey, a couple don't and find it repulsive (I don't thinker do BJ either)

My DH loves I am a morning person and I love going down on him on a morning before we get up for work.... puts him in a great mood for the day lol and he really appreciates it and returns the favour as well

[faulkner200]

I'd love it I'd my wife swallowed but she flat out refuses any tips to get her to try ?

[Sparkybloke]

The taste is affected by what your man has eaten beforehand....so if taste is an issue avoid curries, lots of onions, asparagus, beer etc. It is said that things like pineapple juice (mentioned already) or cranberry juice can improve the taste a little. At the end of the day though, semen Tastes like semen so if you really don't like the taste best to get him to finish elsewhere😊

[Justaordinarybloke]

Get in a 69 position with him on top, that will make it easier.

[LookAtWhatYouCouldHaveWon]

Swallowing is not for me. I'll do/try anything else, but i just cannot swallow. Warm, salty jelly? No thanks.

Luckily DP2 doesn't ejaculate very much at all and I can just about cope with that. DP1 on the other hand... nope.. just can't do it.

[RogueV]

Grapefruit BJ. Google it

[KurriKawari]

I know this is a really basic question but must you wait until they hard before giving a BJ?
DP has problems getting hard (age and medication) I've tried to help him along by using my hands and doesn't work. I don't understand how to give a BJ when it's all still soft:/

[Sparkybloke]

Ahem....no...just do as you would do....I will spare the details but mouth and tongue will often help things along!

[StarlightLady]

@KurriKawari - It’s fun to grow him in your mouth.

[angell84]

I don't think it is like greek yoghurt.

I think it is like snot.

Don't do anything that you don't want to.

The volume surprised me. I had one man fill my mouth to the absolute brim with liquid. It was like a soup bowl amount of snot. There was no way I was swallowing that amount of liquid.

Don't do anything that you do not like

[Namechangedyorkshire]

I lol at that @angell84 . I think cum does taste different to an extent. I am ok with it but you make a valid point. If we have been playing a while then DH does cum an awful lot. I just know what to expect and have got practiced at swallowing it down. I just love seeing and hearing his reaction when cumming like that...and I love what he does in return lol

[StarlightLady]

To add, if someone is flacid, you can more or less engulf the whole thing in your mouth and stay within your comfort zone by slowly pulling back on growth.

I’ve always found it comforting when upset, maybe I was deprived of a dummy as a kid!!

I didn’t say the taste was like Greek yogurt, l said the texture was. Taste varies from person to person, and if the head is towards the back of the mouth (but comfortable) at the final blow, any taste is quite minimal. Any probs? Daily strawberries and Pineapple and or cranberry juice.

Real men kiss afterwards.