My husband is so so so so so quiet. Unless he is making idle chit chat with a friend or acquittance. Very good at asking surface level questions and maintaining a fairly unenergetic but basic conversation. Absolutely nothing more than that, it's like he physically can't.
I've gone through the ringer thinking I expect too much, memories of pre marriage now make me think that he just went along with me or entertained my chat.
But there's nothing. I am finding it unbearable and horrifically lonely and depressing. 2 little kids and my heart is breaking thinking of a broken or not broken marriage.
But I'm stuck and although he has absolutely nothing to say about anything other than the dishwasher or whether we need milk he is a good person.
What would you do. I'm 40 and genuinely scared of a dead future.
I've posted before but keen to know of any other women whose husband's literally say nothing substantial.
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My husband does not speak. *MNHQ edited title*
HelpWendy · 12/05/2021 01:00
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