I am utterly ashamed to say that I hit my partner. I was arrested by the police and because he didn't want to press charges I got a caution.
I feel absolutely awful and so upset that I hurt him. Nobody deserves to be hit, especially not by the person who claims they love you. I have been on the receiving end of that with my ex and it really dented my trust in him although he never changed and did it again.
We had a very long chat when I came out of the police station. He thinks we can move on from this.
Can we though?? Can you ever move on from your partner hitting you? I'm so scared of losing him. He's the best thing that's ever happened to me. I cried so much in the police station. The officer who saw me crying told me it wasn't that bad, I'll only get a caution, chalk it up to experience etc. But I wasn't crying about the legal repercussions I was crying as I was so upset I'd hurt him. I'm upset about the legal ramifications but I know it's more than I deserve to only get a caution and I know that I should have and deserved to be convicted. I know that it is absolutely his right to leave me and that he absolutely should leave me.
I am doing an anger management course and I'm seeing a counsellor at the moment and I know there are so many things I need to work on. I know that I can turn things around from a personal perspective but I'm scared I've broken his trust so badly and hurt him so badly. Why would he stick around? I don't think I would if he had hit me.
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Can we move on from this?
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GerddwrEryri · 19/02/2018 11:00
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