The thing that’s keeping me from ending my marraiage is the thought I’d regret it.
A long long time ago I ended a LTR with a man I loved, because my mum said she didn’t think he was demonstrative enough, and that I was too young and I ended it. I regretted it and fell into a couple of abusive relationships which I tried to make work because I felt like I’d failed somehow.
I met my husband, we married 14 years ago and have children but he is disrespectful, manipulative and rude. There is no joy or partnership there and he doesn’t listen to a word I say. On the flip side he isn’t physically abusive, he just isn’t present somehow, and is out doing his hobby 4 nights a week leaving me with the kids.
I don’t think it can get better but I don’t know if it’s so awful that I can disrupt the kids.
WWYD?
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Anyone divorced/separated and regretted it?
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