Baby is 2 weeks old. Came by C-Section so I am still recovering.
Inlaws visited today. They walked in and lifted baby straight out of cot (she was fast asleep) without even asking me.
Then asked me what was for dinner.
Then spent the full visit interfering in everything from her name to her feeding to her sleeping. It was like I don't exist and they were her parents! Grandma referred to her as 'her girl.'
She breast feeds. She had a low birth weight - 4lb and is a tiny baby who needs small feeds very frequently.
Final straw was grandma refusing to hand her back to me saying she doesn't need feeding yet. Then when they left, saying it's time to wean her off these 2 hourly feeds. I wanted to say - and do what, starve her?!
They are coming back tomorrow, having left a stack of dishes today. They informed me, not asked, informed me they'd be here at breakfast time.
Help. How do I put boundaries in.
Am fuming.
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