My emotionally and verbally narcissistic parents have sent me into a depression again. This time because they are not happy with arrangements that have been made for my son's birthday. They want to know what I am 'playing at'. We haven't organised a big party (still very young age) but the various grandparents are coming to visit on separate occasions around the date. His abusive father is now my ex so no big happy families. They say I am a bully and have upset my mother (again) and I am pushing them out because they are not being invited to the 'party' which has been organised by myself for my ex's family. Which is bollocks. They shout and swear and accuse and guilt trip and belittle and generally call me an aggressive bully when the irony is I have barely said a word because I am being sworn and shouted at as soon as I try to explain.they are awful people. My upbringing was horrendous I would be happy to cut them out of my life. I just don't know what to do... I know they will guilt trip and headwork me to make me feel I am the unstable one..they think me breaking up with my ex is just another example of my hysterical and unstable character. Please help I just don't know how to handle this anymore ??
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