I'm new here, I just wanted to get the perspective of others on this one.
This is our second marriage, and I'm three months into my second pregnancy. I'm now quite visibly pregnant (I was let through fast track at airport security last week, saving us about an hour of queueing!)
Anyway, yesterday my husband was on his way back from work, when he phoned me to tell me that he'd had a meeting with a woman at his work who was 8 months pregnant, and that her bump was smaller than mine and that mine was huge by comparison (I'm only 3 months pregnant and apparently she is 8 months.) This comes after weeks of him expressing amazement at how massive I am so soon.
I burst into tears at this and told him I don't think it's appropriate that he's dicussing other women's figures with me. I had an episode of bleeding early on in pregnancy, I'm already worried that everything is ok inside my belly, this comment has just made me feel like I'm hideously abnornal and there's something really wrong with my pregnancy.
I'm due to have my first scan tomorrow, I feel so nervous and upset. My husband is furious with me, he says my reaction is totally unwarranted and he is perfectly entitled to discuss other women's figures with me as he is approaching the subject from a health perspective.
I should mention I'm a small person and I have already explained to him that I was a similar size in my previous pregnancy. This won't be his first baby either, so he's had the experience of having a pregnant wife before so he's not completely clueless.
No-one except my husband knows that I am pregnant, so I don't even have any friends or family I can turn to on this, so sorry for offloading like this, but I'd appreciate some advice on this.
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Three month's pregnant and husband is comparing my body with other women's
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exairhostess · 17/04/2013 12:39
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