Hi I really hope I could get some advice asap. My grandfather currently lives in a high rise tower on the second floor. Above him are a family of 6 (in a two bedroom flat). Since as far as I can remember, these neighbours have been nothing but hassle. Some years back, their children used to throw stuff out the windows which would land on my grandfathers windows, such as tomato sauce, eggs, left over food etc. But that isn't the problem now. Recently in the past year, the noise coming from their flat is horrendous. They hammer at 1am in the morning, drill the floors after 10pm and are constantly slamming doors and shouting. However that isn't the main main issue. Their son who has autism, runs up and down the hallway excessively everyday without fail. From the minute he's home from school on a weekday, from 4pm to 10pm he runs constantly back and forth from room to room. His foot steps are so heavy, it feels like the ceiling will fall through. I am a carer so I know some stuff on autism and relative behaviour and having routines. However, should a child be allowed to bang thud thump for 6 HOURS NONE STOP? I know it's not early hours (which it can be sometimes) but for 6 hours everyday and it's really bringing me down. I look after my grandad daily and study for my a levels whilst I'm here. But the noise is so LOUD, heavy and distracting I'm just not getting anything done. It's also affecting my grandad badly. On weekends is when we dread it. Not to mention the son who is contantly banging and clattering, they have another young daughter who also shouts and bangs, but on the weekend, it starts from 8am..all the way through to 11pm in the same day, it's beyond excessive and disruptive. I have spoken to the parents, they either deny it's them and say it's coming from above them! Which is RIDICULOUS as they are right above my grandad. They are also abruptive, I have recorded the banging on my phone (yes you can actually hear the bangs on my phone recorder) and asked them to listen, they out right refuse. I have knocked multiple times in one year and it's just not sinking in. Yesterday they slammed the door in my face and said "well he's autistic what do you expect us to do" well I would think you would know you have to have due care and respect for the people above you and below you when living in a tower block! It's really dragging me down to the point I hate coming to my grandads now. My grandad spends his weekend away from the flat now due to the dreaded noise all day. They are really neighbours from hell. Previously they have had multiple leaks in their flat, to the point where it was leaking into my grandads ceiling near electricals lighting!!! And then recently they had another FLOOD in their kitchen which they left for days, it's spread that far into the kitchen, the council had to knock the wall down due to water damage and start again. When I confronted them about that, they ALSO denied it was their flat!!! But the repairman confirmed they had fixed the leak in their flat the previous day! I do not want mediation or anything with them as they are completely unreasonable and liars. I maybe coming acros as selfish and heartless and I completely sympathise with their child, but what about us? Any advice would be grateful x
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