Argh help me.
My step dad (mum's Ex partner) is in his 60s. He split from my mum when I was 14 and we have remained very close. He has been like a dad to me and my sister.
He is a lovely, warm, kind man. We both love him to bits. He has been unlucky in love and has been desperately lonely.
Well anyway he's gone to the Philippines and met someone - turns out she is only 19. (He has told us she is 25) but I've had a nosey on Facebook and found her.
I know the age gap is huge but I've seen bigger. I don't understand the attraction and I don't have a clue about Filipino culture. Is this the norm? Is he in danger?
We are going to visit him and have a frank discussion with him. She has applied to come over here on a work visa (she's a student)
Just wanted advice / thoughts. Also I know it's a shocking age gap. I don't need to be told that and I don't want to hear abuse towards him. I'm not keen on the idea.
Thankyou
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45 year age gap - Filipino bride
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binkyblinky · 18/01/2019 17:42
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