When I give birth I want it to just be me and my OH, and then I want it to stay just us for a good few hours AT LEAST afterwards before anyone visits... for the first feed and all of that.
I feel like it's time we'll never get back and I want me and my OH to enjoy those first few hours with our baby together.
My family and OH seem to think this is an awful thing
My mum is begging to be there even though I know she will badger me and annoy me and I'll end up snapping and she will sulk
My OH wants his mum there which even though we get on well I don't want her there while I'm giving birth!!!
It's both our parents first grandchild so I get it's a big deal but it's also my first baby and I don't want any stress and I want to do it how I want... AIBU????
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To have my birth how I want?!?
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ftmtb · 07/02/2018 22:51
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