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to be annoyed with this topless lady?

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user3785022135267845922 Fri 18-Aug-17 13:09:35

... we r on holiday in a family resort in sunny country. There is a lady who keeps ending up on the sun loungers opposite us, who seems to enjoy lying topless by the pool everyday. She has a DS who looks about 15, and a DD who looks about 5.

I think it's really inappropriate to sunbathe topless on a family resort in full view of everyone and right by the toddler pool, and with her own DS around. Am I being unreasonable in feeling uncomfortable and wishing she'd cover up?? smile

SleepFreeZone Fri 18-Aug-17 13:11:04

I'm not sure. I'm assuming it's not breaking any law laws of the country. Is anyone else sunbathing topless?

EdmundCleverClogs Fri 18-Aug-17 13:11:56

What exactly is offensive about her breasts - are they spouting curse words as people go past? I assume you're also offended by any topless man around as well?

WhatchaMaCalllit Fri 18-Aug-17 13:11:57're off your rocker to be honest grin

Have a cocktail and relax on your holiday.

DixieFlatline Fri 18-Aug-17 13:12:21

I'm assuming there are plenty of men sunbathing topless?

DixieFlatline Fri 18-Aug-17 13:12:48

God damn it, Edmund. It was original when I typed it.

Travis1 Fri 18-Aug-17 13:12:50

YABU, it's only boobs.

DartmoorDoughnut Fri 18-Aug-17 13:12:57

I'm assuming all the blokes have their chests/moobs out too

Regularsizedrudy Fri 18-Aug-17 13:12:57

Yeeeah you need to chill out. Youre on holiday!

DartmoorDoughnut Fri 18-Aug-17 13:13:29

Everyone else got there first <sigh>

MrsMozart Fri 18-Aug-17 13:13:32

Maybe the lady would appreciate your not looking and stressing about her?

Pandoraslastchance Fri 18-Aug-17 13:13:53

Unless she is dangling her nipples in your cocktail or slapping your husband in the face with her books then I fail to see the problem.

Yabu I'm afraid.

DixieFlatline Fri 18-Aug-17 13:13:55

Now I feel better! grin

HistoriaTrixie Fri 18-Aug-17 13:14:16

Men get their nipples out all the time. If you're offended by female nipples but not by male nipples you might want to have a think about why that is.

NicolasFlamel Fri 18-Aug-17 13:15:09

They're breasts. That's all. She's chilling by the pool on holiday, not forcing you to motorboat them in the street. Her kids have probably seen them plenty of times anyway. Even my four year old manages not to be scandalized by a pair of boobs. confused

Sunshinegirls Fri 18-Aug-17 13:15:16

They're only boobs! Don't look if they upset you.

EdmundCleverClogs Fri 18-Aug-17 13:15:53

DixieFlatline, sorry, hope I didn't make you feel a bit of a tit. It's usually me who makes a boob of myself, though I've learned to nip it in the bud...

hellhasnofurylikeahungrywoman Fri 18-Aug-17 13:15:54

YABU, I really don't get what is inappropriate about breasts not being covered up?

Notevilstepmother Fri 18-Aug-17 13:16:03

Don't go to countries that aren't uptight about female bodies if you don't like it.

Saudi might suit you perhaps?

DMBoot Fri 18-Aug-17 13:16:09


If looking at her boobs makes you uncomfortable, stop looking.

JessicaEccles Fri 18-Aug-17 13:16:27

Just pretend she is breastfeeding smile

user3785022135267845922 Fri 18-Aug-17 13:16:37

Ok! Thought maybe it was me! She is the only topless female though. Men are topless, but they don't have boobs (?) all men have their manly bits covered (?)

Am I the only one who thinks it's wierd to sunbathe topless on a family resort? (Seems like I am!!)

ThymeLordIsSpartacus Fri 18-Aug-17 13:17:10

Get over it. She's on holiday in a, presumably, hot country. They are just tits. They won't hurt you. (Unless you look directly at them without suitable eye protection)

Sunshinegirls Fri 18-Aug-17 13:17:47

You probably aren't the only one, but you should be.

CabernetSauvignyoni Fri 18-Aug-17 13:18:37

Men are topless, but they don't have boobs

Unless they all have immaculate physiques with rock solid pecs then they also have fatty tissue in two separate deposits on their chest. You know. Like boobs.

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