I very recently came out as lesbian. I've dated several men in my life but nothing has come of it so it's been so freeing to finally be out and proud! :-D
I really like one of my best female friends. I've always known she wasn't lesbian or bisexual so I've just left it.
I have a few drinks and just started telling her about how there's a woman I do like but she's straight so not interested. Caught myself saying too much and swifty changed the subject.
My friend text me today asking if I was going to tell the female friend I liked that I liked her.
I was mortified that she had remembered but I just replied saying 'oh I was just a bit tipsy last night. It's not big deal. I've already forgotten about it. Looking forward to tonight'.
She replied asking why I wasn't going to tell her how I felt.
Annoyed that she had brought the conversation back I said that the woman is not lesbian, does not feel the same, there's no point carrying this on'.
She replied saying I do not know she isn't lesbian and why don't I just tell her.
I then got annoyed and said I do not want to tell her, so please just leave it. I know she isn't lesbian.
Then she replied saying:
' Ah fair enough but you don't know that do you. Right now she's bored. Right now she's sat here doing spreadsheets. Right now she's drinking coffee. Right now she's eating a salad. Right now she's contemplating getting some water from the dispenser. But she's certainly not straight' See you at 6pm.'
HUH? I've not replied. Mumsnet users please help me. What does that even mean?! She couldn't possibly know it's her. Does she think it' someone she works with? I don't even know any of them.
AIBU?
Weird text. Does she know it's her I like? [blush]
smarties1991 · 04/03/2017 12:58
Ah so that's embarrassing. She knows it's her, might be lesbian or bisexual but doesn't actually feel the same.
That was so unnecessary of her. I certainly won't be turning up now! Don't know why she couldn't have just left it. I was never going to act on it.
On another note, I hope she hasn't got mumsnet. This is so identifying I might aswell have copy and pasted her facebook profile in the message box!! 
She knows you have a crush on her and she's giving you the green light to go for it. 
She definitely seems to guess that it's you. Just be careful though...if she's just suspicious that it's her, and curious to know for sure, she might be pushing for you to confess and then she could claim shock and surprise. However, if you trust her ad think there's a chance that she likes you too, then go for it! And report back to let us know! 
That is a very nice way of telling you she knows and encouraging you to make a move. Have a nice evening and ask her if she enjoyed her salad
I don't think she could make it any clearer
Have a great evening
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She knows, she likes you and she wants you to make a God damn move already
Have a good night tonight! Come back and tell us how it goes
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