I have to go back to work in October, I really don't want to but we can't afford for me not to.
DD has a place at a lovely nursery near work, it's pricey but is really nice, elder DD went to the 3-5 year old part of it in another building.
I went to see it in December and liked it, the only thing was the lady who showed me round, the manager, was quite cold and businesslike, she seemed very capable and by the book but didn't seem that warm.
We went to see it again yesterday and I feel so upset now. The lady showed no interest in DD at first, after 5 mins she said, "it's a girl isn't it"!!!! After that she was tickling her toes and saying she was cute, and I have no doubt she would keep DD clean, fed, etc but it just upset me. She said for the first 2 weeks she will take on DD's 121 care as they try to do that so babies don't get confused by lots of new faces.
DH said he thought it was fine and I was overreacting, I just want her to be cared for and have lots of affection by the ladies at the nursery.
It's too late to find another nursery, all the ones I would want are full.
Feel quite crap!