Goodness you are rude to people who are trying to help you!
My last post on the subject as well.
I assume you are not actually confused as to why ACAS are meeting with BA and Unite, but it's in an attempt to avoid a huge strike that will disrupt hundreds of thousands of people's lives and cost the economy millions of pounds. Personally I'm fine with them doing that. As Ribena says, it's a different service anyway.
The thing is with solicitors, they do two things, they advise you about the situation you are in, and they represent you to a third party. You need to instruct them, though, so if your DH doesn't want to pursue his case any further and wants to settle, he would need to specifically instruct his solicitor to do that. Let's give your DH's solicitor the benefit of the doubt for a moment and assume he/she isn't actually completely thick but just a bit hopeless and that there is a communication issue rather than anything else.
I would advise your husband to request a meeting with his solicitor to review his case and ask the following questions if he hasn't already:
- How likely do you think it is I would win at a tribunal?
- How much compensation would I be likely to get if I did win?
- Approximately how much will it cost me in legal fees to pursue the case all the way through a tribunal?
- How likely is it the other side will offer a settlement and how much might it be?
- If I offer to settle how much do you think I might get?
Once he's got the answers to all those questions, your DH should decide which avenue he wants to pursue and specifically instruct his solicitor accordingly, in writing to avoid doubt.
I would say though, if your DH does offer to settle, he is unlikely to get very much if anything, as his employer will take that to mean he's not keen to go to tribunal so either might drop the case anyway or isn't confident he'd win it.
If the employer thought they might lose or it might cost them a lot of money, they would have offered to settle, and your DH is always going to get more of a settlement if the employer approaches him rather than the other way around. As his employer hasn't offered to settle, it's likely they think they have a good case, they think your DH might drop it anyway and/or they are not concerned about how much it might cost them.