The MNer who has been dismissed after one single comment is making me wonder about exactly what one can and can't say safely on Facebook about work (and indeed, on MN, come to that). Obviously the only safe thing would be to avoid ever talking about work on social networking sites, ever.
However for most people work is a big part of their lives and it can be weird never mentioning something that is clearly a huge part of your life.
I am finding what happened to the MNer in question quite chilling because it was just so final and ruthless after such an easy (and understandable) error, and she had never been in trouble before. Free speech is an important principle, but when it comes to the workplace should we all in fact be all tra la la, smiley faces, only ever saying anything good about our employer?
So I am wondering about the following hypothetical scenarios and whether any MNers with HR experience, or indeed anyone, has any views.
- Suppose you didn't yourself say your boss was a cow but you said something factual about what she'd done ('My boss won't let me work from home') and your mates all came on and commented 'What a cow!'
Could you be held responsible for that?
- Suppose you were pretty outspoken, thinking your settings were private, and then FB changed something or there was an error and it got made public? (This isn't as far-fetched as it sounds given that Amazon did once make an error so that all the anonymous reviews had names attached to them for a day.) Could they just say 'well you should have known it might not stay private?'
- Suppose something bad happened to you at work - say you got sexually harassed - and you posted about it, could you get in trouble (let's say a person you thought was your friend but wasn't shops you) because admitting that this kind of thing goes on in your workplace makes the place look bad? Let's say the harassment was proved - could you get in trouble anyway?
- Suppose you bitched about colleagues on MN and your enemies found it, could you defend yourself by saying it was anonymous? Or would they be able to argue that it obviously wasn't anonymous because they were able to find it?
- Are social networking sites a special case? Or could you equally get in trouble for criticising your colleague or workplace in a Christmas round robin?!