I'm hating my job again

[ilovemy2babies]

I'm starting to hate my job again somedays I don't want to go in because I hate the way some of the staff treat me. I'm a duty manager been doing it for 6 months and I get no respect off some of the staff.

It all started a few months ago when I had problems with a member of my team. I tried my best with her but she is just one of those people who thinks she's in charge. I was giving her jobs to do and she was giving them to other people.

It's all happening again now with another member of staff and I just don't think I can cope with all this happening again. I know it probably sounds silly but I end up getting really upset and my confidence been knocked. I start taking things really personnally and start thinking about things in my past and thinking if these things had not happened I would not be feeling like this.

Please help I don't want to quit but I really feel like it.

It is hard when this happens, and I think most of us do go through periods where work is more difficult/demanding than at other times. But it should never leave you feeling like this over a period of time.

In saying that, however, were you happy with the way the first situation was resolved? If not, and if you feel as if you did not get the perfect resolution then this may be history repeating itself because someone else thinks they can do the same to you. This time, you must get a positive outcome so that you feel good yourself and your team can see what you should all expect of each other in the workplace.

Who can support you in this? Or who can advise you?

For the moment, get advice and act quickly to try to nip it in the bud. Then see what long term changes you can make to avoid it happening again.

Sorry you are going through this.

I spoke to my manager the other day she could tell i was upset and i told her i was worried about things going back to how they were. She said that, that was definatly not going to happen but im not convinced and still feel worried.
I dont want to talk to her about it again shes gonna think i cant cope