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I resigned today! (Next step - find a new job in next 3 months)

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Hulababy · 04/11/2008 20:55

I resigned today!

and it feels pretty good

Things have just gotten worse over the past year or two, and esp the last month. My colleague has already transferred. I don't recognise my own job any more. And just don't feel that anyone cares about it all anymore. It is no longer fullfilling and there is little job satisfaction at all. I rarely see clients for advice/guidance reviews these days and am doing more and more paperwork. And they are messing with holidays - trying to make it so I can;t take all my holidays in school holidays, and have made comments re my flexible hours (I finish early and have short lunch) now that Mollie is 6. Amd harmonisation has been threatened for ages - which for me means new contract with less pay, 7 week's less holiday and no teacher's pension. What an opportunity - yeah! Hmmm...

So today was last straw. Got a letter, first day back from holiday last week, telling me I have a meeting with two managers and HR over my sickness in last 12 months. The computer has flagged me up again as having gone over my sickness allowances (3 events of sickness and/or 5 days) Why did I go over? Becuase I had an operation last November and had 9 week's off for post op tretment, all ccovered by GP and consultant's notes. And then two one days from tumy bug. I had same issue last year just after the first op were I was off for 7 weeks. It is all so aautomated, no one can over ride, and the way they go about it is awful. Meeting is tomorrow too so no notice.

So DH has had enough as well as it just being me havng enough. He suggested my notice goes in today, I ummed and ahed - but did it. I have a 3 month notice so finish at Feb half term - last day is Wed 11 Feb.

So I have 3 months to find a job. I fancy doing some teaching assistant work. I love the voluntary work I do at DD's school and will look for that work. I don't want to teach anymore. I don't want that kind of workload esp whilst DD is little. We can afford the pay cut, so I figure I should do something I actually like, have some fun and enjoy work again. So wish me luck - 3 months and counting, no pressure lol!

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compo · 04/11/2008 20:59

Well done
I don't know why but I thought you had resigned from being a teacher ages ago.
I must have confused you with someone else

cornsilkpyrotechnicqueen · 04/11/2008 21:01

Good luck - I didn't know there was a sickness time allowance, how stupid.

llareggub · 04/11/2008 21:04

Congratulations! A big decision but hopefully one that will turn out to be the best thing you've ever done. Good luck with the job search.

Hulababy · 04/11/2008 21:06

Compo - I did. Jumped from one fire to another though. Went into prison ed and the issues are manily managerial. Bottom line is though that I just want to have a job I love and enjoy. I don't want a career. I don't want to have to keep jumping through hoops, doing year long courses whenever they change the goalposts, doing other people's work. I want a fulfilling, fun job that I can get my grips into - that is my plan anyway.

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StinkyBumBum · 04/11/2008 21:06

good for you, i bet it is a weight off of your mind. You will be OK, I am sure

Hulababy · 04/11/2008 21:13

Oh I will be fine. Even if I don't find a job on 3 months it isn't the end of the world. I want a job for the job satisfaction. I am in a very lucky position I know.

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madrose · 04/11/2008 21:17

Would like to say - how much I respect you. Good luck, have been thinking of doing the same. The relief must be good.

Hulababy · 04/11/2008 21:25

madrose - not sure why, but thank you! And if in same dilemma - write down whole load of pros ad cons and work from there. I did it and it all started to make far more sense.

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Hulababy · 04/11/2008 21:25

madrose - not sure why, but thank you! And if in same dilemma - write down whole load of pros ad cons and work from there. I did it and it all started to make far more sense.

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madrose · 04/11/2008 21:32

because it's often easier to stay some where - because it's safe, it's what you know. I'm such a chicken about things like that - takes me for ever to make the decision and then I agonise about it for ages.

Just keep thinking it'll be better next term - not that it's bad just got the holiday's over down in the dumps feelings and it's 7 weeks before I can escape again.

So nice one

compo · 04/11/2008 21:33

oh yes completely agree with madrose
quality of life and happiness is juch more important than keepng up apearances in a career that you have grown to hate

Hulababy · 04/11/2008 21:36

Yes, know what you mean. Have been putting it off for a while.

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Hulababy · 05/11/2008 06:49

Have the joy of the HR meeting now.............hate work sometimes!

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Hulababy · 08/11/2008 08:54

Well, that was quick!

I have a new job!

As of Jan/Feb I will be a level 3 senior teaching assistat at a local school not far from home. And also a study support coordinator too.

Had interview today. The practical task - 15 min guided reading (never done that before!) went fab, and the interview obviosuly did too. Apparently I performed excellently and they were super impressed and keen to get me in asap as they think I will be wonderful for the school, lol! And my telephone ref from school was superb.

Still a bit stunned TBH. Not taken it in as all happened so quick. Lots of changes - but hopefully all for the best. It is only temp till July IIRR (TBH can't rememeber much!) but can see what happens after that. If I can find a job that quick this time hopefully with even more exp it won;t be a problem in future either.

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fatzak · 08/11/2008 09:03

Well done Hula Sounds like you will be great for the school with your teaching experience

SueW · 08/11/2008 10:08

Great news Hula.

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