Quick update for anyone interested - went for job through another agency - agency asked how many kids I had. I told her because she was nice and I trusted her not to make a big deal out of it with potential employers - even though they shouldn't have asked!!! Naughty naughty!!
Then she got me an interview - she didn't tell them I'd got kids, so I was hopeful.
Interview was at 8.30 in the morning, so DP took kids to school.
Everything fine until:
Question 3, 4, and 5 from the interviewer (female office manager) was "have you got children - how many - how old"
Q6 was from the MD also interviewing(male):"who looks after them?" (what the hell did they think I was doing with them now, when I work more hours than the poxy job they had??)
Q7 was again from MD "what does your other half do"
Q8 and 9 from both - was about current working hours and why I work them (- er, because my boss wants someone in the office later on and it suits me better etc anyway!!! Not really up to me what hours my company actually operate!)
OMG!!! The bloody cheek of them to dare ask me all that.
Completely irrelevant to job as well, as job was very similar to current one what they were after.
I was speechless, but did sort of want the job, so answered anyway, like a fool. Once I went on to tell them I started at 9.30 now and liked it as I could take the kids to school, that was it, they couldn't wait to get me out of there. The hours stated on advert was 9-5. So I didn't outright demand flexihours, just told them I prefer it. But I would have asked them for flexiworking.
I told the agency all what they had come out with, and she just said "oh well, perhaps they will like you enough to offer me the job without it all being an issue".
Agency now tells me today that I didn't get the job as the company "thought I wouldn't like doing the telesales part of the job", but they did like me.
bloody strange that, seeing as my job involves telesales on a daily basis and I emphasised how much I enjoyed the customer contact and that was the main part of my job when I started - so not like I'm not used to it!!! And it's mostly cold calling!!!!
Anyone think I didn't get the job perhaps just because I have kids and they're narrow minded???? Or am I being paranoid?
I was going to turn it down anyway as they have complete disregard for what is legal obviously, by asking those questions, so no way would I work for them!!! My present job is bad enough for breaking vasrious laws - I don't want another employer like that. But they should not have asked me all that!!!
As a contrast, had another interview the day after, direct with the college and they never mentioned kids - purely asked about examples of work I had done to match their person spec. But the lucky person was getting offered the job by phone last Friday or today - and they didn't call me, so I am expecting a Dear John - but that is OK, as I was treated fairly and on merit etc for that.
Oh well - I am back to trawling the job centre site again .....