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dilemma - should I stay or should I go??

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DebL · 12/02/2003 17:01

I posted this on another thread, I would be grateful for your thoughts fellow mumsnetters....

I am in the middle of a dilemma - I recently returned to work part -time after 6 months maternity leave. My job is as a project engineer in the Chemical Industry. I work on a production site installing new equipment and assissting in production of refined rapeseed oil. As you can imagine, this is a very traditional male - orientated work environment, and my part-time status was hard to negotiate. Unfortunately it is only a 'trial' for 3 months and ends in March. My boss wants me to return full time, but I am not prepared to do this. To be honest it is a very demanding job, long hours etc when commissioning new equipment, training staff on shifts etc., and it is hard to fit the role to part time unless the company are prepared to be more flexible. The stress is getting to me and I am thinking of resigning. I love my job, but my daughter comes first, and it will be a real struggle with just DH income, but we will manage until I can find something where I can work from home, or part time. I have a Masters degree, 15 years experience and am a chartered engineer. Is this all wasted?????

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sis · 10/03/2003 16:02

Well done DebL, sorry I didn't get back to you earlier about contacting me I missed your message completely! - yes, you can ask mumsnet to e-mail me your phone number. Although, by the looks of things, you may not need to, but if you do still want to discuss anything, feel free to contact me via mumsnet.

Morocco, i think the reason for your bosses u-turn was that someone explained the legal implications of an outright rejection of your proposaland of course, he realised just how good you are at your job...

DebL · 16/06/2003 16:01

Just resurrecting this thread. My 3 months part time are now coming to an end. Last week I handed in my notice (verbally) since there was no chance of my continuing p/t, and I could not face demanding my flexible working rights, since I knew what the outcome would be anyway. Then this morning I was offered two part-time jobs with the same company!! Apparently they "do not want to lose such a valuable member of staff."

The salary is not as good, but I still keep pension / sharesave scheme benefits etc. Hopefully, there will be a possibility for me to return full time when DD starts school in 3 years time (or when I am ready!)

Last week I was very down, and coupled with really bad PMT I felt thoroughly miserable. Every cloud has a silver lining huh?

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