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Remote job but employer asking for face to face interview?

168 replies

Seawitchandgarden · 04/08/2026 10:27

I just wondered what are people's thoughts/experience with this.

Due to health issues/a disability I have been applying only for remote roles or local roles that don't require the use of public transport. I made it clear in my job applications/the equal opportunities that I am disabled.

I was offered an interview for a role advertised as remote with a charity yesterday but this is a face to face interview.

The interview is in a random location which I assume was hired for the day and it would take me almost two hours each ways of travel, be costly and they are not offering any support with transport costs.

I am a bit baffled by this. What is the point of a face to face interview when you are not even inviting the candidate to your offices to meet the team or see your work environment and when the role is fully remote?

I have replied to point out my disability and request a Zoom interview instead.

So far crickets...

OP posts:
NotInMyyName · 04/08/2026 16:54

beigetriangle · 04/08/2026 16:34

right to work checks. from the gov.uk site says that the employer needs to "check that the documents are valid with the applicant present."

Edited

Ah this ^

Mcdhotchoc · 04/08/2026 16:55

It's really difficult.
My company had done a retrospective exercise recently asking all managers to confirm they have met their remote workers in person. Erm no I haven't and they have been employed 5 years!
But with cyber risks etc I do understand why.
In your situation I think that we would hire a meeting room close to you.

Jollyhockeystickss · 04/08/2026 17:12

I dont see your problem? You are showing them you cant be arsed so they will cross you off the list and move onto the next person, end of

Rumpledandcrumpled · 04/08/2026 17:15

Mcdhotchoc · 04/08/2026 16:55

It's really difficult.
My company had done a retrospective exercise recently asking all managers to confirm they have met their remote workers in person. Erm no I haven't and they have been employed 5 years!
But with cyber risks etc I do understand why.
In your situation I think that we would hire a meeting room close to you.

They are probably interviewing multiple people so will pick somewhere central to them all. They won’t be hiring a venue to interview one person, Confused

Rumpledandcrumpled · 04/08/2026 17:16

GarlicAnywhere · 04/08/2026 16:21

It's an interesting question, though. Fully remote working could be ideal for suitably-qualified agoraphobics, quadriplegics, people with certain neurological conditions, fragile bone diseases ... all sorts of disabilities and some treatments (chemo) can render intellectually competent people incapable of getting around without an ambulance.

Everyone would go "But these people can work! We have WFH now!" Yet they can't if they're required to mobilise independently in order to get the jobs.

OP, I strongly suggest asking specifically about a reasonable adjustment for the interview. Good luck!

Can people just not be arsed reading rhe full op. She’s asked!

deeahgwitch · 04/08/2026 17:19

risingup · 04/08/2026 10:33

If I were recruiting I'd insist on face to face interviews too. You can't really gauge much from a zoom type interview.

And If I was looking for a job, was disabled, had been offered a job that was fully remote but wanted a face to face interview, I'd move heaven and earth to get to that interview.

I would too.

Cardhey · 04/08/2026 17:22

Why exactly is it an issue??

rivalsbinge · 04/08/2026 17:24

Op can’t you get a taxi? Or ask someone to help you travel, this is an opportunity a job, they are super hard to come by why would you not want to meet them face to face as well?

SirChenjins · 04/08/2026 17:27

beigetriangle · 04/08/2026 16:34

right to work checks. from the gov.uk site says that the employer needs to "check that the documents are valid with the applicant present."

Edited

That a very good point. I have to see ID in person and confirm on the forms back to HR that I have witnessed tgem when I interview - it could be the same here.

GarlicAnywhere · 04/08/2026 17:45

Rumpledandcrumpled · 04/08/2026 17:16

Can people just not be arsed reading rhe full op. She’s asked!

She said she explained and asked, not that she used the exact term 'reasonable adjustment'.

Although I'd be rethinking whether I wanted to work for someone whose natural response wasn't "How can we help?" but "Them's the rules".

Jollyhockeystickss · 04/08/2026 17:47

risingup · 04/08/2026 10:33

If I were recruiting I'd insist on face to face interviews too. You can't really gauge much from a zoom type interview.

And If I was looking for a job, was disabled, had been offered a job that was fully remote but wanted a face to face interview, I'd move heaven and earth to get to that interview.

Of course you would, as i would! I had an interview once for a security company, we had already been told we would be working in an underground secure building and couldnt get out during our shift pattern, long shift 12 hours, all of this we already knew, so they were telling us this all again in the interview and this woman piped up "but how will i pick little johny up from school if i cant leave" !!! We all got the job she didnt

concertinacornflake · 04/08/2026 17:50

I think f2f interview is acceptable but this they are not offering any support with transport costs is not ok.

InfoSecInTheCity · 04/08/2026 17:54

singthing · 04/08/2026 10:33

There is a surge of people using stand ins and/or live AI to reply in virtual interviews. That could be why, and/or the just want to get a human vibe from you which is impossible when both are behind a screen

See what they say and consider if there’s a solution compromise available?

This. We’ve had it happen, luckily we caught them out during the interview but it’s actually really hard to spot. There are massive cyber security risks with remote interview, look up North Korea IT worker scam if you’re so inclined, it’s an interesting scam to read about.

blueshoes · 04/08/2026 18:07

InfoSecInTheCity · 04/08/2026 17:54

This. We’ve had it happen, luckily we caught them out during the interview but it’s actually really hard to spot. There are massive cyber security risks with remote interview, look up North Korea IT worker scam if you’re so inclined, it’s an interesting scam to read about.

How did you spot it?

SirChenjins · 04/08/2026 18:09

concertinacornflake · 04/08/2026 17:50

I think f2f interview is acceptable but this they are not offering any support with transport costs is not ok.

It's perfectly normal not to receive any help with transport costs from a potential employer.

concertinacornflake · 04/08/2026 18:14

SirChenjins · 04/08/2026 18:09

It's perfectly normal not to receive any help with transport costs from a potential employer.

Something being common doesn't make it good enough. It makes it hard for people with fewer resources to seek employment and is a bad sign for an employer. Good employers do pay.

DontTeaseMyDog · 04/08/2026 19:27

I wouldn't have expected a remote job to not require meeting your manager in person.

Even 10 years ago I never had a job that didn't intend me meeting my boss / team in person before hand, even if I'd not see them again for months.

If the job means that much, you'll find a way, if it does not, you'll find one more willing to suit you.

Rumpledandcrumpled · 04/08/2026 19:33

concertinacornflake · 04/08/2026 18:14

Something being common doesn't make it good enough. It makes it hard for people with fewer resources to seek employment and is a bad sign for an employer. Good employers do pay.

As much as I’d agree, I’m not sure she’s said she can’t afford to get there. Simply they don’t support. If she really can’t afford it she should tell them that, but I’m not sure thays the real issue here.

SirChenjins · 04/08/2026 19:41

concertinacornflake · 04/08/2026 18:14

Something being common doesn't make it good enough. It makes it hard for people with fewer resources to seek employment and is a bad sign for an employer. Good employers do pay.

Do they? I haven't heard of anyone being paid to attend an interview in years - by good or less good employers.. It used to be the done thing years ago, but no more - especially not in cases like this where it sounds more like a group interview or a day where they're interviewing a number of people as opposed to an interview where they have a specific person in mind and are willing to pay them to attend.

Regardless, it is what it is - if they are not paying it's up to the OP.

concertinacornflake · 04/08/2026 19:41

Rumpledandcrumpled · 04/08/2026 19:33

As much as I’d agree, I’m not sure she’s said she can’t afford to get there. Simply they don’t support. If she really can’t afford it she should tell them that, but I’m not sure thays the real issue here.

This type of penny pinching in recruitment is an off-putting sign really. A charity needs the best employees - they don't have money to waste, but recruiting the best possible people is a worthy investment. It also shows they take equality of opportunity seriously which is a pretty serious mark of an organisation's attitude to staff in general.

concertinacornflake · 04/08/2026 19:43

SirChenjins · 04/08/2026 19:41

Do they? I haven't heard of anyone being paid to attend an interview in years - by good or less good employers.. It used to be the done thing years ago, but no more - especially not in cases like this where it sounds more like a group interview or a day where they're interviewing a number of people as opposed to an interview where they have a specific person in mind and are willing to pay them to attend.

Regardless, it is what it is - if they are not paying it's up to the OP.

Edited

Yes still done in many quality organisations. Obviously less so in either local or generic roles.
It is peanuts really for important roles, the impact of getting a less good candidate is significant.

SirChenjins · 04/08/2026 19:45

concertinacornflake · 04/08/2026 19:43

Yes still done in many quality organisations. Obviously less so in either local or generic roles.
It is peanuts really for important roles, the impact of getting a less good candidate is significant.

Not peanuts at all if they're bringing people in from across the UK and beyond - and it's really not standard practice for this type of interview.

InfoSecInTheCity · 04/08/2026 19:59

blueshoes · 04/08/2026 18:07

How did you spot it?

They asked a couple of suspicious questions about things like delivery of their IT equipment, one of the things they do is get the kit delivered to an address that isn’t their home address. The whole idea behind the scam is to get a position at a company which would give them privileged access like admin access to the Microsoft environment. They then use that access to steal data and confidential info. The named employee never works there, they have just been paid for the use of identity so the scammers can pass the right to work checks, the equipment goes to a warehouse/office where the scammers log in and start syphoning off everything they can.

CandiedPrincess · 04/08/2026 20:59

concertinacornflake · 04/08/2026 17:50

I think f2f interview is acceptable but this they are not offering any support with transport costs is not ok.

I’ve never known anyone to offer support with transport costs.

Jellycatspyjamas · 04/08/2026 21:00

DressOrSkirt · 04/08/2026 13:06

They can have ai listening to the interview and feeding them answers to read back on their screen near the camera.
They could have a friend do the interview and use AI to deep fake their own face onto them.
They can use it to translate in real time if they are not as proficient in the interview language as they have said they are.
For technical interviews they can use it for coding etc (they can hide it even if screen sharing).

Bloody hell, half of that wouldn’t occur to me and I certainly wouldn’t have the technical skills to do it. How on earth are employers meant to navigate that. And yes I’d want to interview in person if that was a concern.

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