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Early morning jobs to work around childcare

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Iambeat · 03/08/2026 09:12

Looking into changing job as having difficulty with current one since returning from may leave 2 years ago (approx). Current job requires a lot of focus and concentration but my DD doesn’t sleep well at all. And Im not able to perform as I did. Physically I am fit but deep concentration work is not suitable. Currently only option I can see is cleaning which I did as a summer job for a few years a long time ago. Did you switch after kids came along? What do you do and does it work for your situation?

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ForDreamyMintHare · 03/08/2026 13:13

Most people stay in their same careers. No way would I give up my professional career that I worked hard for to be a cleaner (no disrespect to cleaners) jist because of having kids. Is your partner doing half the getting up at night and if not, why not?

Iambeat · 03/08/2026 13:45

I really cannot rely on my partner doing more so this is about self preservation and being less stressed. I have now been picked up for performance issues and absences so I would rather take a break and not have to grovel to my manager every time I'm off because DD is sick or Ive missed something very important because I haven’t slept.
If I could magic up more support that would be great but unfortunately the only option is finding an alternative job.

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Flazzled · 03/08/2026 13:53

It sounds like you don’t have much support from your partner, if I’m reading that right? Both of you should carry the disruption of DD being ill/not sleeping.

Peonies12 · 03/08/2026 13:55

OP you said partner so I assume not married. You absolutely need to keep your job - if you split, you have zero financial protection. I am also assuming your child is 3 years old if you went back to work 2 years ago. Are you getting professional support for the sleep issues? I think by 3 years you'd really expect a child to sleep through the night most of the time - unless specific reason you haven't mentioned. Managing child sickness/sleep should absolutely be split evenly.

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