Me and my colleague have been working together for nearly 6 years and we are close. We haven't socialised outside work or never met anyone families but she's the closet to me in the office.
On thing I don't like about her is that she somehow copies or wants to do the stuff I did. For example, when I was about to get married she announced her wedding two or three months before my wedding day and ended up getting married a month before me. Prior to that, she clearly said she never believed in marriage and that she's happy with how things are. However as soon as I told her I'm getting married, she ended up getting married too.
Then she wanted to go to the same holiday place as I did, I saw her looking online for flights and I was surprised. This is not the only place she wanted to go to another one I went to as well.
Now the issue is, she just told me that she's looking for a house in my area and was asking which postcode I'm at and checking the exact name place. I totally felt creeped out with this one more because this is where I live and my home is, didn't feel comfortable at all. She has asked me twice about this since we chatted on the phone in a week's space and I told her the place.
I know I might be unreasonable and overreacting but the house moving situation is weird to me. This is because this will be her third home in a span of two years and she just moved to the house she's now like 9 months ago.
My instincts tells me that this is not good and I'm being watched and I couldn't trust this person. Whenever I'm on the call with her my heart beats faster and I feel so anxious too.
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