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Work upward bullying advice

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Bahhumbug67 · 25/06/2026 15:48

Been upwardly bullied at work. My boss acknowledges that and has admitted it in writing.

I'm off with work stress because of the bullying and a lack of support from the company.

I've heard that my boss is telling people who work for me the latest status around my well-being and a latest status agreed with HR.

GDPR breach?
Thoughts on what I do next please?

I don't want the people who work for me and especially those bullying me knowing my latest position.

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24Dogcuddler · 25/06/2026 20:35

Really shouldn’t be sharing your private information. Are you in a union?
Sorry you are going through this and not being well supported.
Have HR or OH been involved or is it early stages?

Bahhumbug67 · 25/06/2026 22:15

In the leadership population so not in a Union

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Bahhumbug67 · 25/06/2026 22:16

HR have been involved for 6 mths. They seem weak to be honest

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24Dogcuddler · 25/06/2026 22:23

Leaders can be in unions or professional bodies. Maybe it depends on your sector?
Can you get advice from ACAS or citizens advice?

AgnesMcDoo · 25/06/2026 22:26

I’d start with some free advice from ACAS and if they think it’s worthwhile consider paying an employment solicitor.

Bahhumbug67 · 26/06/2026 01:42

Thank you

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Arseholeneighbours · 26/06/2026 01:46

I don’t think it’s necessary to go in all guns blazing. Maybe just an email to your boss cc-ing HR saying you are aware of this information being shared, not comfortable with it and would expect discretion. Then it’s also written down in case things escalate

igglepiggll · 28/06/2026 10:13

This is on the rise, upward bullying. Seen it happen to my ex ex manager.
Keep your chin up and don’t give up.

topcat2014 · 28/06/2026 10:19

The tragic reality is that bullies often win. HR are scared of them and senior mngt work on a don't bring me problems basis

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