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Need advice about going on sick leave for pnd. Can any HR types advise??

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wakeupaustralia · 19/06/2008 12:25

Hello, I've had bad PND with both of my children and have been on Citalopram for about 4 months. I've been on ML for 10 months this time around. I was doing ok (relatively, for me!) until a few weeks ago when I had to speak to my boss about returning to work. It is all set for me to return 4 days a week in late July. (I requested 3 days but got turned down). Since that discussion I've really gone suddenly downhill - my depression has returned badly and I feel like I did before I started taking the pills. I don't feel that I can cope going back to work, 3 days, 4 days or at all. I feel going back is going to tip me over the edge. I don't think they even want me to come back and they have had a brilliant person doing my job while I've been on leave, so I'm sure they would be happy for me to resign. Also, was disciplined last year for telling off a total cow but I came off second best and was framed as a bully. So fact is I am not liked there. However, I cannot afford to resign. If I could I would seriously consider it. I think I need to postpone my return to work somehow. Is my history of depression (had it for 20+ years, attempted suicides and a stay in a mental hospital) and recurring pnd a legitimate reason to go on sick leave straight after ML? If so, what would be involved in organising it and how ferocious will the assessment process be?

any advice would be welcomed...
Thanks

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flowerybeanbag · 19/06/2008 15:16

Your history of depression and recurring pnd is not a reason to go on sick leave. What is a reason is if you are not in a fit state to work at the time you should be working. Your history as such isn't relevant to getting you signed off sick, although obviously it gives background and context, what's relevant is your condition at the time.

If you don't think you are fit for work in July, go and see your GP and discuss it, and get him/her to sign you off for an appropriate amount of time. You will not be able to get a sick note for July now.

Having said that are you currently under a doctor's care? If not, I would advise you go and see your GP, discuss how you are feeling, mention that you are due to go back to work in a month and have a chat about your longer term care.

I'm not sure what you mean by a 'ferocious assessment'. Your GP can sign you off work if you are not well and that shouldn't involve any kind of horrendous assessment process.

Having said that, your employer may want you to meet with an Occupational Health adviser, or their own doctor, to discuss your condition, get an idea for how long it might be before you are fit for work again, discuss whether a phased return might be better, lots of things.

Obviously I don't know anything about your condition, or much about depression, but it sounds to me as though it's the thought of going back to work that has triggered this, rather than anything else, is that fair to say? In which case you need to address that - putting off going back to work for a month isn't going to change anything.

Talk to your GP about all this, perhaps see if you can get some counselling as well.

You should also consider whether going back to work is what you want. I don't think it is. You say you can't afford to resign otherwise you would, but your employer isn't going to pay you forever if you are signed off sick - at some point they will want to get an idea of when you are coming back, what they can do to help you back, etc, and if that day never comes they could consider terminating your employment.

If you are signed off sick for a month or whatever come July, what will you do? Do you think you will feel up to work with a bit more time off? I'm not sure. And I think those things are what you need to think about.

Sorry to hear you are feeling so low. Do get signed off when the time comes if you are no better, but try and get some help to work out how to improve things so you can go back to work.

wakeupaustralia · 20/06/2008 15:35

Flowery - many thanks for the advice. You have given me some very clear pointers there and are very perceptive. It's a good help to starting to clear my mind about this wretched mess. Yes, I see a GP regularly about the pnd but have not arranged counselling yet, apart from my own reading of a self-help book my GP recommended. I can't see myself being in a completely different frame of mind in a month, so I think I need to initiate a discussion with my GP about what might happen in July and what the options are. Got an appt with her on Wed, so will do that then. Yes, I am considering handing in my resignation and facing the financial consequences, but do not feel I am ready to write my career off yet (not just for the financial reasons) - it took me nearly 7 years of university to get to where I am, so I'd like to be cautious. Thanks again, VERY MUCH.

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