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Issue with new job.

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Anonymous2585 · 06/03/2026 21:29

I recently took a job in the NHS that is closer to home.

After a few months now, I'm not sure it's a good fit. It's a role I've done before in a much bigger team. I have all the relevant experience, but I've received very little training/onboarding. I have to ask a million questions to get my head round the processes in place, read through policies and teach myself to get a handle on what's expected. I get everywhere can be slightly different, even if the service is essentially the same. Even then when I pick things up, try to organise tasks or heaven forbid, tidy up the office, I get complaints about how I've done it differently, or someone else was dealing with it (but they didn't tell me). I've even had comments about being OCD.

I know there are lots of ways things could be improved, which would still hit targets and be more efficient, but it's very much a "this is the way we do it" mentality. With the manager on leave since I've started, I've not had a person to oversee me or escalate my issues to. I've tried to be proactive and use my contacts to be trained on various systems that I'm not overly familiar with.

I'm thinking of giving it a few more months as change is on the way in terms of management, but if it doesn't improve, I think I'll just look for something else. I don't want to give up on a role I know I have a passion for, but this environment isn't great and constantly feeling like I'm not included is getting to me.

My partner says they're threatened by me and my experience, but I'm not sure. And either way what does it matter if they're going to make working there so difficult.

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Overtheatlantic · 06/03/2026 21:32

I would definitely start looking. Even with a new manager things are always slow to change. I’ve been in your shoes and felt like I was being set up to fail.

sarahd89 · 07/03/2026 11:06

Oh love, your partner might well be right, sometimes experience is seen as a threat rather than an asset, especially in small teams with set ways of doing things. But you're also right that it doesn't really matter why if the result is you feeling excluded and unsupported. No proper onboarding, no manager, complaints when you show initiative, that's exhausting. Giving it until the new management settles in is sensible since things could shift, but set yourself a quiet deadline and if nothing improves, walk away knowing you tried. The NHS is huge and your skills will be valued somewhere that actually welcomes them.

Anonymous2585 · 07/03/2026 12:28

sarahd89 · 07/03/2026 11:06

Oh love, your partner might well be right, sometimes experience is seen as a threat rather than an asset, especially in small teams with set ways of doing things. But you're also right that it doesn't really matter why if the result is you feeling excluded and unsupported. No proper onboarding, no manager, complaints when you show initiative, that's exhausting. Giving it until the new management settles in is sensible since things could shift, but set yourself a quiet deadline and if nothing improves, walk away knowing you tried. The NHS is huge and your skills will be valued somewhere that actually welcomes them.

Thank you that's very kind. Yes I think I will give it a few months, as it's works for family life right now and I would like to stay within the NHS.

I'm just not someone who can happily sit and do nothing, which would happen quite a lot of I wasn't proactive and didn't have prior experience. The first response when certain things aren't done/picked up is always "it's not something we're doing right now as we just haven't got the staff" and it doesn't seem to be questioned atm.

I thought I had found my niche, but we will see. Everything happens for a reason I suppose 🤞

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