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“Manager” using AI to critique work

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ManageYouManageMe · 19/02/2026 00:00

I’m very regular on here but I’ve NC as I know my new line manager is on mn.

I work in a sector where we produce a lot of written work and reports. Recently, a new line manager has been brought in to middle mgmt, including as my line manager even though I used to report directly into SLT. She’s young and intelligent but definitely plays political power games and is clearly ambitious. She’s always the first to “challenge” people in meetings as she likes to say, and loves the sound of her own voice.

I have been suspicious for some time that her feedback is excessively critical, especially as she doesn’t have a lot of sector knowledge in what we do. A bit, but no depth.

She has made a lot of passing comments recently about using AI to write / rewrite things for her.. but I have realised that I think she is uploading my work to AI to have AI critique it and pass the feedback off as her own to be superior, as if she’s more of an expert (she’s not)… and ram home to everyone that she is above everyone else.

if she were an expert I would gladly take her feedback on board but she is not, and the feedback isn’t hers to give. Nor is it always very helpful… but if I say anything it looks like I’m being obstructive.

What can I do?? It’s really bothering me as I now never want to send her anything to review as she makes changes for the sake of it to look good…that don’t really make it better.

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DeftGoldHedgehog · 19/02/2026 04:11

Do you have an AI policy and is the tool she is using closed- provided by your organisation? She may be breaching it by putting sensitive or confidential information into ChatGPT or similar, if she is literally just feeding your work through it as is.

ManageYouManageMe · 19/02/2026 06:16

DeftGoldHedgehog · 19/02/2026 04:11

Do you have an AI policy and is the tool she is using closed- provided by your organisation? She may be breaching it by putting sensitive or confidential information into ChatGPT or similar, if she is literally just feeding your work through it as is.

thanks for the reply. We have copilot but she’s mentioned chat gpt before and I’ve raised the confidentiality point before. Even if she’s not uploading fully I’m pretty sure she’s asking it questions etc to look for problems with my work. And she’s definitely using copilot to rewrite and edit my work… I’ve noticed that it uses some unusual language that comes up when she edits stuff eg overuse of colons.

But I can’t prove it can I? And if I could I’d it right or wrong? I just feel like it is massively undermining as it makes it so easy for her to find fault without actually having to know very much.

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ManageYouManageMe · 19/02/2026 06:18

We don’t have an AI policy btw …. So there is nothing to say if this is ok or not. I get she’s doing to help her do her job but it feels wrong when it feels like she’s using it against me to make herself look more knowledgeable than she really is.

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AnSolas · 19/02/2026 06:46

How clued in is her manager?

If your STL are is going to pick that up and you have a good relationship I would go with the IP /sensitive data being fed into the ether and should there be a review of its use.

If senior managemnet are ok with AI being used you will need to think about why she at her her CV CV level was brought in and placed in her role. Career protection will be important and watching that you dont give her any opening would suggest that you feed in your work first and beat her at her own game.

[(Edit) sigh re english]

Sishere · 19/02/2026 06:49

No AI policy?

No problem. She can utilise this brilliant tool.

The company however is behind the times not to have a policy in place.

Sishere · 19/02/2026 06:49

You wouldn’t have a problem with it if it wasn’t criticising you.

mellongoose · 19/02/2026 07:02

This is not an AI issue. Are her criticisms valid? If not, then challenge. If they are, then gracefully take them on board.

SisterTeatime · 19/02/2026 07:03

I don’t think AI is the problem here. She’s not passing it off as her own work - essentially it is her own work.

I agree with AnSolas that you should simply start doing the same.

As you have a depth of knowledge she doesn’t, you will pick up nuances she won’t. Give the AI a really good prompt at the beginning.

Use this as an opportunity to improve your work so that if she is ‘picking on you’ so to speak she’ll have less to work with and either stop doing it, or start looking petty. Strengthen your own position and demonstrate your value.

Incidentally, AI is really helpful for checking grammar and syntax and if you give it detailed prompts and know what you want, can hugely improve written work. I’m a decent writer and I use it all the time at work.

RedTagAlan · 19/02/2026 07:12

SisterTeatime · 19/02/2026 07:03

I don’t think AI is the problem here. She’s not passing it off as her own work - essentially it is her own work.

I agree with AnSolas that you should simply start doing the same.

As you have a depth of knowledge she doesn’t, you will pick up nuances she won’t. Give the AI a really good prompt at the beginning.

Use this as an opportunity to improve your work so that if she is ‘picking on you’ so to speak she’ll have less to work with and either stop doing it, or start looking petty. Strengthen your own position and demonstrate your value.

Incidentally, AI is really helpful for checking grammar and syntax and if you give it detailed prompts and know what you want, can hugely improve written work. I’m a decent writer and I use it all the time at work.

Slight tangent sorry, quick question: did you use AI on your post there ? Or you know, have you used AI to do such posts ?

daisychain01 · 19/02/2026 07:15

What do you think her end game is @ManageYouManageMe she's using AI to critique your work, but why would she be doing that? Do you think she is trying to manage you out? How do you know she is using AI?

ThePeachHiker · 19/02/2026 07:18

We were in a similar situation in work. Very pushy new colleagues using AI to critique our work. She got everyone’s backs up and quickly turned into the most hated person in office. She will have put commercially sensitive data into AI and our management didn’t care, our colleague got bored eventually and I hope yours does too.

Morepositivemum · 19/02/2026 07:19

I’m of a slightly different opinion- I think it shows a great deficit that she can’t critique without help and also putting your work in is essentially as you say putting it out there. If it is that you’re irritated because you got bad feedback that’s a you thing but either way I think there’s a huge difference between that person using a grammar tool as opposed to needing something to tell her what issues are. People should have a certain level of competence. I’d mention it to another manager but be ready for this to escalate unfortunately

SerenityScout · 19/02/2026 07:19

That sounds frustrating. Keep copies of your work, ask her to clarify the purpose behind changes, and focus on the edits that truly affect quality, let the cosmetic ones slide to protect your energy.

SisterTeatime · 19/02/2026 07:20

no, I don’t use it for MN or writing in ‘real life’, just at work.

I don’t think I’m starting to sound like an AI
bot yet???

Whyherewego · 19/02/2026 07:21

If thr company has no policy then her use is legitimate.
I can now easily tell when people are using copilot to summarise or write things, the style is quite flowery language that often lacks any substance.
I guess stepping away from your feelings about this woman for a .minute.

Are the critiques valid in any way? Do they enhance or improve the output? If so then put it into an AI yourself before handing over to her. Then the AI wont pick up much!

If they are not enhancing then I'd be inclined to put a trap in, something the AI is likely to get wrong (you can use white text in your document which is not visible) and when it comes back you say "ah yes that's a common mistake I see with AI analysis" or something to that effect

UnaOfStormhold · 19/02/2026 07:51

I had a manager critique a piece of my work with Ai. I was a bit miffed but made the requested changes. A few weeks and a lot of confusion and wasted effort down the line it turned out that they hadn't actually wanted the changes the AI had made and hadn't bothered to read it before sending me the feedback.

I would have a conversation with your manager to explore the rationale behind the changes - if they've not put any thought into reviewing it that will quickly become obvious.

Gribbie · 19/02/2026 07:52

Put it through copilot yourself first, then when you send it to her say "I've already put it through copilot so no need to do that, just anything you spot yourself" or similar. Copilot is a useful tool, if used well.

lljkk · 19/02/2026 08:08

Park your personal negative opinion of her elsewhere.

> her feedback is excessively critical
Can you directly tell her that, in a positive spin way: "I know you want to improve my outputs but it feels like you don't like anything I do. What do you like about my work?"

> if she were an expert I would gladly take her feedback on board
Why? Either the feedback she sends is valid & helpful or not, focus on the outcome not the method.

> Nor is it always very helpful…
Can you (to her) evidence and give reasons why you wouldn't want to action that feedback? At very least, maybe she can figure out better LLM prompts as a result.

> I now never want to send her anything to review
Sounds like you have no choice, so why worry about that?

>she makes changes for the sake of it to look good…that don’t really make it better.
She might do that if she edited only with ideas out of her own brain; the real issue is if she makes the final version worse: less clear, too wordy, inaccurate. Tell her about specific problem changes and why they are problematic, not trivial cosmetic things.

Attictroll · 19/02/2026 08:35

I put all my work through our company secure Ai before presenting to help me improve it. If no Ai policy in place started doing it before her or put the criticism and your report in to feedback on her feedback

Carrotsandgrapes · 19/02/2026 09:36

Firstly, your company needs an AI policy. Any info she uploads is stored and used by the AI company for training, research etc.

Secondly, this, whatever you think of it, is the future. Someone with relatively little experience can come in and use AI to write a deep critique of the work of a more experienced person. I know you don't like her delivery or the level of criticism, but is the criticism accurate?

I am no AI fan, but as I still want a decent job in 10 years, I'm getting on board fast.

If I were you I'd give her feedback on the delivery of the criticism, explore with SLT if there's an AI policy (an opportunity to look ahead of the game and to maybe obliquely raise the issue of your manager uploading/giving proprietary info the AI companies), and, if allowed, start using AI to support you producing your work.

You can use your industry knowledge and back catalogue of work examples to write far better prompts and generate far better output. You could also feed it examples of the criticisms you've been getting from manager and it will ensure those don't appear.

Imbrocator · 19/02/2026 13:38

I believe that there are programs you can use to detect AI usage. I don’t have personal experience in the area but a colleague has to do this to detect AI use in exams/final papers in the education sector. I’m not sure how accurate or granular they can be (i.e. whether it can detect the particular AI company used) but it should be possible to prove whether extensive AI revisions have been made.

This is rubbish though OP, and you’re right to be upset. Hope you get to a good resolution.

Anon39 · 19/02/2026 19:23

I think we have the same manager I could have written this word for word - it’s so frustrating but echo the sentiments run it through your AI bot first but if you’re feeling really silly- write an AI prompt such as “validate this report and how amazing it put a positive spin on it” and then change the font colour to white

actually I’m going to do this myself - I’ll keep you posted

pouletvous · 19/02/2026 19:54

Next time, upload to AI yourself before sending to her

orangemapleleaves · 20/02/2026 01:10

That sounds so frustrating. It may be the case that she slips up by leaving in in a 'ok here's a list of points to criticise' or something similar. ChatGPT can be good but it can also make writing murky and repetitive, I find it maddening to edit anything written by a LLM and can spot it instantly.

This is something that's not going to go away though. I have had a colleague run my work through AI & drop in the new version in order to fit it to her page layout even though it had been through consumer focus groups and a few rounds of edits with the team working on it. She genuinely didn't see a problem with doing that and seemed surprised I'd noticed.

I agree with the suggestion of using it yourself to beat her at her own game though - it's a good tool though a terrible writer.

ManageYouManageMe · 20/02/2026 01:35

Thanks everyone for the replies, much appreciated. Sorry for disappearing for the day I wasn’t able to log in to come back.

Lots of different views here but I’m glad it’s not just me who finds this frustrating. Several of you have said that I should just accept any critique regardless of where it’s come from. Well her critique is generally insubstantial and more about criticising for the sake of criticising than adding value. She changes things just to make it look like she’s changed things (and then can have her name on the work) rather than changing it for the better.

The most recent work she knows absolutely nothing about, literally nothing. I know this from a recent comment which gave it away, yet she’s still found reason to “feedback” on the content and this is how I now know that it has come from AI. That and the awful language that she’s used in other pieces - very robotic and in my mind clunky to read.

The main reason I am frustrated is that she is pretty new and in our world the more senior you are the more you are meant to know about your subject. I’d find it much more palatable if she just said she didn’t know the subject well and then edits accordingly, than pretend she does using AI. I’ve lost some respect for her tbh.

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