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ThatCandidCat · 13/02/2026 16:27

I started a new role a few months ago. The training and guidance were limited, and despite asking for more support, I haven’t received much help to get up to speed. My manager has been unavailable for some time.
I have a strong work ethic and no history of performance issues, but I am now on a performance improvement plan (PIP). I’m concerned it may not be following a standard process. I’m told I need to ask more questions, but when I do, I am criticised for not already knowing the answers. Tasks and expectations aren’t always clear, and feedback can change after work has been completed.
Meetings take up a large portion of my time, which makes it difficult to complete my work. What was intended as a routine check-in recently became a formal review without warning or preparation time.
The workplace culture feels uncomfortable — there is gossip, raised voices in meetings, and a strong focus on “fit” and personality assessments. There is also pressure to socialise outside work. Some staff have left after periods of sick leave.
Overall, it feels like a culture of fear. I now feel anxious about meetings and asking questions, as it could be used against me. This is affecting my confidence and well-being.
Is this a standard PIP process? Have I been set up to fail? Would you move on?

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Sassylovesbooks · 13/02/2026 16:29

I would look for another job. No job is worth becoming anxious and fearful over. The culture in your workplace sounds unpleasant and toxic.

TokyoSushi · 13/02/2026 16:31

Sounds awful, get yourself out of there asap

ElChapo · 13/02/2026 16:32

Agree with the above. Sounds like a shit show and not one that I’d like to participate in

SixSevenShutUp · 13/02/2026 16:44

I would investigate raising a grievance so you can put your side across. It sounds like an awful place. Can you move on quickly?

ThatCandidCat · 13/02/2026 16:50

@SixSevenShutUp luckily there seems to be lots of jobs in our area so hoping I can get interviews quickly (done lots of jobs with useful transferable skills). No point raising a grievance - they just seem to close ranks and protect each other! Kicking myself as I normally join a union but didn't this time...

Thanks everyone else as well :)

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SixSevenShutUp · 13/02/2026 20:37

ThatCandidCat · 13/02/2026 16:50

@SixSevenShutUp luckily there seems to be lots of jobs in our area so hoping I can get interviews quickly (done lots of jobs with useful transferable skills). No point raising a grievance - they just seem to close ranks and protect each other! Kicking myself as I normally join a union but didn't this time...

Thanks everyone else as well :)

I'm glad to hear you have some options, it's a shitty way to be treated. I hope things work out well for you.

Lookingforwardtospringster · 14/02/2026 09:29

PIPs don’t work! They put more pressure on people and managers can do what they want to fit the narrative. I was on one as well a colleague when management came in. Think they wanted to demote us as both had good standing prior to that and noises about being a level down. I was made redundant in the end. Colleague got a settlement after raising a grievance! In a new job and happier. Less pressure and grateful of the EU experience. Get outta there!

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