My friends DD works in a prison that houses only sex offenders. She told me that some of the prisoners make her feel uncomfortable as they look at her like she is prey. I told her quite frankly she is prey. My friend said her DD was about to lead a session where she was the only member of staff, how that is allowed to happen I have no idea.
I also know two police officers that have definitely been assaulted multiple times but of course they are seen on MN as awful.
My sisters partner works in one of the high security units that house mentally ill people who have convictions, not Broadmoor but one of the others, there are a few scattered round the country and has been assaulted on more than one occasion. But he stays and like yourself can earn far more there.
Someone has to do the thankless job of looking after or dealing with people who really can harm them. I was attacked when I was nursing many years ago, not badly but honestly wrestling with drug addicts on the floor was not what I signed up for.
I know a nurse who was diagnosed with PTSD as a patient attacked her and her colleague with a pair of scissors, this was in an A&E dept. She never managed to return but thankfully found a job working as an occupational health nurse for a large company having had almost a year off work.
The young think they can change the world and make it a better place, I certainly did. I became jaded by life and changed careers. I liked having a job where I didn’t have to worry about my safety.
A shout out also to teachers, my friend has been threatened by pupils in the ‘challenging’ comprehensive she works in.
So I do think you are not even a bit unreasonable to consider giving up what is a thankless but needed job.