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Has anyone moved from office work to physical work in middle age?

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GuinevereWasHere · 17/01/2026 17:29

As the title says - has anyone made this kind of move, and would you recommend it? Any regrets? I am getting fed up of staring at a screen all day and dealing with emails, apps, MS Teams, and so on. I am feeling a real pull towards doing something outdoorsy and physical, like gardening or groundsperson type work. Really curious to see if anyone else has done this, or thought about it! I'm sure I've read women saying they've done it on here before. I'm concerned about the constant physical demands in all weathers, and not sure about potentially being a woman in a male-dominated workplace - I wouldn't be able to "prove myself" by being stronger than the lads or anything, so it might just be miserable!

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YourPoliteLeader · 17/01/2026 17:30

You don’t give any indication as to your physical fitness, which is a touch relevant

Teeheehee1579 · 17/01/2026 17:32

My DH has - tech in an office to painter decorator age 48. It is physically tiring but doable and it keeps him fit (he was already pretty fit though!)

youalright · 17/01/2026 17:38

I think it depends on your own physical fitness and enjoyment of things like gardening. I have a woman Gardner and shes about 10 years older then me and shes great but I couldn't do it, after about 10 minutes my backs hurting im boiling hot and just had enough.

GuinevereWasHere · 17/01/2026 17:39

YourPoliteLeader · 17/01/2026 17:30

You don’t give any indication as to your physical fitness, which is a touch relevant

Good point! I'm in reasonably good shape, and if I do decide to go for it I'll make getting as fit as I reasonably can a priority before trying to make the move! I was thinking that a more intense fitness regimen would also be a good way to help see if I would actually enjoy a dramatic increase in physical activity.

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YourPoliteLeader · 17/01/2026 17:41

Yes maybe improve your fitness first with some very physical pursuits
and then revisit the question

TheSandgroper · 18/01/2026 12:26

I did at the age of 28 for seven years. The first week was brutal. I went to mum’s for dinner every night that week. (Actually, it was bloody hard work - not just me being unfit, I got thrown in).

Once I got fit, it was wonderful. I loved it. However, it gets stinking hot here. I was almost at the end of my tether with summer by the time I finished.

No way could I have done it in my forties though I think that might be just me and my body.

My back needs constant care, my wrist has had carpal tunnel surgery and is now at about 85%, my neck feeds off my back and I’m not always sure of my knee. But for a few years, by blood pressure was 110/55 annually and I was capable of huge amounts. Best time of my life.

You will work with misfits. Often that’s fine but sometimes they’re really odd.

TiggersTheOnlyOne · 18/01/2026 12:36

There are levels of physical work… you’ve got being a postie (which is active/mildlybovtaical) or a labourer on a building site (heavily physical)… one is harder than the other.

I changed from an NhS office job to working on the railway in my late 30’s and don’t regret it. It’s more in the active and mildly physical category but it’s so much better than being in an office all day

Inthefuturenow · 18/01/2026 12:48

I've just done the opposite. 30 years in a physical job has taken it's toll on my back and knees. I'm still fairly fit but wanted to move to a job I could do until retirement in 15 years so I now work a desk job from home. I do a have sideline that gets me out and about a few hours a week and away from the screens which I think helps massively.

thankfulnessisnotbizarre · 18/01/2026 20:19

I do it. I moved from sales person in an office to a warehouse jobs. All the lads are under 30 and wonderful boys, they treat me like a lady and help me....only I cannot entertain them because don't listen to their music, play their video games or dress like their girlfriends but hey, I am happy

thankfulnessisnotbizarre · 18/01/2026 20:23

TheSandgroper · 18/01/2026 12:26

I did at the age of 28 for seven years. The first week was brutal. I went to mum’s for dinner every night that week. (Actually, it was bloody hard work - not just me being unfit, I got thrown in).

Once I got fit, it was wonderful. I loved it. However, it gets stinking hot here. I was almost at the end of my tether with summer by the time I finished.

No way could I have done it in my forties though I think that might be just me and my body.

My back needs constant care, my wrist has had carpal tunnel surgery and is now at about 85%, my neck feeds off my back and I’m not always sure of my knee. But for a few years, by blood pressure was 110/55 annually and I was capable of huge amounts. Best time of my life.

You will work with misfits. Often that’s fine but sometimes they’re really odd.

about the misfits yes....the men call each bastards, fuck off at each other and so on....some are really weird but so far no one has been evil or inappropriate or crazy....

thankfulnessisnotbizarre · 18/01/2026 20:26

I am not very fit at all. They just give me the jobs around which I can do standing or sitting down, my back and ankles are very specific and if I do one more hour a day than usual or lift one more kg than I can do, I am in trouble physically. But so far I have been ok

you can do garden centre job, cleaning in a hotel, dog walking, dog grooming, etc ....

Starburst360 · 18/01/2026 20:38

I went from an office based career to fire fighting at the age of 40 and haven’t looked back. I’m in reasonable fitness though - nothing excessive. But also very petite which can be both a help and a hindrance.i did it for the same reasons as you and with the shifts have so much more time to be outside in the garden etc which I just love. As long as you’re realistic about what you can manage physically I’d say go for it.

Left · 21/01/2026 12:10

Could you trial it as a side hustle? So advertise your gardening services on weekends at first and get a gauge of how it would physically affect you?

SteelyEyed · 21/01/2026 14:39

Yes, good friend did it at 45ish - she went to more a technical type job than an outdoor one (think TV camera operator as a good comparison). It was very physical though and a total change from previous desk job. It was a real struggle for about 2 months until her body adjusted and then she was more than fine, she's really thrived and wouldn't go back. Go for it!! But for god's sake do a safe lifting techniques course first!!

pinkdelight · 21/01/2026 14:49

My friend was a gardener in her 20s and it knackered her back in and was a big physical strain then, so I'd be wary of it at this point. Maybe part-time around other things, but a lot of it can be relentless especially in the colder months.

Also depends in part on how you're going with the peri/menopause. I had bags more energy a couple of years ago but at 50 even a non-physically role can be knackering and the 3am wake-ups don't help.

In essence - definitely look into more fulfilling roles but probably less emphasis on the physical for full-time and see if you can get a mix rather than a big switch.

FitnessEconomics · 21/01/2026 17:09

I became a postie at 58, nearly 59, in late 2024 and still am. Being able to join at my age probably tells you something significant about the state of the industry!

Anyway, I've gone through two Christmases of being hellishly busy and during the year been variously soaked, freezing and baking hot while while walking between nine and thirteen miles a day, two being the walk to work and back from home.

Like Sandgroper, relentless heat is really brutal and inescapable. The torrential and constant rain leading up to Christmas, while the howling cold winds and chill was truly the worst experience many of us had been through. As I write this in late January, the rain is heavy and prolonged. Our clothing is utterly inadequate for that but also tends towards being too hot when it's mild. I suspect most workwear is the same. British weather has become more extreme over time and sadly that's not going to improve.

On the plus side, I have not taken a day off or been off sick in that time. Yes, I've carried colds and not felt great from time to time but pushed through. Had I been really unwell, I would have taken time off. I'm no martyr.

I was moderately fit before I joined having already done a lot of walking and jogging in the South Downs over the previous five years but had certainly done relatively little in the year immediately preceding my joining. I was at least a couple of stone overweight having been very sedentary and happy to sit at a computer for hours at a time. But that can kill you eventually so I wouldn't recommend it! At least add exercise after the sitting if you have the time and opportunity.

As well as the walking, (proper) bending, squatting and crouching involved in the mechanics of delivery or occasional picking up of dropped mail (an occupational hazard) meant I achieved a significant improvement in general flexibility over that time. Not touching my toes flexible but a significant improvement, nonetheless.

Obviously the job, for a walker at least, should be good for weight loss and I can tell you, if you see a significantly overweight postie, he or she is either new, in a primarily van-based driving role or genetically is very unlucky.

The complications of an outdoors physical job are pretty obvious. I don't get not to work because it's foul outside or its Christmas and the whole world is sending letters and parcels. If I get a sore foot or aches and pains, I have to work though them.

Am I fitter than most people my age? Probably. Are my blood sugar levels, blood pressure and levels of visceral fat also okay? Again, probably. That said, a postie's typical daily exertion far exceeds that needed to become medically fit and general wear and tear might also prove significant over time, particularly for the older amongst us. Believe me, there are plenty of broken posties out there.

The key might be to choose something, if you can afford the that luxury, where you can choose both a work pattern that suits you but one which can be altered should you want or need it to. Not an easy thing, I know, and probably the preserve of the self-employed. I'm not counting gig workers and many others who generally have to work long hours to just make a half-decent income.

thankfulnessisnotbizarre, hotel housekeeping is incredibly hard work. And terribly paid. My brother has been one and later a manager of many, for a very reputable hotel. Lots of permanent back injuries for those working hardest. I wouldn't touch that with a barge pole if I had any choice at all :¬)

Alphabet1spaghetti2 · 21/01/2026 17:17

Both myself and my best friend have done so. Bit thought various hobbies we were already reasonably fit. )not couch potatoes but not gym fit either!)
Now in our fifties, neither of us are entirely sure we could keep going until 67. Personally, another 4 1/2 years and I’m retiring - knees and back are beginning to complain and I onlY so 31.5 hours over 6 days.

FitnessEconomics · 21/01/2026 17:24

Is that working as a housekeeper?

Egglio · 21/01/2026 17:27

Women have trained as nurses in middle age for years - that's quite physical depending on where you end up!

Ohdearfarmer · 21/01/2026 17:32

I started physical work in my early teens, went office based at 32 although still v active outside work. Now having to return to physical work at 40. Mentally I yearn for it, physically im fucked! I have a bad back, my joints all ache and i'm in perimenopause so fatigue and temperature control are there to contend with. Not sure how i'm going to get to retirement at this rate. :/

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