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Took old job to tribunal, now manager won't write me a reference

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ToeSucker · 02/12/2025 12:13

I was well regarded when I worked at my previous company but they had significant management issues which meant they were breaking employment law in a number of ways.
I handled the situation entirely professionally and politely via ACAS and they eventually paid me most of what I was owed.
However, now I need a reference and my old boss (a board member) won't respond to me.

Do I just have to accept this and look terrible to future employers though no fault of my own?

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IceIceSlippyIce · 02/12/2025 12:21

Can you get a generic HR reference from the company?

Meadowfinch · 02/12/2025 12:40

Agree with PP. You need a standard HR reference (dates, job title etc.) from their HR department.

Your old boss doesn't have to give you a personal reference. You've asked him, he may be OOO, so give him a little time but find another personal reference to fall back on..

EBearhug · 02/12/2025 12:44

Many companies aren't keen on managers giving personal references these days, but a decent person would just let you know they've forwarded it to HR, or would advise you to contact HR instead.

tanstaafl · 02/12/2025 12:44

I think the new company prefers references from HR these days?
To avoid the glowing reference actually written by the best mate boss, or nephew boss and so on.

Magicmonster · 02/12/2025 12:46

If the tribunal was for discrimination then refusing to provide a reference would constitute unlawful victimisation. Agree with the above though about going through HR for any reference requests.

ToeSucker · 02/12/2025 13:04

Thank you. The tribunal was for unpaid wages, expenses, pension. Otherwise no issues.

There is no HR department AND agency has asked for a reference from a manager.

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