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New job or stay at current one

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Brett9 · 07/11/2025 09:27

I’m happy in my job, I was on the website of somewhere I love to visit and was moseying around and saw they had my job role so I applied on a whim thinking I’d love to work there.

current job is wfh, pay is good and very flexible around kids. Work is boring but as it’s flexible I’m not complaining.

new job would be in the office (45 min commute) half days Monday and Friday and 9-5 mid week. It was full time but I asked for this set up as it would help me with kids and clubs etc. Day to day I would enjoy the work and being with people again, and it’s for a company I love and visit regularly with kids (obviously as I wasn’t actually looking for a new job)

i have verbally accepted, I haven’t had a contract or anything. And I have discussed with my current manager (who is a very good friend) this new role and he said I am due a 5% increase in pay in Jan which isn’t a false promise as it tends to happen each year. I did take home difference and it’s quite substantial about £400 a month after factoring in pay difference and fuel costs. Would you go back to the offer and ask them to increase the salary? I don’t want annoy them as they are really nice and don’t want to mess them around. But at the same time knowing this potential loss each month is a lot and is swaying me to stay put.

Has anyone had this before? And did you ask for more? Or take the plunge of a new job when there’s not a huge amount wrong with your current one, this one just really excites me. Thanks!

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FlappicusSmith · 07/11/2025 13:49

I don't think there's anything wrong with opening negotiations with them. I think it's pretty standard in some sectors/ roles to negotiate an offer (it's not in mine!).

I'm not great at wording these things, but there are some previous threads on this and/or you can get ChatGPT to help you word it in a way that makes it clear you want to take the job. I wouldn't bring in your commuting costs though - as that's not your potential employer's problem.

Brett9 · 07/11/2025 19:32

thankyou for replying, I’ve used chat gpt to write me one, hopefully it goes well

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ItsOnlyHobnobs · 07/11/2025 19:49

Is the difference in Pay because you currently work full time, but the new job is reduced hours with the two half days?

Brett9 · 08/11/2025 07:50

no sorry my current is also 4 days a week, it’s a lower salary after my increase

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Hehx3 · 08/11/2025 21:07

Hi @Brett9it is a tough one. The unknown and change are always scary. If I was in your situation I think I would change for better money. £400 monthly is a big increase. You could invest it, save it and spend on a holiday abroad etc. you dont know what new job will bring equally situation in your current job can change quickly too i.e. staff changes, management issues etc.
I like my job but I dont love it so I would do practical choice on the basis it might bring me my retirement quicker (im over 40). how are you feeling about your role?

Brett9 · 08/11/2025 21:36

Thank you for your replies, just to let you know they said they would match what my company offered so I’m now not losing out on taking the new role. They were really nice about it and appreciated me being transparent about deliberating it and want the job to work for me. So just for anyone doubting what to do hopefully this helps that there’s no harm in asking!

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