A previous colleague is applying for a senior role at my current company and has messaged me to ask how I am finding it.
It is a pretty terrible company, toxic culture, people getting laid off on a whim, and also a bit of a mess in how it is run generally which makes day to day hard!
I am in a team which is fairly sheltered from all the drama so it doesn't affect me too much and I love my role so it has sort of worked out for me.
But the role he is applying for would be right in the middle of the storm.
How honest should I be with him? I am so worried if I say anything bad that it could somehow get back to my company (e.g. if she turns down a job offer) and I could get fired or something (that's how paranoid you can get!) but also want to pre-warn him. What would you do? Highlight some of the positives and throw in subtly worded negatives?