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Should I apply for this job...

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Zara445 · 31/10/2025 20:56

I am doing a PhD, also single parent to DD(10). I am currently in the intense writing up period of PhD with hopes of it being complete and submitted in March '26.
I currently work 16 hours. However, a full time job has come up related to my current role which pays very well. My main priority at the moment is being present as a parent - doing the PhD has given me great flexibility to do school pick up and drops off, be at sports days, plays etc. My priority is also getting PhD complete so I can then focus on career.

The job which closes Sunday (so i need to quickly make a decision) would be great financially, and good career prospects. It is only 12 months maternity cover, but it would really open up doors too.

I need some help! I'm torn between staying part time and making sure I can submit PhD (after 6 years working on it part time) with applying for the full time position. Being very honest - time already feels very stretched so not sure how feasible it would be.

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Sunbeam18 · 31/10/2025 20:58

I'd apply and see what happens, you have nothing to lose and useful experience either way

Wineandrun · 31/10/2025 21:03

I’m the kind of person who thinks they can do everything, I have the busiest life people can imagine, but trying to do my PhD full time, whilst working full time and looking after my kids nearly finished me off. I lasted three months then had to revert to part time PhD (because the job was the most incredible opportunity, pays extremely well and I’m still doing it now, and luckily relates to my PhD!)

having said that, I would probably apply for the job. I’m a believer in seizing opportunities- worst case, you have to delay handing it in or you quit the job and you’re no worse off. It’s not for long. At 10, your DD will realise that you need to take these opportunities and she will manage you missing the occasional sports day etc for a few months.

Good luck whatever you decide, if you decide not to apply for the job (which remember you may not even get and the application process alone would be a great learning opportunity, or you may decide after interview you don’t even want it) then other things will come up.

Zara445 · 31/10/2025 21:09

@Wineandrun Thank you for the advice. I'm only doing PhD part-time but also currently feels like full time with the writing up!
@Sunbeam18 Thank you - yes I guess there's nothing I have to loose.

I need two referees which I would use from my current role, however, as I have not approached them to ask them - do you think it is acceptable to still list them?

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Sunbeam18 · 31/10/2025 22:33

Yes, they will only take them up if you are offered and accept the role so you can ask them at that point. Good luck!

Wineandrun · 01/11/2025 09:13

Agree with Sunbeam. References only approached should you be offered the job. Good luck!!

PerkyCyanPoet · 01/11/2025 09:14

You might as well. It’s just an application, you’re not committing to anything.

jkjkazcfdspor · 01/11/2025 09:18

Definitely apply and see how it goes, recruitment can often be so slow there’s a good chance you wouldn’t even be in role until the new year (bearing in mind many people have 3 month notice period depending on the seniority of the role, so may be able to negotiate). Maybe see if you can get as much done as possible now?

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