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HolboB · 22/10/2025 18:59

Sorry for the long post….So I started at a company in August 2024, everything has been great, I work in Payroll, I’m the only payroll employee & the only one qualified to do payroll. The company has 6 pay runs for over 250 employees and whilst I’m part of the wider finance team they don’t know where to even begin processing payroll.
5 weeks ago, my partner went into hospital for emergency surgery, at this point we were 6 weeks out from our wedding.
I got a call to say I was being made redundant, the role was being absorbed by the wider finance team.
11 others were made redundant, all of which have now left the business.
My notice period is 3 months, they’re making me work 9 weeks of which to train 6 other members of staff to do my job. None of which have payroll experience, therefore they all need a lot of guidance.
I am now 1 week away from my wedding, getting no sleep due to stress as my workload has tripled with meetings, calls, handovers, generating handover notes, writing how to guides for every step of my job, all whilst actually trying to do my job.
I had annual leave booked for 1 day, approved by my manager and I still had to respond to emails, teams messages, organise my diary for more handover meetings.
I agreed to the redundancy as I was stressed with my partner in surgery, our upcoming wedding, my daughters birthday and Christmas all coming up and I didn’t have the fight in me to argue reasons why they should keep me.
my question now is, has anybody been in a similar situation with redundancy when they’re having to train 6 others to do the role? Including a receptionist who has been dragged in as backup, bless her she’s never been so stressed in her life!

where would I stand in terms of going on the sick until the end of my 9 weeks? I’m entitled to company sick pay, would they still have to pay me etc?

Any advice to make the next few weeks bearable would be appreciated!! I’m not entitled to redundancy so I’m leaving with 3 weeks pay, it hardly even seems worth all the hassle!!

thanks in advance!

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Waitfortheguinness · 23/10/2025 14:03

topcat2014 · 23/10/2025 09:30

Is it a school? Everyone who's never run a large payroll presumes it's easy especially teachers

Absolutely, the amount of managers who seem to think finance people are just basically computer operators > well, you use an Accounting Software package….doesn’t it do all that for you!……attitude. They have no concept of the knowledge, discipline and training that is required is astounding!
they’ve told to you go…..you do you….and sod them…..

MadisonMarieParksValetta · 23/10/2025 15:41

I can't believe you haven't went on the sick yet. Fair play to you. But I'd not give them another second of my time.

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 23/10/2025 15:44

You're doing way too much. Don't work a single extra minute you're not paid for - if people aren't trained, not your problem.

Karatema · 23/10/2025 16:49

Go to your GP and get signed off for stress!
With regards to redundancy, my understanding is they can only make you redundant if your job is no longer needed. Speak to ACAS if you are not in a union.
With your future DH bring ill, in hospital, you would have been entitled to compassionate leave.

First step - get signed off work for stress.
Second step - enjoy your wedding.
Third step - speak to ACAS

MMUmum · 23/10/2025 18:54

When people are banging on HR's door because their wages are wrong, your ex bosses will be banging on yours to go back, what sort of management team thinks you can teach payroll to staff with no experience while still doing your own job?? I can see chaos ahead, go sick and enjoy your wedding

topcat2014 · 23/10/2025 21:03

And we are not talking about payroll for 6 people in one office on a flat salary here.

Straycats · 24/10/2025 08:01

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 23/10/2025 06:31

It’s not your problem. Stop thinking about it. Cut it from your mind. Have a great wedding. An amazing honeymoon. Get a new job. Never think about any of these people ever again.

also go sick.

today.

never go back.

100% this. You’ve gone way beyond and above, the company have played you and treated you shockingly abysmally you owe them nothing. Please please go on sick leave.

Needlesnah · 24/10/2025 08:06

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 23/10/2025 06:31

It’s not your problem. Stop thinking about it. Cut it from your mind. Have a great wedding. An amazing honeymoon. Get a new job. Never think about any of these people ever again.

also go sick.

today.

never go back.

I would go with this personally ☝️

At this point you owe them nothing.

isthesolution · 24/10/2025 08:23

I’d explain to management that the job you are doing takes up 100% of your working hours. You can either keep doing this job or instead move into a training role, even though training does not form part of your job description but both are not an option. Let them choose. Explain you have a week of leave booked which you are unable to change (you could in Mexico - none of their business)

If they ask you to do two jobs then go off with stress.

DancingNotDrowning · 24/10/2025 08:38

You sound like you’re genuinely sick so go off sick.

if that’s not something you’re comfortable with, work to rule: if your hours are 9-5, work 9-5. If you’re be asked to do things that are not possible, say so.
At this stage it is not your problem.

Shinyandnew1 · 24/10/2025 08:48

I was asked to cancel my annual leave for the week following the wedding as they thought it would “cut short” the time I had to train the other members of staff. No bonus, not even a thank you so far, just an expectation not to let them see the reality of how difficult it will be to do my job as they aren’t qualified or do they have any experience and a request of a “personal favour” from my manager to remain positive at all times as he can’t have his “other employee’s” going off sick due to stress or searching for new jobs! I feel like they’re totally* taking the piss out of me tbh*

That's because they are! Go to the GP and get signed off. They are treating you appallingly.

It sounds like they'll probably blame everything on you when you've gone, no matter how good a job you do with the handover as well!

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